Guys: what do you think about high heels?

Question

Do you think they look good? Do you think more or less of a girl who wears them

Lliam · Accepted Answer

They can make a woman look absolutely wonderful. Heels make women's legs look great and give then a sexy walk. Heels give them erect posture and a feminine strut. Women in heels look like confident bad asses.

But some styles are better than others. I think heels over 4" max are absurd. They don't have to be stilettos, either. And I absolutely despise the ones with platform soles.

One of my girlfriends was 5'2" and always wore some sort of heels unless she was jogging, working out, or at home.
One time we went to San Francisco for a weekend. We wound up walking all over, up and down hills. The whole time, she was wearing corky wedgies that were at least 2.5" at the heels and never complained once.
One day I asked her why she always wore heels and she said she thought her legs looked funny without them. The fact is, she had gorgeous legs. But I think she thought they were too short. In reality, they were perfectly proportioned to her body.

So women might wear them, especially those god awful platform monstrosities, to compensate for their height. I think that's sad because I love sexual dimorphism and women's short stature. But, in general, women just look sexy when their heels are lifted. It makes them look extra feminine.

That being said, I don't think it's necessary or healthy for women to wear heels all the time. Their legs can be really cute in sandals and athletic shoes, too.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

They are sexy but just depends if she is sexy to me and how she looks in them. I do prefer a girl that likes to dress up , as long as she is only dressing sexy for me , if she is dressing sexy to go out with her friends but doesn’t dress sexy when she goes out with me then that is a huge red flag that she is looking to be a whore , Bottom line clothes don’t make a girl look beautiful , the girl makes the clothes look beautiful A girl that wants to look good for her man is the girl we want to be with , I am totally fine if she likes to dress down in sweats and t shirt and just be herself when she is home and relaxing but if we are going out I prefer her to to dress presentable and nice and to be comfortable but if she doesn’t dress sexy for me but dresses sexy to go out with her friends then she won’t be my girl anymore , Girls that need validation and attention from other guys is not the girl for me bottom line, if she is wearing an outfit that is flaunting her tits and ass and never wears that stuff when her and I go out then she is best to just stay out and not come back because the doors will be locked and she can go be a whore elsewhere , I don’t tolerate shit like that ,

RavVid · Answer

Definitely yes and definitely more of a girl who can.

I do think less of a girl who wears cheaters. By cheaters I mean heels which are thin n the side but broad across the heel.

I want the full stiletto, nothing but the stiletto and the whole stiletto.

And I do have a confession to make about a fetish. I like the points of the stilettos digging in just under my collar bone as I am leaning over you. What can I say? All those table dances.

Who when asked what he did with his money said I spent one third on alcohol, one third on women and the other third I wasted?

I regret the third I wasted too.

loveslongnails · Answer

I think some of them look great, some look dangerous, some look horrible, and that paying $600 for a pair is pretty stupid.

They do accentuate pretty legs, that's for sure, but I don't understand how you can walk in them! I also know they can cause your feet to get deformed, like bent toes, bunions and that over a lifetime, can cause real nerve damage.

That said, they do look great with the right outfit, and I don't think "more or less" of a woman who wears them. If a woman doesn't wear them and cites some of the reasons, I mentioned above, I'd think she's smart and is longing at the long run.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

I like them, i prefer them on her, especially if it makes her taller than me with them on, but shorter than me, without them on, but, please, don't wear them, if you can't WALK in them. There's nothing more embarrassing than a girl who is falling all over herself because she can't walk in heels, just because she's trying to "impress me". Especially if you're drunk.

Good way to practice walking on spiked heels ladies, practice on wedges first, so that you can practice getting up off the floor with your foot first, but at least be secure enough that you likely won't fall. Then move to kitten heels, and work your way up

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

I don't care for them personally, but that's more about functionality. They can definitely look good. And I don't judge a woman for deciding to look good unless she's supposed to be dressing for something like a hiking trip, or the pool, and wears heels there.

Chillman15 · Answer

Wedge heels on a lady is very cute, high heels are too but only if she can walk in them well. And no matter what if a girl doesn't have a pedicure/painted toes or at least well kept feet no open toe shoes look good on her honestly. Especially in heels, it only improves a ladies look if her feet are soft and toenails painted or trimmed well. Heels are great for making a girl's femininity stand out! But only if her feet are nice, a pedicure goes along way with guys even guys without a foot fetish like attractive feet 😅

BlueStripedSoul · Answer

I don't think "less" of any woman who wears them, but I think they're kind of a silly aesthetic. I'll never understand why women willingly wreck their feet and Achilles tendons in the name of vanity just to look "pretty". Just never really been a fan.

Notcreativenough · Answer

I like them, for me it's a big tell on both self image and self care. Heels are hard to walk in, when done properly they convey confidence and a fierceness often sought after by other powerful suitors. When I see a woman walking in heels it shows me they like to look nice and if they're willing to do that for it they likely don't have a bare minimum hygiene routine either. Self care takes dedication and routine, very good qualities most people seek out when looking for a mate. Great question!

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I like them, they can change the look of pretty much any outfit. even jeans and a top. with flats then with heels. They can also look really sexy.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

Women are obsessed with height; men are not. Women are giving themselves sore feet and bad backs unnecessarily.

I live in Hawaii. If I’m wearing shoes or long pants, I’m at work or on my way to or from work. Otherwise, I’m in shorts and flip flops. I’ve served as an usher in church dressed like that.

Dolling herself up occasionally for a formal event is nice, but most of the time, I’d rather just see women be comfortable.

slatyb · Answer

Generally love them, as long as she can walk gracefully in them. Ankle strap sandals are the hottest, and they don't have to be terrifically high to look good.

20yearsolder · Answer

Typically I think they're hot when she's wearing a pretty tight fitting dress

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

They seem senseless, uncomfortable, impractical; even, dangerous.  It’s fine with me if you want to wear them, but I don’t “get” it. They do not improve a girl’s looks, either.

Adronicus · Answer

Doesn't matter unless I care about her then I'd rather her not wear them because I'd be concerned about whether or not she'd break her ankle over something so frivolous. I guess I could carry her np:)

Bluethinker456 · Answer

They look good, but I don't think those who don't wear them are less beautiful than those who wear. Also, apparently wearing it can be bad to your spine.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

If find them extremely useless. And so appear (to me) the girls who wear them. When ever I see a girl in high heels, she automatically looses much of my potential attention.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

It's a huge NO NO for me. Wear something comfortable instead, heels are not comfortable, not like leather loafers or sneakers.

MCheetah · Answer

They can be quite powerful on a woman.

hypojoe · Answer

They look good with certain outfits but I would never wear anything like that just to "look good" for some guy

NovaCourier · Answer

They look good, but for the sake of your own physical health, particularly your spine, don't wear them all the time.

AviatorTom · Answer

I tried them once... they're very uncomfortable. I don't know how you women wear them, but they do make your legs (calves especially) look sexy.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I usually prefer for girls to wear more practical footwear, so she can join me in more active hobbies, like ping pong or just going for a walk in nature. I'm also pretty short so I don't want to feel like I'm walking next to a giraffe.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

If she can’t or won’t kick them off to go do something fun, i have no appreciation for high heels.

Red_Arrow · Answer

No real preference unless she is already taller than me. Then the height gets ridiculous.

Xrynx · Answer

definitely brings women attention from wearing them and also the sound of them, though the sound is quite annoying at times😀

Whatever2929292 · Answer

I don't really care. But to be honest they seem like more trouble then they are worth

Guy__ · Answer

I don't want women to wear them, they're imbalancing to your posture, and therefore damaging all systems in your body.

hafinjun · Answer

I think they are so sexy I have had to relieve my arousal before I could think straight. I know they cause many problems so do the women that wear them anyway my highest regards depreciation

Rizwan_khan · Answer

High heel look classy and make women or girl sexy but there are so many disadvantages of wearing heel for long period of time. But otherwise for me heels are just look so sexy and classy.

Anonymous · Answer

I have no opinion on them. I would say they're uncomfortable looking as hell and I don't get why women wear them. But I've had some women on here get mad at me for that. So I guess I'll say, whatever tickles your pickle.

peedy · Answer

How do you not break your ankles and they have to be the most uncomfortable shoes ever made why do you girls put yourselves threw hell wearing them makes no sense

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