Chokers are hot and you have good taste but honestly I think they can make you look slutty, that's just what my brain tells me and others will think differently. They also make you seem submissive which there's nothing wrong with either.
But why is it associated with being slutty? The submissive thing maybe is more reasonable but it's just fashion, doesn't always have like underlying meanings
I really don't know how to explain it but it always gave me the vibe that a girl is good at blowjobs, maybe that's from my experiences but it has slutty connotations in my opinion.
Maybe the ones I tried were cheap material or something. But I also just don't really like stuff touching my neck. I won't even wear a sweater with a neck on it unless it's really cold out
@zaharuh Just like I said earlier the vibe I get from you, you ain't innocent and there's nothing wrong with that, I know the freaky type when I see em
@zaharuh you have to find someone who you can trust. Someone who can respect your boundaries and someone who you can discuss their boundaries and yours.
well of course she isn't going to say it outright but the fact she entertained it says a lot to me, I know em when I see em, you can't hide from it zaharuh, why not admit it? we're all anonymous anyways..
why she acting like she needed to tell us bih you wearing leather chokers n shit we know you freaky 😋 I could tell just by the way you respondin to people
I don't see them as slutty. I will mention that if you're into BDSM you can get a collar that is designed to look like a choker. Maybe that's what he neant.
The one I wore wasn't big leather collar looking thing it won't let me put links but if you paste "black velvet choker / black choker necklace" into google it should show the one from etsy and that's pretty much what I was wearing, do you think it looks like a collar?
I thought they looked dumb when i was in elementary. When i got to HS, i wore em and found em cool. Then in college, i found out that wearing chokers meant you were a dick sucker. Like wtf 🤣
@MCheetah i didn't suck dick until my one boyfriend at age 23. he's the only one I've done that too. So to be called that before i even started pissed me off
@adolfohittando Okay I know that, I'm not a super innocent girl or anything but I don't think you should be saying that so lightly. Some people might get really offended lol
@zaharuh Listen, I don't know you or anything but just the vibe i get from you you might fit the "stereotype" more than you think. fyi I don't give a shit what people think
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It's style if u feeling it and it boosts your confidence then that's good do your thing and I do think its dope 🥰!!
Yeah it's definitely part of my style, thank you.
Your welcome:)!!
Gonna keep it short! It belongs to the 90s and early 2000s. Other wise! What do i know, i am a guy
Maybe I'm slow but I don't understand lol
What i mean is! Chokers were a trend in the 90s and early 2000s, after that is started fading away.
Oh okay! You might be surprised though they are kind of popular still.
Chokers are hot and you have good taste but honestly I think they can make you look slutty, that's just what my brain tells me and others will think differently. They also make you seem submissive which there's nothing wrong with either.
But why is it associated with being slutty? The submissive thing maybe is more reasonable but it's just fashion, doesn't always have like underlying meanings
I really don't know how to explain it but it always gave me the vibe that a girl is good at blowjobs, maybe that's from my experiences but it has slutty connotations in my opinion.
I don't really understand but thanks for answering
I was always told that chokers are a black belt in in sucking dick
Do u suck
@Hassaniscool my husbands cock
@Subarugirl
Than make me your husband for 20min once blowjob done we will give divorce to eachother. ❤️
@Sam_The_Savage go blow yourself
How u suck
Good girl
Lmao this is the 2nd time I've heard this now
That's exactly what it is.
She open herself up because she sucks at it
Which county
Does it matter at this point they all suck
I find them uncomfortable, but I don't really notice when other people wear then
Are you saying that like you have tried them before or you think they look uncomfortable?
I've tried wearing them a few times but didn't like how they felt
That's interesting I never found mine to be uncomfortable unless I'm wearing one that has stones/jewelry on it for too long.
Maybe the ones I tried were cheap material or something. But I also just don't really like stuff touching my neck. I won't even wear a sweater with a neck on it unless it's really cold out
I don't mind chokers, they can look good tbh, wear what you want
Yeah I decided I'm going to wear them anyways
Can look pretty hot/cute, depending on the style.
Haven't really thought that somebody is more freaky because of it.
You're one of the few it seems 😂
I always thought women who wore them were tie me up freaky because it always look like a collar to me
Lmao I feel like it would be the other way around if you see it as a collar, just saying.
@zaharuh I think your speaking for yourself ;)
@zaharuh lmao maybe I am freaky, like tie a leash to the collar freaky 😈
@mrswisher I guess I won't knock it till I try it 🤣
@zaharuh see your freaky too because you're now entertaining the idea
@mrswisher I guess I never said I wasn't
@zaharuh perhaps some day you'll find someone who'll pull on the leash and enjoy the fact that someone will walk you like a dog
LMAO I don't think I'd actually go through with that
@zaharuh Just like I said earlier the vibe I get from you, you ain't innocent and there's nothing wrong with that, I know the freaky type when I see em
@zaharuh you have to find someone who you can trust. Someone who can respect your boundaries and someone who you can discuss their boundaries and yours.
You guys are so ridiculous omg lol
@zaharuh ridiculous times create ridiculous men
well of course she isn't going to say it outright but the fact she entertained it says a lot to me, I know em when I see em, you can't hide from it zaharuh, why not admit it? we're all anonymous anyways..
@adolfohittando Okay like so what if I'm into things? Does that make you happy lol I'll give you credit like you are so persistent
why she acting like she needed to tell us bih you wearing leather chokers n shit we know you freaky 😋 I could tell just by the way you respondin to people
You admitting was all I wanted to hear! All I'll say is I'm sure you're a lot of fun :)
I think you got it mixed up brother, these women are the ones that love being tied up
I think they are sexy but everyone that I know has always said its a sign that the girl is good at giving head/enjoys it.
Lmao the fact that 3 people here have said that is concerning
people are saying that for good reason lol I know fs you ain't innocent stop playing girl
@zaharuh its true 🤣😝
It is what it is I guess
I don't see them as slutty. I will mention that if you're into BDSM you can get a collar that is designed to look like a choker. Maybe that's what he neant.
The one I wore wasn't big leather collar looking thing it won't let me put links but if you paste "black velvet choker / black choker necklace" into google it should show the one from etsy and that's pretty much what I was wearing, do you think it looks like a collar?
No, but again it's a collar that looks like a choker not obviously a collar
It's weird because I never bought it with the thought of it being/looking like a collar maybe I'm dumb 😂 whatever I'm probably still going to wear it
I didn't know that was possible until I read a book about that lifestyle
I really like girls who wear them. It can add some kind of spice to there look.
I agree!
It definitely makes me think kinky thoughts when I see a girl wearing one
i dont like the lace ones, the ones that look like collars are cute though.
As long as the collar looking ones are thin I like them but I love the lace ones
I saw some cosplayer women who had thin leather ones will a bell hanging off the center, those looked nice on them.
I have usually found females who wear them to be somewhat submissive and that they are a sign of their submissiveness
That's reasonable
I can't how else it would be represented.
I love them, but I avoid the black lace chokers. I think those are what other people would describe as slutty
Those are some of my favorite lmao I like how they contrast with my skin
Haha fair, everyone has their own preferences
Some of them are really pretty if the rest of the head looks good. Some of them just make ya look weird
Yeah I think having somewhat smooth skin is a must for them. Also some can be ridiculous lol
I thought they looked dumb when i was in elementary. When i got to HS, i wore em and found em cool. Then in college, i found out that wearing chokers meant you were a dick sucker. Like wtf 🤣
But... AREN'T you, though? (Specifically ones under 7"?)
Okay like I never knew it had that stereotype until now, so weird honestly
@MCheetah i didn't suck dick until my one boyfriend at age 23. he's the only one I've done that too. So to be called that before i even started pissed me off
@DizzyDesii You were far more innocent than me but I don't feel like I necessarily fit the stereotype either
@zaharuh There's nothing wrong with being a little slutty
@adolfohittando i prefer the term “freaky”. Fck that slut shit lmao
@DizzyDesii Fair, perhaps I'm being a bit rude but this whole thread is hilarious it's hard not to chime in.
@adolfohittando its not rude. Im always up for a good group chat
@adolfohittando Okay I know that, I'm not a super innocent girl or anything but I don't think you should be saying that so lightly. Some people might get really offended lol
@zaharuh Listen, I don't know you or anything but just the vibe i get from you you might fit the "stereotype" more than you think. fyi I don't give a shit what people think
You know what and that's fine with me I guess I am who I am 🤷🏻♀️ I shouldn't care what other people think either
@zaharuh Now that's a response I can respect, more power to ya girl.
i see it as a sexual thing but if you like it you do that
Yeah I'm going to wear them anyways.
as you should if you like it
Don't let him put his concept of morality on you. Do what pleases you.
That's true
Good for you!! I love them, and to me they don't look slutty, they look elegant
I agree!
There can be a certain sexiness to them, but it is classy and even mysterious