Any one else tired of beauty standards?

Question

Honestly screw it. Many of us won't ne flawless gods/goddesses but I still feel cute. I could be worse off.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Do you see this question? This question is exactly what I am talking about. Is people holding people to standards even people who you aren't romantically and/or sexually involved with anyways.

I don't live my life for others and I am not going to conform into into what someone else wants. Since... I could not make everyone happy anyways. Take a "real man" for instance.

Women who act like this every woman's definition are different. Many times even contradictory. They want to come and force it onto everyone else.

The same thing with these beauty standards that you're going on about. What some men like isn't the same as what other men like.

But you coming onto my page and calling me a "pussy" as you said shows me that you're a double standard hypocrite. As well as the fact you're virtually anonymous yourself... Since I don't know your real name or anything like that. I don't want your real name either.

But you see my point. See... Some men want women all dolled up all the time and other men hate it. Some men like a certain kind of clothing and others hate it... But you aren't with them anyways?

I don't hate women and I don't even hate women like that. I posted a rant or a mytake that was promoted... But your baseless assumptions like me hating women when I explicitly said I did not.

If I hated women... I would hate my mother, my sister, my girlfriend, my friends who are women, and random women I never even met before... Which is not true.

The same way I can't stand it when men do this junk to women with beauty standards and stuff with women they aren't even with anyways.

If anything you have a problem with men if you took issue with what I said...

Sonorous · Accepted Answer

I would prefer if they were more equitable if that's what you mean. But I'm not upset by them anymore. Mainly because they're predictable (due to having a greater understanding of animal nature) & not something I highly value or fervently chase after (due to having a greater understanding of animal nature). So I guess you could say I've just coped with it well enough to not be deeply emotionally hurt by it.

So, whether I meet the standards or not, I'll be less concerned than if I had strong desires for them. I mean, it's gotten to the point where even if I woke up one day and somehow found that I had transformed into a chad, I still wouldn't post my face or body online to get attention or validation. I'd be even more cautious with who I surround myself with as well. Because they'd have a greater likelihood of being fake than someone who would hang around the less physically attractive version of me.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I think Western beauty standards are crazy. Everything has been taken to the extremes.
I like Indian beauty standards. No one cares about the minutiae here (things like thigh gaps, hip dips, cheekbones and so on) and I'm considered beautiful in my country. It's not like I didn't get anyone to like me whenever I travelled outside India but I know their beauty standards to some extent. One has to have blonde hair, blue eyes, a certain bone structure, F cups,20 inches waist etc.
AND even if you somehow look like that but have certain labels attached to you like "Indian" then you're still not good enough.
They're also not sure about what they really like. Pale skin or a tan? Both can be liked and hated.
Here everyone is sure about what they like and no one HAS TO bleach their hair blonde!
If you're thin, not dark-skinned, have big eyes , sharp nose and long hair then most people will find you beautiful.
It's also not weird like the Chinese porcelain skin ideal. No one compares their waists with an A4 paper here.
Most importantly, no matter how beautiful you are if you lack higher education or are not a decent woman then you won't have any suitors. Looks are not everything here.
I agree with you and totally understand why you're so tired of Western beauty standards.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Beauty standards aren't that bad, if you don't let them get too close to you and just see them as what they're... beauty standards have been there since ever and will always be there but they change with time and not everyone is going to fit into all of them and also there are soo many different beauty standards all over the world.
Don't be so hard on yourself, see your own beauty and don't take beauty standards so damn serious.

Lliam · Answer

Standards are absurd. The beauty standard of the weak is determined by commercial enterprises and marketed to the public.

The only standard that I appreciate is femininity. Women can do things to be feminine without being artificial or trying to compete with celebrity models.

Any woman can have a cute hair style; care for her hair and skin; remove most or all body hair; wear cute clothes; be in decent physical condition. They can be the best that they can be without comparing themselves to someone else.

MCheetah · Answer

I've never been considered handsome or attractive by women, so this can't really apply to me. All I know is the ones who claim they are "tired of beauty standards" are usually the same ones who also never date short men or men who are slightly overweight. In other words, they're just tired of being judged as ugly, but won't extend that same respect to others.

Reaper1985 · Answer

I honestly prefer a healthy female who has confidence in her own natural looks and likes how her body feels.

sadly most young girls grow up in a beauty pageant style world where they believe only the most attractive can find love and happiness.

when in reality most guys who are looking for a long term partner. often fall for a girl with a personality and attitude they find enjoyable.

Paul09 · Answer

Yes! I hate it! So many sheep's. I hate it that or seems like it's the norm. Be yourself be happy in Your own skin. No need for all that junk. That's not even good for you. Crazy how only women past All this crap over their faces, because everyone does it... Why are men so much more simpler?

RedBarbie_ · Answer

I think it's a standard illusion of beauty because no one is superior or inferior to someone else. I had to deal with my beauty for many years. I thought I was weird for not having straight hair and I often asked God for them. But, today i loveeee my curly hair.

Snsl153 · Answer

No, I think we need standards, otherwise most people will just let themselves go, and it won't be a pleasant sight to behold.

Curiouslad123 · Answer

Ladies reading this please don’t compare yourself to others you are all beautiful in your own way. Don’t worry about beauty standards men have pressure too we are compared to guys who take steroids and have surgeries.

JustiReno · Answer

A beautiful flower just for you💐

NathanDavis · Answer

nope, I just never cared for that stuff one bit at all

NoUsernameSelected · Answer

I don't even know what the beauty standards for women are. Other than the basic ones, don't be fat, brush your teeth, go to a hair salon at least once a month.

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

I'm not personally, I don't pay that much attention to them, I just look how I wanna look

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I never really gave beauty standards much thought anyway, but I can see why someone would be tired of the standards, if they tried to keep up.

GreatnessBack · Answer

Remember, most of the social media girls are fake, with either faked body parts or photoshop.  Most real women don't look that way and can't again because photoshop

scarletssecret · Answer

I mean I used to be now I have better stuff to worry about.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah I think surgeries like Botox are excessive, I think people should eat well, and present themselves well

BLP11520 · Answer

To much pressure on ladies to look a certain way. I remember Twiggy when she showed up all of a sudden girls were fat. ( they were not ) Real men love the total woman and not boobs and butts.

Jamesshinobi · Answer

no. not at all. i think a lot of them are resonable and attainable if you put forth a little effort.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really, no. They're there for a reason. It doesn't mean that only "perfect" is acceptable. But yeah--some things ARE more beautiful than others.

WhiteSteve · Answer

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Wise4myage · Answer

Yeah, and advertising plays a big role.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I have my own standards.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Beauty is subjective.

soullicker123 · Answer

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