
What would upset you more, your son or your daughter coming home and proudly showing you their tongue jewelry?

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My daughter surmised me when she got a nose ring after a year in college. I wasn't crazy about it, but I didn't say anything, I just thought about how much it must have hurt her (it did). I was disappointed but today, she doesn't wear it anymore. She also cut her own hair to my shock! She looked good (Audrey Hepburn type of haircut) but her hair had been so long, that and the fact that shew lost a lot of weight --she looked like a different person altogether. Now her hair is the same, short, but the nose ring is gone.
Seems like you were in denial that your child abused cocaine in college and was sleeping around
@Peridot25 Your face fits you
@Peridot25 love you
I mean depends... You can't get a tongue piercing here under the age of 16 without parents permission and most reputable places will not do it under 18 at all. If they were over 18 that's their choice to do it without telling me though I would like to know. Either way I'd like to know, it's a piercing that can come with a lot of risks that I'd like them to be aware of beforehand. At the end of the day a piercing will close up so it's not a big deal to me. My kids can have whatever age appropriate piercings they want within reason.
Tongue piercings are just freakish. If their upbringing was so flawed that my kids thought it was ok to mutilate their bodies, I failed years ago.
It's difficult enough for young people to succeed in today's highly competitive economy, why would anyone want to needlessly handicap themselves?
Given two similar possible hires, no one would hire the one that looks bizarre and has a demonstrated history of bad decision making.
Your child would probably remove the piercing for an interview... unless they are interviewing for an acting gig in a pornographic film.
True, that. But bad decisions were still made. More will likely follow.
Neither... They are free to have as many piercings and tattoos as they like
I have 9 piercings myself, 1 is a tongue piercing.
My daughter had a fake Septum piercing; I had my Septum pierced because of that and shortly after my daughter had hers done properly.
I've promised my daughter I will pay for her first tattoo when she turns 18.
@Crimsyjo I have been stretching up mine; I am at 4mm now... but the damn thing still just falls out when my nose is a little bit runny lol
I do like my piercings... but they can be annoying too, getting stuck on every piece of clothing I pull over my head; my 10mm flesh tunnels are occasionally being pulled through my earlobes; and I keep losing O-rings.
Tattoos are definitely my thing too. Nearly the whole right side of my body is covered in Tribal Motif now, only my lower leg needs to be coloured in (the 20th of August) and my right foot needs to be done. Then back, side, and front are done... Work can start on the left side. I am aiming for 90% coverage, possibly my head included (just the Tribal Motif... no pictures or something).
I've spend about £4500 in 3 years time; £3500 in the past 2 years.
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I believe everyone has right to live their life as they please. Including my kids. One of my daughters (18) has purple hair and her nose pieced through middle. My other (12) has dyed red hair and streaks.
Why would i treat sons different to daughters?
I would be very upset and extremely disappointed with either our son or daughter... Thankfully we still have many years to go before we start encountering any such issues.
It could happen as early as 7th grade.
I would be upset if they hadn't talked with me about it beforehand. Cause it can damage their teeth.
Other than that, as long as it was done safely at a proper place and they were of the proper age, I wouldn't care.
If they are over 20 years old and can earn their own money, tattoos and piercing sound not a problem anymore.
I definitely would be upset if either of them did that.. if I had children.
@supercutebutt Thank you for the Like
@jerre You should get a tongue piercing when Trump loses in November. :)
@supercutebutt I’ll get a tongue piercing if you get a nipple piercing. Then I’ll tryout your piercing with my tongue.
I wouldn't be upset. I would think it's dumb, but I wouldn't be upset. I might actually be amused. It's better then drugs so 🤷♂️😂
Well i dont have any daughter but if any of my son came home with that... at max i would let him keep it for a dew days only then i will make him take it off
During those few days, would you let your sons test them out on gentlemen in the neighborhood in a gloryhole setting? Assuming you deem them old enough, of course.
On gentlemen? Not really
I will keep my sons away from ever growing media push on the society which is turning men away from women
I am sorry if my opinion on this feels offensive
What if your sons pleasured BOTH men and women with their mouths?
I hope n i m sure it won't come to tht
It most likely will.
Whatt? Why? Why do you say so
Well yes that movement definitely went too tooooo far plus all the push towards lgbt stuff trying to drive people away from straight relationships...
I am and i will be extra careful in upbringing of my sons n i will ensure they dont fall for the nonsense n crap
I don't think you can teach people what they are attracted to, though. All you can do is shame people into acting a certain way by trying to scare them.
Well i can teach them whats natural for them being boys n what they should n shouldn't be doing...
You can certainly try. :)
I definitely will
Good luck! 👍
Thanks honey😊😊
It's just a trendy thing to do, so why worry about it. It'll be something different a year or two down the road... always is.
I dunno. This "trend" has been around for as long as i can remember.
Hehehe... wait till you're as old as I am there will be many along the way.😊
I would order to put it off because it damages teeth. If she/he doesn't comply I'm at next morning by a lawyer and fill disinherit papers
Yikes!
@supercutebutt the son more I personally like a girl with a tongue ring find it sexy.
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@supercutebutt will do. do you like piercings on men at all? and if so on what parts of his body?
@FarmBoy13 Maybe it's his stepdaughter?
@supercutebutt if it’s the stepdaughter then I can stand behind it
@Peridot25 Don't blame us. Blame pornography. All the stepdaughters want romance with stepdaddy.
After I saw images of the tongue swelling up the size of a basketball when the main artery is hit it turned me off those things.
@Peridot25 The artery is going to be in a slightly different place for everyone. The fault is equal. Choice to get it and poor job done.
Both would be upsetting, daughter slightly more. Of course I’d support their decision either way
I wouldn't care if they are 18 . If they are under 18 then I would be equally upset.
Neither. I'd have either pull that shit out of their faces and swish with peroxide.
I would never do it, but I couldn't care less if others wants a pierced tongue.
Daughter, noone wants their baby girl to be a whore
I would give them both a good thumping. Then get out the needle nosed pliers.
Honestly either, I'd expect for then to have a conversation with me first. I've created an environment in out home where my kids can come to us with ANY request and plead their case. So just popping up with a tongue ring would shock me.
No. Mom taught her well. I'd call her man over and buy vodka
I have a vasectomy and no kids that I know of so I'd be stunned if either showed up!!!
If it was my son I would call him a F A G G O T; if it were my daughter I would call her a whore.
Very harsh.
Id probably be more concerned if it was done right and clean, probably more pissed they didn't say anything actually...
I think daughter, I know for guys it’s a short phase and they’ll remove it but I see girls with tongue rings in for YEARS
Are most of them ladies of the evening?
Nobody wants to see their son with a tongue ring. It’s basically advertising to the word that he sucks cock.
People like cock, though.
But people don’t like men who suck cock
Who are you, the cock police?
CBI.
They’re both equally bad, it’s says ur daughter is a slut and ur son is gay 🤣
Would you prefer you son get an anal piercing so it's hidden until the time he pleasures a gentleman with his buttocks?
Neither would upset me
I wouldn'tmind as long as they're 18
They will probably be 14. So then what?
I don't think I'd be a controlling father in the slightest and wouldn't dictate what they want so i wouldn't be overjoyous but I would like to at least go with them to get it done so that I know it's an acredited tattoo/piercing place. But I would try to convinve them to wait until 18 where there's a bit more maturity and udnerstanding. When I was 14 I wanted all sorts of things until i reached 18 most of them were phase i realised
I'd find both really upsetting
How upsetting? On a scale from 1 to 10.
Oh wow.
Both are out of the house.
Lol. What if they set up a gloryhole on the porch, after you kick them out?
I would disown them both.
Harsh.
That's why I'd never have children. I would make a terrible father.
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