True or false: cosmetic surgery is a sign of the person being insecure?

[Danny_dan92]

True

False

[FreyaRed]

Some people want improve their appearance without being insecure about their look. Without BL1 veneers most models won't get teeth cosmetic product contracts. Often are cosmetic surgeries just a tool to achieve specific appearance goals and not a result of insecurities.

[quickquesocheese]

as a lot of other people have said, its not as black and white. many things can lead a person into cosmetic surgery. a lot of people have it due to accident that might have left them with scares, for exampel. or i mean, a lot of people actually have plastic surgery on their nose due to having trouble breathing (shaving down the cartilage)

[Phoenix98]

A lot of the time it is yes.

Though there are instances of people who have been scarred in horrific accidents getting it or who suffered from medical issues like maybe their nose was messed up and they couldn't breath properly through it or something. But they are few and far between.

A lot of people get it due to vanity or insecurity.

[Phoenix98]

Thanks.

[genericname85]

i don't think that a desire to be seen as attractive is necessarily a insecurity thing. it's just a normal human need. it couls sure be out of insecurity. but heck, if you know you're ugly as fuck, then why is it insecurity? you're secure about being ugly.

[AI Opinion]

It isn’t as black and white as true or false. Cosmetic surgery can be a deeply personal decision. For some, it might stem from insecurity, while for others, it can be about enhancing a feature or correcting something that affects their confidence. Everyone’s reasons and motivations are different and valid. What’s important is respecting each person’s choice and understanding their perspective. Do you have a personal view or experience with this?

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Depends. Some people it's insecurity, some people it's peer pressure, some people it's just they want to, and there's prolly more reasons too. It's a lot like getting a tattoo or piercing. There's lots of different reasons can be good or bad, but ultimately it (should be) their choice.

[thatshydork]

Depends on the kind of plastic surgery and why they got it. Some plastic surgeries are done for medical reasons.

[Danny_dan92]

True

[Bricealan]

Try this on.-- Not everyone want their physiognomy to reflect their chronological age, OR - Perhaps they were not born with the size/shape features that they would like to present to the world, and want to modify them as best as they can?

[PeachyPie93]

Obviously if it isn't a medical reason to have something done they are doing it because they are insecure. I probably will do something eventually because I hate everything about myself lol.

[ArrowheadSW]

Not necessarily. I think wanting to improve one's look isn't necessarily a sign of insecurity.

[bobalife]

Not necessarily, so I am voting false. It could also be medical reasons, injuries, or disproportion bodies.

[1073sucks]

Partially yes. It could also just be vanity. A person who already is secure but always wants to look better.

[Joshydavid25]

I'm not completely against cosmetic surgery.. But, for the most part I would say yeah it is a sign of insecure.. Not always but for the most part..

[Clyde_123]

Not really Some uses it because they have defects on face and some people had accident
But some people are extremely insecure yeah so they constantly changes their face because they are unhappy about it even though they ar3 already attractive

[Dinklex3]

Probably.

Having insecurities is pretty normal though.

[exitseven]

It can be but it can be that somebody was born with a physical flaw that they are self conscious about or had a accident that left rhem disfigured

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe. Or maybe just tired of people talking about it.

[Peridot25]

Depending on what a person has done. If something they truly need to get fixed, like something medical, then no.

[worldscolide]

Unless it's reconstructive.. Yeah. It's also a sign that they're fake, shallow, and honestly not wife or husband material.

[loveslongnails]

There are too many circumstances in each case to just make a valid, blanket generalization like that.

[Hannajenky]

Sometimes it can be, but not necessarily. There are many different types is cosmetic surgery, for all different kinds of things.

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends largely on why they're getting it.

[Anonymous]

Yes. But take me for instance. When I was a kid I grew moobs and couldn't lose them no matter how much weight I lost until I got surgery.

[Evamee]

For some I think it is because they want to fix a problem they see in themselves.

[bobby_bush_eater]

For the most part, yes. Things like burns and birth defects I understand and that's really what the original purpose was for

[Dongie]

That depends. Some people have an accident and others are a victim of a botched surgery. I'm not a big proponent of trying to beat age with it tho.

[jahaims]

Opinions aren't true or false. Facts and fallacies are

[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

Some people have medical conditions, deformities, or injuries that cosmetic surgery can help.

[fonduegirl]

Not everyone is hot such as yourself

[Danny_dan92]

Nobody is perfect, including myself. What’s important is people accept themselves for how they are

[fonduegirl]

Beauty is genetics for many people. I know it's for me

[Danny_dan92]

It’s all based on facial structure.

Prominent jawlines, eye size, good hairline, proportionate nose width/size in relation to mouth

Universally people are attracted to people with those characteristics.

[fonduegirl]

And many don't have it, which is exactly my point

[Danny_dan92]

Yes but less than 1% of the entire world population has that along with everything else that is desirable

[fonduegirl]

Some people have that kind of cash on them, to fix the feature

[fonduegirl]

I personally would like to get nose job

[Danny_dan92]

Why would you want to get a nose job?

[fonduegirl]

I've my dad's nose. It's so ugly

[Danny_dan92]

That’s fair. However you should ask men what they think and base your perception on the average response.

I’m not sure if you are just personally insecure about it. Unless you already came to that conclusion

[fonduegirl]

I don't care what a man has to say about my appearance. It's just not relevant.

[Danny_dan92]

So you’re telling me, if a man you found attractive. Told you that your nose is fine and nothing to be insecure about, you’d still be insecure about it?

[fonduegirl]

Yes of course.

[fonduegirl]

Men know nothing about aesthetics, no offense.

[Danny_dan92]

Interesting

[fonduegirl]

Say you were a girl and you had huge tits and your boyfriend said "you're very attractive" but you know your body feels very disproportionate... So you'd get breast lift ya? Ya

[Danny_dan92]

Disproportionate in what way?

[fonduegirl]

Body proportions... Damn...
It's like I said, men are least knowledgeable about aesthetics

[fonduegirl]

You'd look like an anime girl in real life, but those standards only suit a cartoon character like Nami and in real life would look weird.

Your female friends would tell you that much.

[Danny_dan92]

I’m just asking you to unpack that so I can understand the context you have in mind.

Like the boobs are huge but aren’t the same size/shape? Or something else?

[fonduegirl]

They are very big, but they don't look good on your body type. They're mismatched.

I feel like you're not getting it because you're a man. Once again, I don't meant this offensively.

[Danny_dan92]

Ah so you mean huge tits on a small frame? Sure women that are built like this experience back problems but not only do I know many men are attracted to this aesthetic, but I’ve seen many women that have this build that embrace it and exploit it

[fonduegirl]

It was just an example.

Those women who embrace it are automatically perceived as bimbos

But yeah.

[Danny_dan92]

If you’re speaking from personal experience then I apologize if I have offended you. Just was trying to understand what you meant

[fonduegirl]

I'm just saying, wouldn't you get a breast lift?

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah those particular women are that and love male attention/sex

[fonduegirl]

If you’re speaking from personal experience then I apologize if I have offended you. Just was trying to understand what you meant // haha nah mine are just fine lol

[fonduegirl]

Yeah those particular women are that and love male attention/sex // see? A stereotype

[Danny_dan92]

I have a particular thing that sometimes makes me feel insecure. I have not thought of changing it.

So if I was a girl in that position? Probably not.

[fonduegirl]

I'd get a breast lift

[fonduegirl]

I have a particular thing that sometimes makes me feel insecure. I have not thought of changing it.

So if I was a girl in that position? Probably not. // Is it your cock?

[fonduegirl]

Huge cocks are painful, I hear. And it's harder to shop for knickers

[fonduegirl]

Plus it's the technique that matters

[fonduegirl]

For most women at least...

So do have size difference fetish

[Danny_dan92]

I said that because often I crossed paths with women that had this physique and they loved to have sex and receive attention from males.

And no, not my dick. My height

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t have a fetish for anything regarding women’s breast size or anything else. What I do care about is if they’re in shape and are not overweight

[fonduegirl]

Oh...

[fonduegirl]

Well, as long as your D isn't short too... I don't think it matters all that much tbf

[fonduegirl]

There's liposuction

[fonduegirl]

What if you could increase your height through surgery?

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve been told by many women I have a big cock. And pretty much all have said “it’s perfect”

[fonduegirl]

Would you? And if not, would you be jealous of men who have?

[Danny_dan92]

You can increase your height via surgery. But it’s extremely expensive, and honestly I just learned to accept my height for what it is. Aka confidence

[fonduegirl]

I’ve been told by many women I have a big cock. And pretty much all have said “it’s perfect” // Good.

[Danny_dan92]

I have been envious of taller men, but again. I learned to accept things for how they are

[fonduegirl]

You can increase your height via surgery. But it’s extremely expensive, and honestly I just learned to accept my height for what it is. Aka confidence // what if you had a lot of money

[Danny_dan92]

I still wouldn’t do it

[fonduegirl]

I have been envious of taller men, but again. I learned to accept things for how they are // are you jealous of men who earn a lot and get height increment surgery?

[Danny_dan92]

Nope. I pitty them. They let societal standards get to them.

Ultimately men do this hoping women are more accepting of them… personally every woman I’ve taken to bed loved me lol so height ain’t shit

[fonduegirl]

It's a big deal for many women.

It's not for me though. I come from a family of giants I suppose.

[fonduegirl]

I'd only like a taller boyfriend if he's very submissive.

That's a nice dynamic

[fonduegirl]

And exactly my age

[Danny_dan92]

Interesting. And yeah it’s kind of ass backwards. Lol taller women are ok with short men, but most short girls exclusively prefer giant men

[fonduegirl]

That's silly. I'd be happy with a handsome face. If he goes to gym every now and then, jackpot. Oh and dark eyebrows and eyelashes

[fonduegirl]

Dimples are cute but not necessarily a criteria

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah girls like a nice face for multiple reasons

[fonduegirl]

I think the preference for height comes from expecting future tall kids.

I don't want kids.

I'd be okay with a guy I vibe with whos even shorter

[fonduegirl]

Yeah girls like a nice face for multiple reasons // yes for face sitting

[fonduegirl]

Joking joking

[Danny_dan92]

Well yeah, it’s part of natural selection.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s one of the reasons why lol

[fonduegirl]

Well yeah, it’s part of natural selection. // Kinda dumb to me

[Danny_dan92]

Although sometimes women that at one point never want kids, could end up wanting kids if they end up in love with a man they really mesh well with.

[fonduegirl]

Nah. If I divorce a guy, I sure as hell would give him the custody.

I'm just not a big fan

[Danny_dan92]

Well then I suppose sex will be the only thing to look forward to with a life long relationship

[fonduegirl]

You're being lame.

You're telling a person who doesn't want to become a banker that the banking exam is very easy nowadays so they should try their luck.

I mean... Did you forget the part that said they don't want to? Hahaha

[fonduegirl]

Well then I suppose sex will be the only thing to look forward to with a life long relationship // there's also companionship. Commitment. Loyalty. Communication. Going to Disneyland together coz that's my dream

[Danny_dan92]

How am I being lame? Lol just being honest

Disneyland… lol

[fonduegirl]

Some people just don't want kids

It's not a matter of "good partner" LOL

[fonduegirl]

It's like your girlfriend telling you "I don't like chocolate ice-cream" and you tell her "under the right condition, you feel" like it's lame to think you can force people hahaha

[Danny_dan92]

I do but also don’t so I understand to some extent

[Danny_dan92]

Not saying you can force people to do something or think a certain way. More so just encourage people to have an open mind. Because yes, things change

[fonduegirl]

Everyone's got their own reasons.

Some don't have it because they don't wanna pass their lifelong disease. Some don't have kids coz it's bad for the environment. Some wanna travel with the money instead of blowing it on child rearing. Some just can't stand children. Some aren't financially well to have a family. Some can't let another human being taken over their priorities. Etc etc

[Danny_dan92]

For me it’s because kids are expensive.

Plus I only want to have kids with a woman I know for a fact, is a keeper

[fonduegirl]

Not saying you can force people to do something or think a certain way. More so just encourage people to have an open mind. Because yes, things change // in this case, society is more accepting towards individuals changing their minds than somebody who really doesn't want a kid, even with a good partner

[fonduegirl]

For me it’s because kids are expensive.

Plus I only want to have kids with a woman I know for a fact, is a keeper //

Unnecessarily expensive for me. It's like, people want to be miserable or something

[fonduegirl]

I hope you keep your mind open for a nose job, when I get one lol

[Danny_dan92]

You want me to be accepting of you changing your nose?

[fonduegirl]

You want me to be accepting of you changing your nose? // Yu-uh

[Danny_dan92]

I see, surely there’s a reason why

[fonduegirl]

I just don't like it.

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, then change it. Do what makes you happy. Fuck it

[fonduegirl]

Thanks, hot stuff

[Danny_dan92]

No problem sugar

[Bricealan]

@anon1903 You GO GIRL !!! LOLOLO

[Danny_dan92]

What was that?

[Bricealan]

@Danny_dan92 You sound much like a plastic surgeon yourself, in that you know what features really make a physiognomy attractive. I have a lot of experience with plastic surgery since I have had plenty of it over several years and will probably have more I have had enough done that it has changed my self image, and has made a noticeable difference in my appearance in a positive way, so much so that it has literally changed my view of myself and with others.

Thanks for your comments, as you sound well informed

[Danny_dan92]

I’m not a plastic surgeon

[fonduegirl]

Thanks, Brice Alan

[Bricealan]

@anon1903 That is exactly why I did what I did... don't agonize over it. You are only 23, go to a board certified plastic surgeon and get an opinion. Many times the insurance will pay if the surgery is described as a "deviated septum". Do it, it may be one of the best decisions you will ever make...

[fonduegirl]

I wanna really reduce the alar base hahaha

[blueonblack22]

Depends how extreme it is.

[Pohjolan]

They might be just ugly.

[noohair]

It is more complicated that that.

[thegreenyogi]

I believe so.

[Walksbehindtherows]

Nonsense