I’ve been a member here for just a few days and I’ve seen this question asked to many times: “How do I get a girl?”
Although it might seem that some guys just “have it” and others don’t, it’s just like any other skill - you can learn it through practice.
Girls like to chase something they can’t get. Hence they are not attracted to guys who are so readily available for them. You need to make yourself a challenge for her, make her EARN you and your attention. You are the prize, the trophy.
Now that’s a trophy mentality for ya!
Check out my next article: How To Get Girls Part 2 (Getting To Know Her).
Although it might seem that some guys just “have it” and others don’t, it’s just like any other skill - you can learn it through practice.
- First off, if you have NO clue what you are doing, it’s good to know what basically attracts women to men. The most attractive element is a fun and entertaining life where you basically just do what you want, when you want.
Look at it like this; most girls think they have a boring life and need someone to spice it up. Are you that guy? Are you the guy that everyone calls every weekend to see what you are doing? To meet up with you? Are you the one initiating most activities in your group? Are you the guy that actually has fun when he’s in the bar, whether he has a girl or not? Or are you just some boring guy with a life that no other person would want to be part of? The guy that goes out and stands in a corner all night and that nobody invites to parties because he doesn’t add to the fun anyways? - Second, girls always fall for men of high status (of which confidence is a byproduct).They want a guy who’s better than them. A real catch. A big fish to show off to their friends.
Not a lucky lottery winner who got the chance of his life to date a nice girl. No, they want a prize, THEY want to be the winner of a prize. That’s why girls aren’t attracted to you when you treat them as the prize: it means they are better then you.
If you buy them gifts, shower them with compliments and remind her that you are the luckiest guy on earth to have her, she automatically feels that she’s not the lucky winner in the relationship, but you are. So she will automatically look higher up for a guy that SHE can look up too. Someone of higher status then herself. Someone who had many options but out of ALL options he had choose HER.
Girls like to chase something they can’t get. Hence they are not attracted to guys who are so readily available for them. You need to make yourself a challenge for her, make her EARN you and your attention. You are the prize, the trophy.
Now that’s a trophy mentality for ya!
Check out my next article: How To Get Girls Part 2 (Getting To Know Her).
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