Girls, have you ever cried in the shower?

[Smartman5]

If you cried, what is the reason? Breaking up with your boyfriend or the death of someone you love etc.

[Anonymous]

Yes, after my separation from my ex husband i became very ill. Whilst recovering, one day in the shower i held thick locks of hair in my hands. I was so shaken up that i curled down and started to cry.

[Smartman5]

why are you divorced?

[Opinion Owner]

I forgave too much. I am a moderate muslim which means no sex without marriage. a lot of stuff led upto the divorce. He raped me my first time n basically called me a slut which to me as a muslim was a slap on my upbringing. I forgave him. I had moved to a new city and over the slightest excuse he would stop talking to me for days at end. I forgave him. He was a mamas boy to the extreme, if i drank a glass of water or went to the toilet his mother back home would know. That n much much more that led upto my decision to leave him.

Last i saw him was one day he came home from work and said he had talked to his mom n i had 2 hours to pack before going to the airport. Thats when i lost my self control after 10 months of marriage.

I remember soon after i was visiting my brother in USA and became extremely, throwing up even water for days till the doctor gave me steroids. I had almost died. Despite my family's protests i begged my brother to call my husband. My brother put him on speaker phone n said ur wife is with me n extremely unwell. Response was, my mother will decide.

Thats when i decided to get a divorce.

[Smartman5]

You did the right thing by divorcing him. I am also a Muslim and as you said, for us there is no sex without marriage. I mostly ask questions about sexuality on this site, but that's because I'm not married yet. this is a separate issue. I'm sorry for you, but I'm also glad you did the right thing. I wouldn't want to know such a man.

[Opinion Owner]

True and thanks

[Smartman5]

How old are you? How do you feel?

[Opinion Owner]

I am 41 years old and have moved on from him. I dont hate or love him. If i ever meet him again, i would probably just pity him.

[Smartman5]

Are you thinking of marrying someone else again? Was your ex-wife a Muslim?

[Opinion Owner]

I am 41 years old and i feel at peace with myself. Unfortunately my past experiences and the kind of muslim men i keep interacting with has caused major trust issues. It seems like the only kind of guys around are players or just want sex without marriage.

[Smartman5]

I understand, it's frankly sad. We can be friends if you want. I have no demands from you. I want to help you.

[Tina19]

Yes i did after the breakup

[Smartman5]

Why did you break up with him?

[Tina19]

Relationship got difficult to manage and ending it was the best option at that time

[Smartman5]

I understand

[dustybiker]

Oddly.. I’m more likely to get emotional when my thoughts drift while driving my truck.

[Smartman5]

are you a truck driver?

[dustybiker]

I meant my own pick-up truck. I ride far more. When I drive my truck it’s easier so my mind wonders.

[dustybiker]

*Wanders (

[Smartman5]

I understand, nice

[DarkCarousel]

Yes, for various reasons through the years of my life. That sounds like it’s more frequent than it actually is. But the shower is a place where I could let out the tears I was holding back prior.

[Smartman5]

Why do you cry in the bathroom?

[Kylal412]

Too many times to count. It’s easier to hide that I was crying.

[Smartman5]

Why?

[whereismyjohnny]

Yes. The last time it happened, it was because of my cousin’s death.

[Smartman5]

God have mercy on him/her ❤️

[sheikalana]

I did. Years ago I've been through a very hard break up for me. I forced myself to be okay and was holding tears back most of the time but at times I couldn't hold my tears anymore and would literally cry while taking a shower.

[wingattebaby16]

Breaking up with a lover.

having a miscarriage

death of a family member

some disappointment my man promised, then forgot

[Bratsondanielle]

The day Biden became president I cried all day. Saddest day in human history

[babieg]

Yes because of a fake friend who treated me very poorly back in elementary school

[petitedollbabee]

I’ve cried in the shower over many things. Breakups, death of loved ones, mood swings, emotional abuse, PTSD, there’s probably a whole list.

[Urvashimaghi]

I did, when he suddenly entered with no cloth on his body...

[Smartman5]

So he raped you?

[JenniferBiArizona]

Yes. It is the perfect time to let it out where no one can see

[avaby]

Often, mostly from feelings of being overwhelmed. Very often I'd cry in the shower cause of how my ex made me feel

[slytherinalumni2008]

I am not a big crier. Yes, I have cried after a breakup or after a death of a loved one. Other than that I do not really cry a lot.

[T_ddy]

I don't know, it’s mostly about my ex but sometimes I just break down in the shower with no specific reason

[AsaKyo]

I do all the time because I constantly feel like a failure

[Smartman5]

Why?

[AsaKyo]

I'm just not hitting on shit in life

[KatherineJ]

Of course I have. Reasonable question by the way

[Smartman5]

Thanks, can you tell me why are you crying?

[KatherineJ]

@Smartman5 I didn’t say it happens often. But it has happened. And no, I’m not going into the emotional roller coaster that is me.

[Smartman5]

I understand, but why did you cry while taking a bath? Why even once?

[KatherineJ]

If you understand, there is no reason for the follow up.

[hazelsadie]

i’ve cried in the shower many times cuz nobody can hear me and it’s my one time to get alone where nobody can barge in

[Smartman5]

Why?

[Nacura]

All the time. Honestly, it's the best time to cry bc you're all alone and no one can judge you.

[Smartman5]

Why do you cry in the bathroom?

[Nacura]

Kinda like a safe haven. No one bothers you. You feel like no one hears you. You're just screaming at yourself. Especially Infront of the mirror. Seeing yourself in that state of mind and body.

[Smartman5]

I understand

[Marshymallow]

I feel like everyone has done this lol

[bubblegunnn]

Yessir.. death of loml

[Ezra_lila]

Most of the time.

[Smartman5]

Why?

[Ezra_lila]

they are words I can't tell specially if people around me think I'm fine

[Smartman5]

I understand

[HelaCute]

I do that often and mosty stressful days

[Darine123]

Many times cuz of depression

[ZS007]

yes cause of build up anger

[Smartman5]

Who why did you get angry?

[ZS007]

could have been fam frustrating me or school stuff

[Smartman5]

I understand

[Becky316]

I do occasionally when I miss my parents

[Smartman5]

where are they?

[Becky316]

They died

[Smartman5]

God have mercy on they ❤️. What are the causes of death?

[MM1480]

May God give them the highest rank in heaven.

[collie22]

i've do that when i miss my mom

[Smartman5]

is your mother alive? Or do you live far from her?

[collie22]

she passed when i was 12

[Smartman5]

so is she dead?

[collie22]

she's with Jesus now

[Smartman5]

I understand sorry. God have mercy on her ❤️

[duttyjamagyal]

Yes cuz I wanted to die jk

[Smartman5]

Why?

[duttyjamagyal]

I said jk

[Smartman5]

But why?

[Michaela99]

Yes I feel like that’s a good place

[H9192]

Yes.

[Smartman5]

Why?

[LavLavLuv]

yes i have...

[PrettyPriya]

You could just turn the water on instead of crying. 😕

[LavLavLuv]

crying + shower best combo tbh