Girls, am I unmanly if I refused to act like a gentleman as she claimed?

[playboxidroid]

So my ex-girlfriend reached out to me recently to ask for child support, even after she cheated with another man.
She even said "I'm the last person she wants to talk to but if I really loved her before genuinely, then I would act like a gentleman and help her out.", it was because I found out that the guy he was with is evading his debts in the bank, so she asked for money. I admit, I wanted to have kids with her when we we're still together but not in this way!

I immediately took a DNA test just to check for paternity, turns out that the results are negative. I wanted to shove the results on her face so that I can properly set boundaries but she's now threatening to ruin my life if I don't give her the papers. She threatened to tell everyone that I raped her which caused her pregnancy even if I already had the fucking DNA test proving that I'm not the damn father. I don't know if she's using her baby as a scapegoat, and I feel so sorry for that newborn baby for having such mother even if I'm not her biological parent.

I'm pretty sure there are a lot of women here in this platform who will verbally attack me for not fathering the baby, because they expect the man not to judge a woman by how many men she slept with while setting unreasonable expectations claiming that the man needs to be tall, muscular, rich, and handsome. But let me ask you ladies here on GaG, is your defenition of masculinity based on how many times you can fool a man by milking money out of him until there's no more? Is paternity fraud not a crime yet in this fucked up society?

[SueShe]

I do have a small doubt about your story.

You did a DNA or paternity test. That is fine. But how can you know if you are the father if the child or the mother has not done a DNA test? Most likely that the girlfriend would not allow such a test since she is the legal guardian of that child and that she may be held accountable if your test is negative?

I do judge people, not just men, by the number of people they have slept with but in your case, this is not relevant to the story. The only thing that I see that makes no sense is the fact that you are only telling us half the truth.

[playboxidroid]

She told me that the father is the man she was with. The only reason why I took a DNA test is just to prove that I'm legitimately not the father of the newborn, and at that time I was also thinking twice if I should bother owning this kid. Turns out that the results we're thankfully negative, I gave her the results and that was my way of setting boundaries.

[SueShe]

How can you know if you have no other DNA to compare with. It takes a set of 2 DNAs to be certain, yours and the child's to be a match. But nowhere is there mention of a set taken from the child or the mother.

[MK1997]

No you do what's best for yourself