Can you be sexy without having a pretty face/being pretty? And if so, what’s the difference?

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Cogk_Of_Atlantis · Accepted Answer

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FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Yes. I used to work at Cedar Point, in fact, today is the anniversary of my first day there. I worked at the games along the midway. One day, they stuck me at Pick-A-Duck. At that game, you're basically a baby sitter because you'll get one kid come up and distract you while another repeatedly picks up the ducks to see which has the L on the bottom (if you pick the L duck, you win a large prize) and then, when they pay to play, they pick that duck.
Anyway, when I first got there, I had to pick something up off the floor and, while I was bent over doing that, the girl that runs the game stood right beside me in her very short mini skirt and she had the most gorgeous, sexy legs I've ever seen!! And I loved the way they went right up and made an ass of themselves!! As I stood up, she had great hair and really knockout, sexy, big tits that defied gravity!! I was in love!! And, as The Monkees sang, "And then I saw her face..." HOOOLLLLLYYYYY SHIT!!! I wouldn't fuck her with YOUR dick if you HAD one!! And, if her face wasn't enough of a turn off, her attitude CERTAINLY was!! Her picture is next to the word, "Bitch" in the dictionary!! Pushy, bossy, demanding, demeaning, a major league ASSHOLE!!

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Sure! Sexy is a feeling, it’s a state of mind. It also goes both ways for a woman. We can wear something because it makes us feel sexy, or we can wear something that maybe we wouldn't choose for ourselves, but that our romantic partner thinks makes us look very sexy. Just look at some of the synonyms for sexy; seductive, alluring, desirable sensual, provocative, inviting, and sultry! These are all subjective feelings that either we can feel ourselves. we can put on nan outfit that makes us feel desirable or sensual, or whatever, but so too can a man, see us looking a certain way, or carrying ourselves in a certain way, even just a look we give to a man, can be very desirable, provocative, alluring, or inviting to him.

Pretty, on the other hand, while mostly subjective, can be measured. Science has discovered that the more symmetrical our face is from the left side to the right side, the more beautiful, or pretty we appear to men, and to bisexual and lesbian women.

I hope this helps.
Sincerely, Laura 🤗 🥰

Saggitariusdiva · Accepted Answer

Absolutely people can be sexy based on their attitude charisma and self carriage. Physical appearance does play a part in sexual attraction, but someone with the right attitude who is merely average looking, to slightly above average-looking can crank the sexuality dial up to 11. : sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic. 2. : generally attractive or interesting : appealing. a sexy stock. sexily. (of a person, especially a woman or child) attractive in a delicate way without being truly beautiful. 
 "a pretty little girl with an engaging grin" 
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Fashionista Amy · Accepted Answer

Absolutely, you can be sexy without conforming to traditional standards of beauty! Sexy is more about confidence, how you carry yourself, and the energy you radiate. It's in the way you dress, your body language, and how you communicate. Think of someone with great style, a captivating personality, or a charming sense of humor. These qualities can be incredibly attractive and sexy. Beauty is what catches the eye, but sexiness is what holds attention. What do you feel makes someone sexy without necessarily being traditionally pretty?

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GoodManDave · Answer

Yes... but I can't really think of a specific time at the moment, other than the woman I'm interested in; I was at a party... she walked in the room... my jaw just dropped. I think my only thought for a minute was... "Whoa." It was... I'm not entirely sure. Like I'm sure many pickier guys would think she was "meh" - She's not got a "classically gorgeous" face. I suppose it was something in the walk, maybe her friendliness, maybe some of that confidence, she was dressed ok, but nothing too revealing... I can't quite place all of it. But... it worked.

On the opposite side... There are some people that look good. Then they open their mouths.

With some actresses, for example, they can be hot, but having an ugly personality or saying ugly stuff all the time, to me, it makes them unappealing. Like mentally, their looks are almost sort of affected by personality or behavior. Like with some, I hear some horrible stuff, or even just stuff that isn't my thing... and then I see them, and I don't know, kinda makes them "Bleh" in my eyes. All the other guys are like "SHE IS SO F'ing HOT." (like they'll go see all their movies, or listen to the music or whatever.) "Yeah, but she's an anti-semite..." "She's had a billion dollars of plastic surgery" "she acts like an idiot..." etc.

To be fair, I know a bunch of women like that, too. I know one who is obsessed with an actor... I get it, like younger, he was what women find hot. I don't see it now as some of these guys are older.

Her, at 24 (Devout Christian): "I'd be his girlfriend in a hot second." Me: ("Would you REALLY want to date him? He's been on hard drugs for 5-10 years!" "He beats women!"..."He's been to jail five times" "He ran over a nun" Her: "You're just jealous and insecure... (always with those kinds of comments from the women) he's HOT!" (They're probably thinking "fame" and "money" and "trips to exotic places" and "having some arm candy" and "making other women jealous") but it's like... I don't think they'd want to put up with the negative sides of a lot of "celebs." I don't think they'd be able to even keep up with them.

Like... I can see we'd think some of it would be appealing... but I don't know, I could just see the stuff that would be a huge dealbreaker, too, and that sort of destroys the looks at least a little bit.

adventurous-1 · Answer

you most certainly can! You've see it for yourself when out in public or on TV, It can be accomplished by the way you carry yourself, and keep your self in shape. The way you interact with people and the way you talk, dress, wear your make-up and project a positive self image of sexiness. The mind is the sexiest organ we possess and if you develop your mindset it to its full capabilities you are going to be sexy! The sexiest people we pick for recognition are not always the best looking but have that something extra that sets them apart and grabs your attention with a bit of lust and desire. Sexy people exploit what they have to their advantage and enjoy the reactions it brings them. They know how to project and impact people, you can learn to do this as well.

hafinjun · Answer

"Sexy" isn't really about looks. I've known several beautiful women who were truly beautiful but not even a little sexy. Sexy is many things it's an attitude maybe slutty or curious a little demure. It's her scent perfumes she wears . How she dresses again sometimes a little slutty works but not necessarily. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder well so is sexy.
Different people find different things sexy. what one man finds irresistible in a woman , may drive another crazy. .

Nephilim000 · Answer

Totally. There is a girl at work. The first time I saw her she was walking into the break room and she was incredibly plain and a little chubby. I was really bored and decided to say hi. I probably wouldn't have if I was otherwise occupied. She turned out to be crazy cool. One of the coolest girls I had met in a minute. After getting to know her I wanted her so bad it hurt. I guess the brain is really the most powerful sex organ

ruby_mk · Answer

You can be sexy and still look good even if you don’t have a pretty face. If you do weight training 3x a week and 2x cardio a week for at least two years consistently if you have an mediocre body you can get in shape hence your face can also change for the better. You’ll look more attractive. Wear good clothes, get a good style. Take care of your hair, your skin you can look good and still many people will find you attractive.

DishLady · Answer

Yes, for sure. "Sexy" is partially based on the way you comport yourself, partially on how you physically present yourself and partially on looks. So the 2/3 guys and gals are not just considered "sexy" but approachable as well. A little imperfection might even make a person look hotter/sexier -- like Harrison Ford's little facial scar.

"Pretty" people can look too plastic and perhaps unapproachable as a consequence.

Sowanaski · Answer

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. The right person will always find you sexy. You could think you are ugly and most of your work or school thinks so too, but there will always be someone who thinks you are cute. We attract those who are a good genetic match for us.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Hell yea!

Being sexy has very little to do with a pretty face. You can have a beautiful woman dressed in sexy clothes, next to an average women fully dressed in street clothes. The average woman can exude sexuality, and the beautiful woman can be a yawn.

strateguy632 · Answer

yes, i think sexy means thin body n curvy.

pretty is mostly face.

beauty is better than sexy.

the joke is:

"a substitute teacher came into the 2nd grade classroom. and the first thing a girl asked "am i sexy". he paused thinking, n said "for your age you are all pretty".

he still got fired".

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm gonna say it's definitely more rare, but yes. I've seen it once. There was a girl who did not have an attractive face, but the way she dressed and move at the bar was so damn feminine and seductive, it caught my attention. I can honestly say I found her "sexy".

Sexy just means they have sex appeal and that a guy might consider fucking them.

strangeatcircleK · Answer

This is all about confidence. You can have the cutest and sexy face but if you don't have a strong personality to match you will hide into the crowd. Even an "unattractive" person can be attractive if they are fun to hang out with. Look at Owen Wilson with that big nose 🤣

byrdman89 · Answer

Hell yes! Sexy is an attitude! For instance confidence is sexy - being comfortable with yourself is sexy - style is sexy - intelligence is sexy etc - I've known plenty of women with a great face and body who just aren't sexy and plenty of women who may not have the best face or body but are sexy as hell!

clampfan101 · Answer

If you have literally never seen her face and can only imagine it. Online, for example. (And for people who are literally blind. lol) However, I personally find the face the most important part of physical beauty. Second place probably goes to the voice.

I want a LTR, so it’s important for me to me to listen to her. An attractive face and voice would help me enjoy it. (In addition to the more important non-physical beauties, such as being trustworthy and understanding.)

beards1990 · Answer

Sure I truly believe a man or woman can be sexy without a pretty face or being. For example - the nerdy girls in highschool are not pretty or ugly , but the reason a random person would consider them sexy is simply because they carrie themselves as being sexy or it's their attitude of not caring about people's opinions of them.

oldawg · Answer

My answer is a big definitely YES!!! I would like to say why I think so because part of my answer is hard to put in to words and I don't want to come out sounding like a jerk but I will be back

molonski2 · Answer

Sure can , I've known many people like this and they are the absolute best , a combination of an awesome body , attitude , and presentation plus action.

Jessikaah91 · Answer

I agree that it's more attitude, not everything is about looks, but also you could probably dress the part aswel

exitseven · Answer

Yes, if you have a fit body and carry yourself as if you don't care that maybe your face is not very attractive

JustinTheGreat · Answer

To me being sexy is about both the face and body. So yeah there are people who have nice bodies and average faces but I wouldn’t call them sexy. You need to have the whole package

Luopio27 · Answer

To shallow people, never. To those who are atracted to personality, loyalty, common intrest, status, wealth and so on, yes, you can be sexy without the pretty face, skinny body, flat stomach and medium boob/ass ratio.

NathanDavis · Answer

definitely so yes... confidence can be incredibly sexy

HusamRocks · Answer

Some people r pretty but not sex, some people r the opposite  Sexiness standards r different from one person to another👍🏻

paledreams · Answer

Hell I've been looked at, for better or for worse, by women, whether I've cared or not cared. 👀 So the answer has to be , of course 😁

dustybiker2 · Answer

Phone sex is real. How words are spoken delivers impact.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course. Sexy is not all about looks.

Amandanator · Answer

You got to have both! But seriously if you act sexy enough the face won’t matter too much

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Yeah. It's just when you have a nice body, but your face doesn't look as good.

Davidbrooks · Answer

Just remember beauty is only a light switch away.

hahahmm · Answer

Can you re-phrase this q. Not 100% sure what you're asking.

patrick994 · Answer

If you have avarage face, a fit body and good dress you can be sexy and charming.

camerum · Answer

Sexy is personality and energy. Pretty is visual.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Sexy is pertaining to physique. Not what your face looks like

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

For me it's way more than the face, but what that would look like depends on the person. For me personally, as long as she's feminine, submissive and playful, you can build sexual tension with me.

TheFirstMan · Answer

Sexy come from how you act and make a move. Pretty face is a gift, but being pretty is confusing. That the differences. Each man have there own perspective i guess.

nawtee_me · Answer

Sexy is not a pretty face and pretty body or an ugly face and pretty body. Sexy is an attitude not just a look. So yes, ugly girls can be very sexy too. Confidence is very sexy on a girl…

DrPepper12 · Answer

ATTITUDE!! Makes all the difference!! Vivacious women are 🔥🔥🔥 no mattet what they look like!!

Jay-_- · Answer

I think you can be attractive without having a pretty face but you can't be considered "sexy" if you don't have a "pretty face".

Brady · Answer

When an unattractive girl is permiscuous that is attractiv. But then if she's not old, is really unattractive or has a deformed/different face.

andy530 · Answer

Yes sexy is a way of behaving more than a way you look

massb · Answer

Yea it's about confidence. But if your in shape that helps a lot. Your body is something you can control for the most part

FenixG45 · Answer

YES, LOTS of ugly girls or guys are sexy AF!  And it is NOT about a face or a body.  Sexy is an ATTITUDE!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sexy and have a pretty face so what does that mean

CaptainLegal · Answer

I think it's all about your personality and how good you take care of your body.

Wiredone · Answer

Anyone can be sexy to someone that sees your sex appeal

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

Sexy comes in many ways for example I will think your sexy blonde with me and you can get me a coffee and I will be able to get a orgasm for you.

BrassRaven · Answer

Realistically this is all subjective. Someone's ugly face can be someone else's most beautiful person in the world..

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely. A beautiful body can make a man fall in love for sure, and then everything else about u on the inside counts as well

SkatPak392 · Answer

No. I have an ugly face. I have an ugly face, soooooothat ruins everything for me.

OddBeMe · Answer

Pretty is subjective. Your next beau may think you’re the prettiest girl in the world. Not kidding.

Jaykay99199 · Answer

Yes, and you can also be ugly with having a pretty face. In my opinion, it all comes down to personality, hygiene and how you carry yourself.

Deserter2 · Answer

Yeah, sex appeal is mostly to do with the body, not the face

justabuddy · Answer

Body, how you dress and how you carry yourself. Makeup

chrissykerdock · Answer

wear short dresses and you'll do fine

Cutegirl06 · Answer

Of course! Beauty comes from within.

4ngelic · Answer

yea if you have a hot body

thegreenyogi · Answer

Simple: use your head instead.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t think so which is why I haven’t been able to date

Charliefretz329 · Answer

If you are a lovable person absolutely

OtterMan68 · Answer

Ever watched Sex and the City?

innerman · Answer

It’s all about perspective

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