What do I do when am been told that I don't behave or act like a Lady?

[Annoymous15]

Cos
1 I know nothing about fashion like.
2 I care less about myself and body
3 I feel like am not soft (hard in and out)
4 Am not emotional etc
a lot of things am being honest about but turned out to be the opposite , don't no if u understand... just want to know if there is something I can do or learn from or better still let me just be myself?

[Anonymous]

Well first of all being a lady has NOTHING to do with fashion. A lady would look stunning wearing a garbage bag. 2. You shouldn't obsesss about yourself and your body. But EVERYBODY should care about themselves. Because God made you in his/her image. 3. I'm not even sure what you're saying with 3, sorry. 4. Makes it sound like you have issues interacting with others. The fact that you say you're not emotional makes it sound like you're emotionally detached. a lot of introverted people use that as a defense mechanism. It's not that they can't feel or are incapable of feeling it's that many are using it as a way of coping with past trauma. If I don't feel I can't be hurt.

[Annoymous15]

🥺🥺🥺🥺

[BUTIMRIGHTTHO]

WHAT DO YOU WANT! @Annoymous15

Stop letting other people tell you what you should be. They have no right to shape your life and who you are. Whatever you are interested in then explore that. If you don't care about fashion and all that then don't try to please the world.

Look you're going to die soon as we all are. You better figure out what u want most and go enjoy it. Don't waste time on things you dont care about. I hate politics so guess what? I spend 0 time arguing over the endless war of politics. You dont have time for things of a lower nature. Get what you want and enjoy it while you can.

[Annoymous15]

Who the fuck are you

God you got me🤗🤗🤗

[slatyb]

ignore them. You have no obligation to behave in a way that conforms to their idea of proper behavior for a woman. If this is common in your community, then plan to move somewhere more tolerant.

[NewsReader]

You go on Google and search "How to be a lady"

[FilmGuy93]

Do you want to be ladylike? Because those are all very learnable things that you just listed.

[Annoymous15]

Ladylike🤔

[Sarahplus2]

Tell them to kiss your ass

[es20490446e]

Start with 2.

[Annoymous15]

Can you help talk more on that?

[es20490446e]

If your body is well taken care off, everything else is easier.