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Why can't people just admit they want to find confidence in other people's validation.
Where did this excuse come from that they do it for themselves, let's be logical for a sec, if I went shirtless and flexing my muscles in public in boxer briefs who would assume "oh wow he must be doing it for himself" π
I'd like to assume the first thought in people's minds would be "stop showing off you meathead and put on a shirt" π
Where did this excuse come from that they do it for themselves, let's be logical for a sec, if I went shirtless and flexing my muscles in public in boxer briefs who would assume "oh wow he must be doing it for himself" π
I'd like to assume the first thought in people's minds would be "stop showing off you meathead and put on a shirt" π
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Many do it for themselves. γ €
https://www.youtube.com/embed/PDhtMGNmtx8This is something that has certainly never happens to me. I do ensure that all my clothing are unrevealing, hide everything they have to hide and that I am not walking around like a w**** or shut.
Even in summer I do not wear any revealing clothing and all the parts from top to bottom are covered with appropriate clothing.
I hate that feeling when people are talking and staring at you because of the way you dress.
How do you know how that feeling feels if you dress unrevealing, well well well sushi ποΈ
Sue I'm sure you would be the belle of the ball whatever you wore π
@Sunrising I have my doubts about the belle of the ball. I can't dance ballroom dances. I would be stepping on all the feet in a radius of 3... feet π
The belle of the ball doesn't need to be able to dance π
Because they do.
If I go out like a 'prostitute on customer hunt' ( comment of my dad to one of my former outfits ). I do it to check it out what is my attraction magic level. It's about validation but it's not about individual validation just for evaluation of your assets or farming attention of hungry dogs who can look but can't taste.
I love your analogy Chico!!
I guess you could ask the same question about getting their breast made to be huge. Is that for them or is that for men to look at?
Same thing with the big (huge) butts?
Yes it's hard to believe anything cosmetic is done for one self when the whole point of cosmetic is to look a certain way
You said it. Itβs an excuse. Period.
they didnβt learn respect as a child from their teacher lol
Midnight for the win π
Self rationalization, it's annoying but it's what people do. Same reason you see fat people call themselves healthy and normal despite obviously having too much food and sugar.
So when guys swim shirtless, it's for validation?
They are swimming, now if a woman goes out in a thong the size of a rubber band, what exactly is the point of that?
Exactly Chico! I suggest swimming without clothes, well for the females lol.
Why can't they just swim with a shirt on though? What is the point of swimming without a shirt?
Have you try swimming with a shirt on?
I sure have. Have you?
A shirt vs swimsuit, I prefer swimsuit.
Yes, I have swam in a shirt many times. Is your motive to be immodest and show off, since you choose the less modest swimsuit over shirt?
I think y'all are proving my point even more, swimming with a shirt is an option, unless they wanna tan π
I think maybe you're confused. Yes swimming is a shirt with an option, so why don't most men swim with a shirt?
Maybe for the reason I've been trying to explain to everyone now, because it isn't for themselves, they want to be seen that way, which leaves us to my question, why make up such an excuse π
So you go shirtless when you swim for female validation? π Well okay, that's a curve ball. I guess I expected too much, my bad
I don't go swimming π
Wow, even more sad π’
Not really, would you get in public pools in Miami? π
Aw hell no, but then again I'd never live in Miami lol but I would be hitting the beach every week if I was that close to the beach
Beaches were alright when I was a kid but I lost interest the more I grew up, in the summer they also grow brain eating bacteria and stuff, I'll pass lol
Well to be fair, gulf beaches are a lot more fun. Less salty and crowded. But still, seems like a waste
I guess if you are a beach chick, by all means enjoy it, but the sand and stuff isn't really my cup of tea, probably a waste to you cause you like the beach π
That's true lol we do love the beach
That's good πππΌ