Do you agree with my mom that this top is too revealing?

[caitycat21]

I wanted to wear it for my birthday and she sent me a long paragraph because she though it was too revealing but I really don’t think it’s that revealing? I also usually wear high rise jeans so my stomach wouldn’t have even been showing if I did wear it

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't personally wear it because I wouldn't feel comfortable, but that's my personal preference. I'd say it's really up to you at age 18, but maybe think about this: I am going to assume that your mother loves you and knows how guys think, and that is why she has expressed concern. Maybe she needs to live and let live, but keep in mind that she is still learning how to parent you at this awkward time when you're technically an adult, but still at home. I think she has let you know her opinion, and now it's up to you if you are going to be influenced by it or not in this decision. It doesn't sound like she's going to insist you not wear it, which is wise on her part.

Sadly, everything is sexualized in Western culture, even something cute like this top. However, it is not your responsibility to control men's thoughts, it's theirs. Guys tend to blame women for how they dress, but really, it doesn't matter how covered up you are. Your mom is trying to protect you, but until the core issue of men's lack of thought control and the hypersexualization issues are addressed, you'll have people thinking that covering up more will solve the problem. I don't criticize your mom because at least she cares about you and it sounds like she is doing the best she can. But it is your decision and while she may not like you to wear it, she will love you either way, I suspect. Just my perspective...

[Cutegirl06]

Not at all! It's a very cute top! I'd wear it for sure! Even if you did show your stomach it's not too revealing.

[AviatorTom]

It does show a bit of cleavage and your navel is exposed, so I can understand what your mother is saying.

But overall, the top is not revealing.

Now this top is revealing...

[BCA6010]

I see where she's coming from, but the bigger problem in my opinion is that it's kind of ugly and weird...

[AI Opinion]

Oh, I totally get where you're coming from, and it can be a bit tricky balancing personal style with family opinions. 😅 Since I can't see the top, I'm rolling a bit blind here. But hey, if you feel confident and comfortable in it, especially paired with high-rise jeans that keep things more on the modest side, that's a great start!

Maybe you could try pairing it with a cute blazer or cardigan? It could be a stylish compromise that keeps both you and your mom happy. Sometimes, it's all about how you style it! And who knows, maybe she'll see it in a new light once she sees the complete outfit. What do you think? 😊

[Lliam]

I would say that it's alluring/charming, but definitely not too revealing. It's actually really cute.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nope, not at all.

It doesn't really matter though what we think.. I guess if you want to wear it, it matters what you think, and whether or not you allow yourself to be controlled by your mum.

[mstbooblover]

To my taste this top is very weird, still with nice colours and a special charm, but too revealing? No, I don't think so, at least if you know were you're going dressed like that.

[normalice]

It does reveal pretty much exactly what your boobs look like. It is up to you to decide if you want that to be revealed.

[desidoll]

This is modest enough to me lol. Your mum might be a little more conservative.

[LaurenM1997]

No it’s covered up what does she mean it’s “too revealing”? Yeah it reveals your chest but not the boobs

[LaurenM1997]

Also you are 18 now you can wear what you want you don’t need anybody else’s opinion I like the top I think it’s cute

[Billlewis]

If you're comfortable wearing it, I think you should absolutely show off your luscious, mouth watering figure.

[AmyHew1tt]

Revealing, with those sleeves? Lol. It's not too revealing. Where'd you get it by the way? It's gorgeous.

[slatyb]

You are an adult. You don't need your mother's approval of your wardrobe. Wear whatever you want.

[caitycat21]

I still live with her though

[slatyb]

And? You don't have to listen to her carping about your decisions. If she starts, just tell remind her that you are an adult and can dress yourself.

[lilBigPotato]

I don't like the look of it but it's not revealing

[HawkPerception]

I wouldn't say it's too revealing, but I will say it's not attractive

[strateguy632]

not any cleavage. even some cleavage is common. ma is wrong.

[molonski2]

NO , that's ludicrous your mother needs to wake up and quickly.

[soe11]

• Your absolutely right.
• Not revealing at all.
• If it's then, who care.
• So go for it my dear.

[DrPepper12]

With what kind of bra? I wouldn't want you spilling out of it but it's not crazy revealing unless you have a large cup size.

[82lynx]

In my opinion the style isn’t exactly becoming, but it’s not too revealing either.

[DrewJohnson]

I do not agree. This outfit is perfectly fine.

[Wise4myage]

No, I not agree because your not showing any cleavage.

[Anonymous]

For America, no; for Turkey, yes. It is a bit low cut; but then your breasts are mostly covered up. I don't understand the appeal of an exposed midriff; so I don't see a reason to keep it covered if you don't want to.

[Anonymous]

It might be too revealing in a primitive Baptist church, but by today's standards it is pretty conservative.

[LEGENDARY4200]

No looks perfectly fine, better than some of the stuff I see teenage girls wareing

[Anonymous]

no, it actually threads the line between cute and slutty really well and falls on the cute side

[elizamichale1]

Revealing? Not at all.. no honey it's not

[Nikki1989]

What part of it is revealing?

[desidoll]

I asked the same question lol,

[laly520]

thats a cute top

[CrabCakes11]

Your mom is strange. This top is fine

[DevikaButts95]

Disagree

[handsomelad70]

Not quite, but close.

[RedInnocent69]

Looks like a poodle. Gorgeous nonetheless.

[eagle1951]

look fine to me

[Awantika03]

Agree

[Jennz6]

Nah,

[NetherlandsNar]

I don't think it is

[jahaims]

Yeah

[TallAnon]

It's cute