Would you say that good looks are mainly about genetics or things like grooming, fashion style, hygiene etc?

[Anonymous]

Can someone dramatically transform his/her looks and become extremely good looking without doing plastic surgery?

[abbyjgriffin98]

Maybe it's partially genetics. But it also depends on how well you take care of yourself and what you think about yourself. When I was younger, I didn't like myself very much. I had a difficult time making friends and had issues at home. This caused me to treat myself poorly. I started binge eating and gained a lot of weight. I had acne covered skin which seemed to be both greasy and oily yet dry and flaky at the same time. I didn't take enough showers and didn't brush my teeth long enough. I also had glasses and braces which added to the illusion. By the time I was in high school, I was as heavy as about 140lbs. Mind you, I'm only 4'10." I was also just bitter and angry all the time, so I didn't even have a good personality. But when I was a Junior in high school, I saw a video of myself and I didn't like what I saw. I knew I wasn't attractive inside or out, yet I had no issues complaining about having no friends. I decided I never wanted to feel like this ever again. When I was a senior, I cut my dried out, greasy hair short and grew it out long and healthy again. I started seeing a dermatologist and got my skin cleared up. I got contacts and ditched the braces. When I was a freshman in college, I stopped binge eating and quit drinking soda, so I lost a lot of weight. I went from 140lbs. to 114lbs. I used to think my body shape was an overweight rectangle. But after I lost some weight, I realized, I'm actually a petite hourglass. I started dressing to flatter my figure and found makeup techniques to enhance my greatest facial features. Eventually, I started to notice guys looked at me differently. The attention was addictive. But I also knew, even though I changed my looks, I was nowhere near ready to handle a relationship, emotionally. So throughout college, I focused on 2 things. My education and to become the greatest version of myself. Once I graduated and got a job, I was the happiest person I have ever been. And I still am.

2016 vs. 2023

[Asker]

Thanks for the reply. And you look georgeous by the way.

[abbyjgriffin98]

Aw, thank you!

[Asker]

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[Nikki1989]

Genetics certainly do play a significant role. Grooming and fashion can only do so much.

[Lliam]

Grooming, fashion style, hygiene, as well as fitness, mannerisms, behavior and attitude play a role.

For instance, a woman whose face isn't drop dead gorgeous in a photo can turn out to be extremely attractive in person.

[Asker]

What do you mean with the last part?

[Lliam]

Cute facial expressions and the way her face moves when she laughs or smiles. Her general mannerisms. Her voice. Her wit and attitude.

I'm not into cookie cutter standards of beauty. That's why I don't rate women. All kinds of "average" girls can be absolutely adorable and sexy.

[Anonymous]

mainly genetics but kept up by good lifestyle habits

[AI Opinion]

Good looks can definitely be enhanced by factors beyond genetics. Grooming, fashion style, hygiene, and confidence play major roles in transforming someone's appearance. A well-thought-out wardrobe, proper skincare, and a great haircut can make a significant difference. While genetics set a foundation, the way you present yourself and take care of your appearance can dramatically influence how good looking you are perceived to be. ✨

[jahaims]

Mostly genetics