Why do men always assume that I’m unpleasant or a bitch even though I‘m polite?

[Anonymous]

Is it because I’m ugly?

[Anonymous]

Well it's either because you really are a b****. Or it's because you're standoffish which gives you the appearance of being a snob.

Since you're basically giving us zero evidence to make any kind of determination all we can do is pretty much guess.

[inhua]

what you are witnessing is the Halo Effect/Devil Effect where positive attributes are attached to other positive attributes while negative attributes are attached to other negative attributes

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

Could be... Humans are unpredictable but it might be that you're projecting some of your insecurities. Considering what is hinting you that people feel this way about you and if it could be anything else might be a good exercise.

[Asker]

People use the term projecting way too often

[SolitarySolace]

Are you a feminist? Would explain a lot if you were

[In_Trance]

I don't know what you look like so I can't confirm or deny that

[Anonymous]

Polite girls can be bitches

[Asker]

Yeah But they don’t know me and assume the worst by just looking at me