Men, why do some of you believe that women dress up to impress you? (Page 2)
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We don't care about your clothes. If we think you're attractive then we will chase you. Your problem is you're full of yourself.
The only men who truly believe that you're dressing up for them, is a boyfriend. Or even a date.
None of us look at a random girl on the street and think. "She dressed up for me." You know what most guys think. "she's pretty, maybe I should talk to her." Ext, ext, ext.
Well not me, specifically, but people who align with their sexuality, yeah. I personally wouldn't care about my appearance if there were no girls in the world. And I'd imagine girls dress up to look attractive to men, and if not, they sure dress up in ways men particularly happen to like. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. I don't mean it maliciously. It just seems reasonable.
I know I do dress up to impress men (sometimes.) Especially when I’m going out. I also dress up to feel confident and impress other girls, so it’s a combination of the three. So it really depends, some women do and some don’t you can’t really generalise.
I could ask in return, "Women, why do you believe YOUR motivation for doing something represents ALL women EVERYWHERE?"
I'm just messing around, but seriously, yes I think most men understand women are not always every time dressing to impress a man and basing all their actions around men and men's attention. But I think it's equally silly to assume they never do it, because they (some) do.
I admire a woman who takes time to care for how she looks in public weather it's to attract a dude or not it's her respecting herself enough to look presentable at all times I mean I have seen women out in public who should have stayed in bed and ladies if I can say honestly respectfully, please don't ear so much make up most of you have natural beauty lipstick and eye linr you know, lite cosmetics, all that facial stuff is clogging your pores causing pock marks on your skin, blemishes, not needed ok seen some women who will scare the crap out of you with so much on
I like to wear makeup and stuff as an art form. I want to look how I want to look. Simple as that. It's a fun concept to apply new ideas to, and there are so many options.
I dress up for my woman and she dresses up for me... and the reverse too ^^
no but seriously we wear things for each other that we like each other to wear. No problems whatsoever. We do everything for each other! She wants me to smell like vanilla and wear sweaters and I like her in black or dark cool colors and smelling of strawberries. :D
Not just men but people don’t always think things all the way through. The thing is, a certain degree of it is women feeling good about them selves and just simply liking the clothes as it fits their personality but another aspect is also looking good to attract a mate. Hardly ever, HARDLY EVER, is something the result of one solitary variable. The reason why women dress the way they do is because of a plethora of variables that we cannot even account for.
I'm not sure why they think so.
I've never been one to pay attention to clothes, be it what I wear or what others wear.
I've never been a fan of dressing up but that's something I hold for myself, I wouldn't force my opinion on others. If you like doing it, enjoy yourself. Do what makes you happy.
Only stupid incels say that not men. I also Think dressing sexy or getting attractive for men or women is not bad. Men also go to gym and get muscles for women but nobody hate these men. We should stop slutshaming women who dress for men. Majority of women are hetero and so of course they want to be attractive for men. So the problem is slutshaming
Because we dres nice just for girls.
I ther is no girl around i dresed olmoust like a homles guy.
I dres nice to impres girls, when i go to jork to look good for the clients and that all.
If i go to shop to buy somethin i will dres very confortable, very careless of what i have on me, a shirt and some pants and some slippers on my feets, because i don't go to impres girl to shop, i'm just hungry or thirty.
My time towing cars going to college taught me that yes, women do dress to impress men.
You want to see some dolled up women, go down to your local vehicle impound on Saturday or Sunday morning.
Gonna be a couple of women there dressed to the nines thinking they are gonna manipulate the towing guy into giving them thier car back without paying.
Because presumably women like men, and men are injecting a reasonable assumption about themselves as well.
It makes sense to dress to impress people you’re interested and it’s what guys do. And it’s a reasonable assumption that women might take their interest in men into account with their attire. And it’s obvious they often do, just with extra steps.
Because you do. Maybe not for any one guy specifically, but for guys in general. That’s just what all animals, including humans, do. We display ourselves for the opposite sex. Nothing to be ashamed of.
"I personally like dressing to impress, not men but anyone around me, I love the attention and energy I get when I dress up."
And with that you have answered your own question and therefore contradicting your initial claims.
Well you don't need to dress fancy to cover up. A burlap sack will do. If your not dressing up to impress or make an impression, who are you dressing up for?
Perhaps you should get familiar with my friend Dr. Freud. He had great insights into things like this.
Oh crap! I should have looked at your age. Never mind, nothing to see hear.
However you break it down it always relates back to other people. Always. Dressing up would not feel good or anything if there were 0 people in the world. Women who dress up at home and go no where and who aren't seen by anyone are simply in the habit of dressing up. There is always a motive/reason behind every action even if you can't pinpoint it.
Because sometimes it's true. If a woman is with a man who she truly respects she DOES dress for him. Yes, it's common for women to not respect men today and it's also common for many guys (and women) to not have earned respect.
Well a number of reasons, the first is men like to flatter themselves as you say, the second is that feminists blame male culture for the fact that women feel the urge to stay thin and wear heals and stuff. Men are left not knowing what to do. If we say that women ought to dress up we are perpetrating a forced body image on women. If we say that they should not then we are guilty of assuming they dress for us. If we remain silent we are guilty of not standing up to male supremacy.
I dress nicely because it makes me feel “put together”. But it’s always nice to get compliments from my husband about how I look.