Why do people assume with short hair you must be lesbian or bi sexual?

[readyplayer001]

I had a conversation with some users on here and some in person which led to this post. why do a lot of people assume a female with a short hair cut is lesbian or bi sexual? There are plenty of female who have a short hair cut that are not any of those, plenty have long hair. there are also plenty of guys in sports who are not gay sporting man buns, dreads, ponytails etc

I don't know why

I know why

It is just a hair cut, they read too much into it

[MCheetah]

Because A) Most lesbians have that as their signature haircut, and B) according to this website - and hell, real life - apparently almost half of all women are gay, so making such assumptions isn't TOO far off. 44.6% are, queer according to THIS post. Which is just SO f*cked up... Only 55.4% of women are actually into men, i. e, heterosexual/straight. Seriously, that's the most depressing, "just give up life right now" sh*t I've seen all week.

[readyplayer001]

no they dont tons have long flowing hair lol
who said that to you? no one to give up? stop being so negative bro! there are tons of guys with long hair that aren't gay hence your sports stars with dreads and such? they are not all gay or bi

[user1245322]

Because we live in a very judgmental place, where everyone thinks they know everything and they don't know shit, if you don't ask. my wife had short hair due to the military and loved it then through her chemo had it, people thought lots of things because they are assh*les

[readyplayer001]

sadly i know :(

[TacosRAwesome]

I don't assume someone is lesbian or bi just because they have short hair especially if short hair is trendy at the time, but there is a full look that would surprise me to find out they're straight.

[Cherry234]

It doesn't make sense to me. They're making a big deal out of nothing. I got my hair cut a year or two ago and I have short hair. I'm in NO WAY lesbian or bisexual

[Vikkrram]

It's all in our mind that we have seen in our 100 of years. So as time changed something changed with time, but still people have these certain kinda things in mind they just see as traditional approach. That's why i guess

[dustybiker]

Depends on how you carry yourself and what you wear too. Short works better on some than others.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because some people are stupid and stereotype everything (and then they complain when people don't fit a stereotype).

[Lliam]

I think some short styles on women look really cute/attractive, as long as it isn't a boy's haircut, then it's butch.

[Anonymous]

Because that is the case more often than not, if not today then certainly in the past.

So its a hold over from an old sterotype and like all sterotypes there is an element of truth to it.

I disagree with your absolute language though, I do not accept that 'people assume it must be the case' rather they wonder if it might be the case.

[readyplayer001]

you cannot disagree if you do not know nor ask the content of why that was used, where i live in rural pa it is assumed right away

[readyplayer001]

and you have long hair thats like saying automatically you are gay, again in most cases then not with guys as well.

[readyplayer001]

you girls take it somewhere else, i said what i said and it is what it is, assumptions see what happens no one likes them

[DeeDeeDeVour]

When I had short hair, nobody assumed or suspected that I was a lesbian or bi.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Not sure, it might be a stereotype but also an instinct. Its known that long hair on a girl attract guys more than short hair

[WowwGirl]

Because you probably are it's very unfeminine. My guy would freak out and probably not come near me if I did that

[Shihab91]

Honestly because i have never seen an attractive woman with shot hair 🤷🏻‍♂️

[readyplayer001]

whoa not even halle berry?

[Rachelspiks]

Maybe you should look harder. Try opening your eyes, that might help. :)

[Shihab91]

I'm talking about very short

[readyplayer001]

@shihab91 demi moore when she had it?

[Shihab91]

Kinda yes or even shorter

[Shihab91]

And one woman gave me dislike 😆

[readyplayer001]

@shihab91 maybe it was demi moore lol

[Shihab91]

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo 😢😆

[readyplayer001]

@shihab91 ah ha

[Still-alive]

Its a huge stereotype from tv and movies.

[readyplayer001]

true and society as a whole

[Kania54]

When I see a woman, I assume she is bisexual. It doesn't matter if she has short hair.

[readyplayer001]

lol, not all of us females are but nice to hear you do not discriminate

[Rachelspiks]

That's the kind of assumption a man would make. Are you one of those Kania? Just curious :)

[FunkyMonkee]

Because it's mostly lezzies that go for the butch look.

[readyplayer001]

some people going through chemo and other health issues, plenty of lesbians and bi sexual have indeed long hair

[FunkyMonkee]

True but, lezzies mostly have short hair.

[readyplayer001]

I see far more with long hair these days, more where i live its soccer mom types with short hair

[FunkyMonkee]

But, do they look like military guys with tits and high voices wearing make-up?

[FunkyMonkee]

The ones with the long hair are the women in the lezzie relationshiips.

[readyplayer001]

wrong i have friends with long hair lesbian not in relationships yet

[readyplayer001]

at 54 you know what a soccer mom is

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, we almost had one for President a few years back!

[readyplayer001]

ah ha i didn't vote for her

[FunkyMonkee]

Not many did!

[readyplayer001]

i wonder if bill was forced? keep in mind he should have probably inhaled BWAHAHAHAH

[FunkyMonkee]

Bill Clinton? Even his own brother says that Bill has a nose like a vacuum cleaner!

[ChiPaPa]

I don't.

[readyplayer001]

because you are awesome thats why you don't!