I really want to support her in her choice but at the same time I want her to look sexy and beautiful when we're out.
Can you advise me of what to do?
Lol some men would kill to have their wives tone it down a bit. First off, you're not allowed to even have an opinion on this. This is a huge change in lifestyle which can be almost impossible to attain. Obviously as a man you can never understand this because you do not have limitations imposed by society. Imagine that she was used to wearing a burqa everyday and suddenly she's in the US and wearing that is deemed 'wrong', so she has to uplift all of the values that she's ever known. If you want to try and be suggestive, buy something a little less conservative for her (obviously no plunging necklines or minis just yet), just to show her what you would like her to lean towards. But don't hold your breath.
"First off, you're not allowed to even have an opinion on this." What? That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard... everyone's entitled to an opinion.
Why did you marry your wife if your not going to love her for who she is? She is clearly not comfortable with dressing that way... stop looking at other women and comparing your wife to them. That just makes women more insecure...
Start at home. Bring her sexy clothes to wear inside home where she is comfortable. Gradually she would develop liking for such stuff. Also admire her body, semi-nudity and charm. It would give her a psychic boost and confidence.
Thanks for selecting me one of the MHGs.
You're disgusting.
There's no valid reason for that.
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Love your wife for who she is and respect her choice. You knew she was like this before you married her.
Buy her sexy clothes and hope she wear it. There's no much more to do.
its her choice, let her be
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