Why are most girls bisexual but still heteroromantic?

[Anonymous]

Most women seem to be bisexual but however herteroromantic. Basically they want to F women but not be in a relationship with one.
why?
Do women as a whole just find women more attractive sexually/ physically? Or they just dont have a hardwired sexual orientation?
The part that gets me is they prefer women in every other way except when it comes to relationships, which i assume is because they feel moe protected and are provided for by men.
this gets me because it feels like women just use men. They want them for loving, protection and someone to provide but not someone to F*** preferably.

[JohnOh1986]

I think most women are still more into sex with men, but society allows them to engage in homosexuality more than it does men. I feel romantic orientation is more a determining factor in overall orientation actually. Plus lesbianism is encouraged in the West now.

I'll add what I wrote in another post: Yes, society is more open and accepting, but female homosexuality/bisexuality in the West is not only tolerated but fetishised and now ENCOURAGED. Raunch culture, porn, and now third/fourth wave feminism glorify, sexualise women and do the opposite to men. So its partly a fad, even if a significant number of people have SSA, but its mostly women who are allowed to explore that. For men it is changing but still a lot less embraced.

[TheCrimsonPath97]

Most girls aren't bisexual. Only the mentally-ill ones are.

[strangytie]

Aren't all women crazy though?

[Anonymous]

As a bisexual female , it gets to me too and its something I've noticed a lot. Women get used by other women too trust me. I've had girls lead me on into pursuing them and leading it sexual but then they ask me not to tell anyone about it so they dont look "gay" and they eventually get. A boyfriend , so I get used for sex but they won't date me because I'm a female. I think some women just like messing around with other women but want to settle down and date men. They want to be with someone masculine and who can take care of them but they like having fun with girls. Other women have acted like this because they think it impresses men if they sleep with girls and its sort of a way to show off. Either way, its frustrating.

[Asker]

Yeah that must be annoying:/ it just genuinely makes me feel like men are just being used by women for what we have and can do for them in terms of security but would much rather fuck other women? I don't know and it seems like most somen are this way as well

[Opinion Owner]

I think a lot of men thrive off of being sexually atteactive or wanted to women, its a bust to the ego when a woman they want doesn't want them sexually , and a lot of women are hurt when they have someone who isn't emotionally attached but only wants them for sex , so I can see where your coming from. Well, no, I know plenty of women who are straight and only want men sexually and emotionally. Women who chose one gender for sex and one gender for love aren't mentally or emotionally matured and want the best of both worlds. I'm sorry you've had this experience with women but its becoming a "trend" to be bisexual without actually liking both genders

[Asker]

Can women sexually desire or be attracted to men they dont know or they need a strong emotional connection in general?

[Opinion Owner]

Many women can be sexually attracted to men they dont know , look at all the women who would have sex with Channing Tatum or Drake without them even saying "Hi" to them, women are like anyone else , it all depends on the person

[strangytie]

I've noticed a lot. I got used because I was the more masculine girl, I have an undercut and I hate being used simply because it "makes a statement" or because you can hold hands for six months and say it's a relationship with a girl but also be willing to kiss your boyfriend of a week. Some of us girls can be just as protective and it hurts that I'm not good enough, y'know?

[YutteS]

Not me - I'm married to a woman.