Too many men are hypocrites who project their insecurities on to women. Like with the “being alone” crap. THEY are the ones who are less happy when single/alone. And THEY are the ones aging like milk BALDING before 21.
No. I tell women to stop writing their own dating profiles, and have guys write them for them. And I tell guys to stop writing their own dating profiles, and have women write them for them.
This is a typical woman's dating profile...
'If you're a toothless, scumbag, loser, don't contact me."
Wow, if only Hallmark made cards like that.
I write profiles for both men and women, and I get them married.
This is one of my women profiles I wrote:
I don't like sports, but it's OK if you do. Having said that, I do like playing horse shoes, and I'm thinking of turning pro some day. I'm not against hunting and fishing, but I'm not a murderer. That's your job. I love camping, but just let me sleep till noon, while you and your savage friends go on your killing spree. When you get back the bacon will be waiting.
I'm not big on going out on the town, but if that's your thing, I'm told I clean up pretty nice, and it might be fun to be your arm candy for the night.
But if I have my druthers, I'd druther stay home, sip wine, and watch a scary movie with you.
Why do you women ask us guys which dress to buy? You know you don't care about our opinion, and you've already decided!
This is the conversation I had with my ex.
Barbie: Tom, what would you like for dinner? Tom: Tacos Barbie: No, seriously. Tom: Hamburgers. Barbie: No, stop joking! Tom: Pizza? For fuck's sake, can I buy a vowel? Can you at least give me a hint what I want?
That guy is marriage material. He's funny, he rolls with the punches, and he's spot on!
Boyfriends being asked to decide where to eat. Then, girlfriends wanting to eat somewhere else, so they ask their boyfriends to decide again. And then it repeats until he has decided ‘what he wants’ correctly. 😅
@Nuget That does sound kinda fun and a nice thing to do for an acquaintance or friend sometime.
It looks like we’re both writers, because I do copywriting as part of my profession. 😉
Writing dating profiles would use a lot of copywriting principles.
For example… Being very intentional about how you come off to the reader, being intentional about the kind of readers you want to attract, being intentional about the message you want to communicate to your reader, being intentional about the platform you’re using (e. g. optimal character count and bio length), being intentional about making sure your genuine voice is heard through your choice of words, etc.
The user of the dating profile would essentially be ‘branding’ and ‘marketing’ themselves on the dating platform, trying to attract their ideal audience and inspiring them to ‘take action’, or in this case, send a DM. 🙂
Trust me on this. Do NOT say you like dancing, fine dining, moonlit walks on the beach. The girls will just roll their eyes at that.
Be funny, and very humble.
Pickles: "I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I mostly stick to the microwave stuff, because it says what to do on the back of the box. If you're into fine wines, you should stop by. I have fifty gallons brewing in the shed. Call me old fashioned, but I like to pamper my lady. You should stop by; I have 50 gallons of perfume brewing in my shed."
The women will flock to that profile, because you'll be one of a kind.
Just set yourself apart from the rest. Don't show them your stupid fucking car, motorcycle or boat. If you want to talk about your boat, tell her you are looking for a gal that can drive a canoe. Tell her you keep hitting objects.
I shouldn't tell you what "negging" is, because it's far too dangerous to fall into the wrong hands.
Pickles: Bambi, you look stunning in that green dress. Bambi: Thank you. Pickles: But why green? Bambi: What? Pickles: Nothing. Bambi: What's wrong with green? Pickles: I said you look stunning. Bambi: But you kind of suggested I'd look better in another color. Pickles: Don't listen to me. Some say I have a gift for matching colors with women. Bambi: Fine, so what's my color! Don't make me beat it out of you!
LMAO
No man on Earth will matter until you divulge her secret color!
Lol Are you kidding me, why is color so important? Is this how I get to pick her wardrobe? Lol my dms are open if you wanna tell me some more dangerous secrets lol
That's how it works. You have the ability to implant images in other people's heads, and they can't stop it. From your very first message to her/them, implant good messages.
Pickles: "My ex-girlfriend was reluctant to take a job across the country, but I told her to go. She really wanted this, and I wanted what's best for her. I'll never forget the time we rented a cabin in the winter. The electricity didn't work, so we had to build a fire in the fireplace. But if you moved 10 feet from the fire, you froze to death. So we skipped our dinner plans and just grabbed some cookies and zipped our two sleeping bags together. I don't know if I'd had made it through the night without her warmth."
But that was just an example. Just tell her/them nice stories about your life. Don't say the bad stuff. Tell her/them that you like dogs better than cats. If you leave and come back after being gone for 5 minutes, your dog will spin in circles and pee on the floor. Now that's true love!
Whenever we went home my dog would get excited and pee all over the place but the doctor said it was just a early stage- well for like 10 years but he’s adorable so we love him
Unfortunately men are sexist and I find it to be too much annoying and not appealing at all, can’t stand most of them or just act cold or indifferent. Sadly , men have quite a unjust and ilogical attitude toward women!
Lets be honest here. Everyone and I do mean everyone is sexist to some degree. Most people start taking notice and pointing things out when it doesn't benefit them. It is that simple.
As for your two statements.
This for instance, while true in the past is fast changing. "THEY are the ones who are less happy when single/alone." The one thing men do well is adapt. They are still adapting to this rapidly changing social setting and are now exceling. They have learned they do not need such attachments to be happy. The dating stats show men are walking away from even attempting to try and enter into relationships.
They are finding friend groups to satisfy those needs and simply seek out hook ups for physical needs. Women on the other hand are still looking for and hoping for the intimate connection they get from relationships and sadly they aren't finding them. Just the latest study show by 2030 over 50 precent of all dating aged women between 18 to 50 will likely be single, have no children and have zero prospects for relationships. They are still hoping for that traditional man but aren't offering anything more to them than physical satisfaction they can seek outside any relationship. Once again men are adapting and if they are looking for traditional wives they simply go outside their home countries to places where those women still want traditional lives.
And yes before you go on a tirade about "passport bros" lets clarify something. These aren't all broke men. These are men that have developed the resources to spend in finding potential spouses. These are exactly the men western women want, but now no longer have access to. And again before the tirade starts, These women they are seeking actually hold them to a standard. They can be more demanding of a traditional husband than western women, they are intelligent, most speak multiple languages and have degrees that rival western schools. They just prefer traditional lives. They will can and still do work but also prefer a traditional housewife role. Those men will hang the moon for them. So whats the difference? They are extremely appreciative of anything that husband does. Make her coffee in the morning or breakfast in bed, helps her with house chores and shopping. They appreciate their husbands and do not expect and demand 3k hand bags or 500 nails or hair dos so they can sit in the house and twitter their days away. It really is that simple.
As for your next remark "And THEY are the ones aging like milk BALDING before 21." Why shame someone over a genetic trait they cannot control? Women spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to put a fake face on in public. Plastic surgery, make up and then wants to body shame men? Seriously? This i why men have adapted and left the dating scene. These types of attitudes are so far into toxic and sexism that there is no reason for them to endure it.
Just as an example the latest survey put out regarding people living alone and being in medications for depression show that divorced and or single women by far take more antidepressant meds than men. This could be for various reasons but ultimately if you want trends, it isn't the men that are now complaining about being alone.
When I was schooling, there was this boy who slapped a super shy and sweet girl on the ass. He was always touching girls inappropriately like that, but she was having a bad day and kicked him in the ole family jewels so hard that he fell down gasping and crying and he ended up losing one.
She didn't get punished severely because they assumed she did not understand male anatomy or had malicious intent, while he was got suspended.
He started a movement with all of his friends including other girls and bullied her until she had depression and dropped out.
As a result, many girls became afraid to lash out about harassment, while it was a mix with guys blaming feminist literature about that guy's condition and being scared to be sexist, or becoming even worse.
I keep in touch with my classmates, and I sometimes think about this accident and how it affects men's views and women and how it was a cataclysm for many of the males I grew up with having sexist viewpoints.
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Absolutely, it’s why I don’t dare turn to look at “MOST MEN”. My eyes don’t dare turn in their direction.
Balding, Undesirable, Undeserving, Immature, Past the Wall. And to top it all off “entitled” 😆. What a joke!
Yeah, I rather keep fucking Chad and Tyrone in their 20’s in my 20’s until my shit dries up. I refuse to look at anyone else!! And no I’m not reproducing in this age. We’re people don’t know what girl and boy is. I refuse to reproduce with bad genetics and shit DNA. All of them. SHIT GENES 🧬 AND SHIT DNA! And then they want to think that they deserve to be passed around like a joint with that undesirable shit? LOOK AT THEM!!!
LOOK AT THEM!!!
I REPEAT; LOOK AT THEM!!!
LOOK AT THEM!! 🤢 HIDEOUS!
LOOK AT THEM!!! LOOK AT THEM!!!
RUSTING AWAY! OLD AND RUSTY! CRUSTY!! 🤢
Past the age of 35, 🤢 midlife crisis. All of them miserable, and undesirable. No testosterone anymore. Past 35 testosterone drops by the minute…
And don’t get me started on their female supporter. Who by the way also hates women.
I for one am not sexist. Many of the men around me are often not too sexist either, although I have sometimes encounter those who are. I would not consider most men to be feminist, as in actively protesting for women's rights but I know that at least the reasonable ones who have not grown up in an uber sexist community will have no problem with their boss being a woman, their wife going to work and men and women being equal in rights. Of course they would probably accept some distinction in some fields such as sports as a given, and they may sometimes joke about slightly sexist topics with their friends, but you should remember to separate jokes and humour from what they really believe. Since you put Andrew Tate here, I would say that in the modern generation at least 97% of men are no way near as bad as him. But there may be a 1/2/3 % of guys that might habor very extreme sexist views. Just another example of the modern generation being extra polarised in terms of views due to social media. That leaves however, the overall majority of guys as ok.
Your example is a depiction of “double standard” not of being sexist.
To connect balding with aging is ignorant. Wrinkles is about the one thing that could be universally connected to aging, all other aspects that do come with aging can be found in youthful people for various reasons. In general men become more attractive as they age, because women are less concerned with physical appearance, where as its the opposite with women. This has been proven, its hard wired into our DNA.
Your statement answers your own question though, the belief that men are more sexist is in fact sexist. We get judged and scrutinized with implications regarding our behavior far more so than women. Seems as though anything we do will get chopped to being negative in someway.
That’s literally being sexist 🤡🤡 not gonna argue about facts. And yeah y'all bald by 19 but have the nerve to and talk about women aging. Projecting weirdos.
some men are smart and make money from losers who want to talk trash about women. even i am thinking of doing it to make money. i will make a video about how women are ugly after 24 and how they only attractive when they are22 and still look like teenagers cu they have so many views i will get rich in no time. i am actually dead serious i am working on the video right now.
I mean yeah. In the same way most people are racist and homophobic. Like kind of a bit unintentionally for the most part but ultimately it's a process you work through the more you're exposed to other communities and ways of thinking. With that said blanket generalisations about men do drive them into the arms of people like Andrew Tate. I'm leftwing and even I've felt reactionary as a result of a lot of antagonism from 4th wave Feminists who don't seem to understand that attacking men as a group only further alienates them and pushes them right. Fuck mental illness is rife among men because of societal norms and gendered expectations hoisted on us as kids, I feel like more Feminists need to reread their own literature because we already knew all this when I was a kid but it didn't stop this 'girl good boy bad' toxicity from replicating time and time again.
I think men and women have different perspectives. I can only experience the world as a man, and a woman can only experience the world as a woman. There are advantages and disadvantages on either side. Both Men and Women are flawed. Both have insecurities. Some are based on their gender and some are not. Both genders do injustice to the other. People get frustrated and hurt. I think that is where these insecurities come from. Rather then pointing the finger at each other, we should be working to heal each other.
I am not qualified to answer that question. In my experience, women as a whole are not kind to me. I know very few women that I would consider to be any good. My Mom, My Grandma (God rest her soul) and maybe two other ladies at work. But that is it. The rest of the women in my life have been self centered, unfriendly, unforgiving, and will turn on you at a drop of hat! I really haft to watch my Ps and Qs around them! Most women scare me.
No, some but not most. I honestly think women confuse a more traditional guy as being sexiest. If you go on a date and the guy refuses to let you pay towards the meal, is he sexist? If a guy wants to hold a door open for you or help you if it appears you need help, is he sexist? If a guy compliments your appearance, is he sexiest? I don’t think he is. I think he’s just a decent human being.
Men aren't a monolith, last I checked. Neither are women. Sexism is most likely just a product of life experiences, and how prone one is to generalisations. And frankly sexism is rampant amongst both men and women. Most of it probably just comes down to miscommunication.
In my experience I have noticed that the ones who are needy, insecure, uptight and/or just plain bitter seem to age much faster. Personally I am confident NOT cocky, independent who feels if someone doesn't like what they see just don't look and run along
@aphrodite801 those are the men I was talking about but now they have gone to the extreme by competing in women's sports and people who train all their life like Riley Gaines get screwed to a dude
The sexist men in question don’t even know their sexist bc of how normalized it is in some cultures and spaces, and also how embedded it is in our society rn
Why is your profile showing something you are not? "Aphordite"...
You mean... What is "Aphordite?" Aphrodite (/ ˌ æ f r ə ˈ d aɪ t iː / ⓘ AF-rə-DY-tee) is an ancient Greek goddess associated with love, lust, beauty, pleasure, passion, procreation, and as her syncretized Roman goddess counterpart Venus, desire, sex, fertility, prosperity, and victory.
Women love sexist men , bad boys are way popular than good ones. To many , those are traditional masculine men. Girls do shame men if they are into non traditional roles like cooking , cleaning , sewing like stuffs. Men continue to follow those trends as they are more rewarding, otherwise they would have stopped.
It depends which country we’re talking about. If we’re talking about the entire world I’d say yes mainly because the Middle East. And the whole reason why he switched to Islam is so he could have multiple wives and still fuck around
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