Do you think it’s okay to wear jeans or pants because I’m a girl?

[Anonymous]

Some people on here have said that they don’t really like when women wear jeans and pants because it makes them look unfeminine? I do like wearing pants, skirts and dresses but not in the winter because I can’t really find a dress that’s appropriate for winter. But I’m really worried because if I wear jeans or pants does that make me unfeminine?

[SnowedIn]

Yes it is okay to wear jeans and pants!

And, no, wearing jeans or pants does NOT make you look unfeminine. Anyone who says that has their head under a rock. Look at all the fashion magazines or even the advertising at the mall. Girls ROCK jeans and pants. Combined with the right top, they are very feminine.

Wear what makes you comfortable and confident.

[Summeroflove]

Because that’s their own preferences they want to force on everyone. It does not matter what you wear.


Those men are frustrated because they can’t find the kind of woman they want so they want all women to fit their mold on what they should and shouldn’t be.


The same with the women who bitch about men all the time.

[lizardbc]

You can wear whatever you want. You don't "have" to look feminine.

If you want to, there are certainly pants that look feminine! Doubt you see many dudes wearing skinny jeans lol. Or if you want to keep wearing skirts and dresses during winter just put on tights or leggings. They keep you warm enough.

Dress how you want to dress!

[PessicaJeter]

There is literally nothing unfeminine about wearing pants. Never let random people tell you otherwise.

[PessicaJeter]

Thanks for MH answer!

[Asker]

Thank you! They’re comfortable just I only have a limited amount of short skirts that go to knee

[PessicaJeter]

Do you mind dming me? I'd like to ask you something.

[Asker]

Sure

[DARKCLOUD1945X]

Although mostly girls dress to please others there comes a time when it is so freaken cold that you would freeze your vulva off so pant are a good move to keep everything warm. The next time some asshole guy asks you to wear a dress in freezing cold weather tell him as soon as he wears a kilt with a thong. Nuf said!

[KittyKat90210]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with wearing jeans or pants. I do and all of my friends do. :)

[Andrew1968]

If you are happy for men to wear skirts and dresses, then it’s ok to wear jeans and trousers. If not you need to modernise your attitude.

[HighValue]

The only jeans that look bad on women in my opinion are the ripped ones or ones with uneven (stained/bleached) colors.

[Berethor]

It more understandable in winter, personally I can date a tomboy so I am okay with that.

[slatyb]

Wear whatever you like. If someone tells you not to, ignore them.

[Figurine89]

What does your boyfriend think about it. He's the one you're dating, right? That's all that matters

[Asker]

Yes, I don’t think he cares what I wear but I’m thinking that maybe he likes skirts on me better?

[Figurine89]

Wear what you want to wear. That's all that matters

[Surely]

Just be yourself and wear whatever is comfortable to you or warm.

[Anonymous]

yeah it's ok and anyone who says no is a dumbass tell any jackass guy to start wearing a dress that will shut them up

[swettannie]

how important is it for you to be feminine?

[Asker]

I don’t know, I just want to be my self. but I always felt like I had to dress, look and act feminine just because I’m a girl. I don’t mind it either way but I was just thinking like “am I supposed to be feminine?” Or should I be that way?

[swettannie]

could we dm?

[Asker]

Sure, of course

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

It's absolutely okay to wear jeans and pants.

[panamared1]

Jeans are fine, be comfortable

[Pterodon]

Of course

[kareka]

Where are you from?

[Asker]

I’m from the United States

[kareka]

Tbh..
"Jeans and this stuff is ok got girls but..
Your boyfriend just feels jealous cuz we know how guys look to the girl"