Why do people have to keep pointing out how tall or big I am?

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Okay I don’t need to be reminded how tall I am and that I’m tall. I fucking get it!
I don’t like being called big. I don’t mind tall but don’t call me big. No woman wants to be called big. Some might but most won’t. I’m naturally slender but it doesn’t help because people still call me big. My parents always remind me that I’m tall and I will never be average size like the other women or wear those cute clothes average size or petite women wear and I need to find something that will make me comfortable not the latest styles.

I always got told to stand up straight very sternly by my parents.
When I go places, people always stare at me, little kids pints at me and some scream or hid behind their parents when they see me. I don’t want to be intimidating but my friends said that’s not a bad thing and they wish they had an intimidating height.
Why can’t I trade my 6’4” 157lbs for a petite 5’1 body or even 5’9” slender body? The world isn’t made for very tall people.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So agree hate this! Let me slouch look smaller please!

Honestly would love a good date without a sissy boy wanting me to make him feel small.

Get me a manly dude who loves me for me! Who will reach up to take a kiss! Not beg me to sit on him!

Iquestioneverything · Accepted Answer

I’m 6’3” and slim and finding pants that are long enough but not too loose in the waist is very difficult! Not many men are taller than me, and honestly that’s ok. It’s more of a personal issue than a life one; except for clothing to fit.

DryGermanGuy · Accepted Answer

Hey, it could be worse. There was a 7 foot guy in my school. He could not walk through a regular door frame without bumping his head or bending down.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Why call you big, huge would be more appropriate, tallness is a masculine trait.

Fashionista Amy · Accepted Answer

Hey there! It's understandable that hearing comments about your height gets old. People often focus on what's different or unique without considering how it might make someone feel. 🌟 Remember, your height is part of what makes you unique and beautiful. Many would love to have your height! Fashion-wise, there are plenty of brands embracing diverse sizes, so you can find clothes that reflect your style and comfort. Celebrate your uniqueness and remember, confidence is the best outfit! 😊

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I'm 5'1, and it's not fun when I can't get the groceries from the highest shelf...

Intheclouds00 · Answer

Men are intimidated by tall women. Women are intimidated by tall women. But the ones that aren't are the the better people of the world and if you stock up on those kinds of people your life will be better for it

oldpigg · Answer

155 centimeters is practically a dwarf, so it would still be a phenomenon.

LiamJHayden · Answer

It's just something a lot of people do. I'm a guy and 2" shorter than you and I get it all the time.

Surely · Answer

Comparing your height to your weight. You are far from being a big or overweight woman!

msc545 · Answer

Does complaining about this make you actually feel better?

itsannalee · Answer

I’m 165 and i wish i am a bit taller.

Anonymous · Answer

i would definetley date a woman as tall as you, but unfortuneately i'm 5'7 and i live in California.

bananathunder · Answer

do you have pics?

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