Nah, I think im attractive. I used to be very insecure bout my looks coz the quality of the iphone camera i used to take selfies with was shitty af and highlights all the bad stuff on my face. But guys called me "cute', "pretty" "hot" "sexy" and "beautiful" and i became more confident. As long as you dont degrade anyone cuz of their looks, ur good
@KittygosMeoWW holy shit please stop lol. we talk cordially. she also has a good head on her shoulders who can decide who is a creep or not. and its not me. so please just stop this already
I’m not 14, I’m 16, the age is wrong on here and I’m not able to change it back. I’m graduating high school in a year and half lol. And I didn’t send him anything nor did he ask me for anything
Oh god no, certainly not always! One of the many lessons my parents have taught me that has so far proven true, is that when dealing with human behavior is that there is no such thing as always, or never! Their exact quote was “you should avoid using, and usually doubt, all-inclusive and all-exclusive statements about human beings… especially when involving human behavior! I believe that I am an attractive woman. The problem comes when someone believes that their attractiveness makes them BETTER than others’! Let’s be honest, who ever believed the pretty girl or the gorgeous hunk when they said “oh no, I’m not attractive, look at me” (as they list off clearly false beliefs about their looks)? As long as someone has a healthy ego, and understands that while beauty will fade, arrogance and stupidity is forever, and keep that ego in check, never forgetting that there will always be someone more attractive than them (which doesn’t matter), therefore their “beauty” over others’ is equally irrelevant, then I believe that someone can be attractive, yet be neither conceited nor arrogant!
Very nice. yeah there's plenty of those “im not attractive look at me” types when clearly attractive at least conventionally anyways. Thanks for the answer :)
No it's not. Lots of people accuse others of being a narcissist if they admit they know they're attractive or if they post pics of themselves online.
The way I see it, it's better to have that mindset than to have little or no self-self-esteem. In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with knowing and admitting you're attractive.
I don't think anyone should belittle themselves or hold back from admitting they are attractive , if a situation arises to talk talk about they're appearance. People always try to knock down people with confidence and high self-esteem.
No way. How can I expect anyone else to remotely think I’m attractive if I can’t get myself to think the same way to begin with. Beside, memes on the internet say
I think it's completely okay to feel attractive and to recognize that other people see you that way. It's only conceited when someone feels self-important and is narcissistic, shallow, vain and arrogant, or they force their perceived self-importance onto other people, or attempt to belittle/demean/degrade others in order to classify and separate people they perceive as "below" or "inferior" to them, simply based on the shallowness of vanity.
However, if you are genuinely humble, inclusive and tolerant as a person, and don't seek to classify people as "below" you, simply because of someone's looks, there is no problem with it at all. It's only when people walk around with a sense of arrogance and intolerance toward others that it crosses the line of indecency. It's very unbecoming as a person IMHO.
You can think you're attractive, that's fine. It's people who think they are attractive and use that as an excuse to be rude and disrespectful to others that become arrogant
That's nothing wrong in being confident in your appearance.. It's when people are boastful about it or think that makes them better than others and treat other people condescendingly that it crosses the line from confidence to arrogance..
Let me put it this way - if you _are_ good looking but don't think it - quite a few people think you are a sucker. So, no - I think it is perfectly fine to think you look the way you really think you look (there is no need to be arrogant or unapproachable, though - the latter, perhaps, when in a relationship - but still never a need to be arrogant (arrogance is a lack of confidence covered by a veneer of faked superiority)). (Sometimes people think I say really smart things - I don't know if that is the case or not 🤷♂️; I only know me as being that way)
No, I wouldn't say it's always arrogant. Some people are indeed attractive and there's nothing wrong with admitting it. However, others think too much of themselves, they're not humble so in that case they're being arrogant.
to think you're attractive is not arrogant no, especially when it is very true
to act like you're somehow better than others because of that, that's when it starts to become arrogant, it's when you attribute yourself and act upon with certain attitudes, that's misplaced confidence.
I read a Sherlock Holmes short story recently where he's introducing Watson to his brother and says his brother is smarter than him. Watson is skeptical, but Holmes assures him that he is being honest, because he sees both bragging and false humility as pointless.
Not always but often is Hmm yes i feel so. I also have my own headshot as my phone wallpaper phone screensaver. I just love my appearance. Ironically i do not date women who look like me (gross be like dating my spitting image mother who i take after). I guess i am a feminine looking male facially a little. Sigh
If you think you look attractive, that’s your opinion. It’s in no way arrogant to have a positive opinion on how you look. It become arrogant when you assume someone else will think you’re attractive simply because you do. This also depends. If for example you know the likes and dislikes of someone you’re close to, assuming they’ll think you’re attractive based on what you know about them wouldn’t be arrogant. But assuming such with someone you don’t know can be very arrogant.
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