I sew my own clothes...it's always a black/white combo (very classy)...I have a strong fashion sense and it shows in my attitude (I'm very confident while wearing my pieces)
Guys are always staring but none has ever approached me... not even when I went clubbing.
So are you guys intimidated by a girl that dresses stylishly and different from all the rest or do you just think she's crazy?
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Girls that seem more sophisticated then the general crowd will be more intimidating to most men, yes. Couple that with (what many men might perceive as) an over-confident attitude, and most men will simply go for an easier target; one they perceive as easier to approach and less likely to reject them.
Guys will appreciate your outfits and confidence once you are WITH them, but they tend to approach girls who are more casual and easy-going and who they perceive as less likely to blow them off or publically humiliate them. It sounds like you are coming off as a "sophisiticated ice queen" to them, and they figure that they can't compete with the guys they imagine you are attracted to, so why bother?
Only the super-confident "rock star" types will usually go for that kind of girl, and those guys are players who are just looking for a pump and dump in most cases.3