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And my favorite:
"Most women are ugly strippers. So since they don't have much to flaunt, rather than feel genetically inferior, they use the excuse of morality to cloth their otherwise unremarkable bodies, and cast guilt and shame to those they are jealous of. Do you know what a stripper does? She dances for money. It sure beats working. But in order to dance for money, you need a man who has plenty of it, and who likes to see you dance. At least my girls are honest about who they are."
As for #7 & 8, I'll quote Alex, one of the partners in Mons Venus.
"Do you know what my strippers fear the most? The day that men lose their sexual honesty. If men start to feel ashamed or inhibited when it comes to sex, all my girls 'll starve. A guy can jerk off and orgasm. A girl can't jerk off and pay her rent, or buy food, or feel loved. Guys don't come here for sex, or to see naked girls, they come here to feel powerful, to make an other human being dance for a dollar"
Blame feminism... that's what has neutered men, and turned em into pussies... women are confused as to what a man is, that's why they often mistake douchebaggery, d***ery and assdom for manliness... It's that freaking simple... People have the answer in front of them (just being themselves), but they have been conditioned to believe that they gotta be something they are not in order to impress someone (and that's total bullcrap). But that's the way it is now, and guys gotta learn...
American girls like "Bad Boys."
Russian women like EVIL MEN.
I think this title can be more effectively labeled as dominant guys vs submissive guys. Most of the traits you have named don't necessarily point to a "nice guy" but rather a submissive one: someone who is wishy washy, can't make decisions, can't lead a date, insecure, etc.
good girls can be dumped too. say if any girl wants to do whatever guy tells, do you think any guy wouldn't abuse her ? if you are with a nice girl, maybe you will cheat on her too because you know she will forgive you when you are caught. I don't think you want emotional bound with a girl who wants to be your slave. if you have the chance, you will leave her when you are bored and find another girl who is prettier.
girls just don't like submissive guys.
Reason 9: Being a man doesn't mean you have to make decisions for her. Why can't she be a woman and make a decision for us huh?
Reason 8: Being arrogant and calming down are entirely different things
Reason 7: In order to be attracted to someone you have to like them. Should you shit on her instead? Will that make you more attractive or what? Wasn't attractiveness solely about attractiveness?
Reason 6: I mean I guess so, but how is a love letter being nice and taking her out isn't?
Reason 5: Not conntected to being nice either
Reason 1:Aren't there like... genuinely nice people too? Essentially you're not saying "don't be nice", you're saying "don't be fake"? What was all of this about then?
This is a good article, but I think the title is kind of misleading; its more of something along the lines of respecting yourself vs being a pus*y
You're supposed to cencor the vowel. *u**
I feel like this article is
1. The things society teaches men to be like.
And then
2. The actual things you should be like if you want to be attractive to women.
False. Women are all different and not a singularity. You sound like you got this shit from reality tv. Women are all different and want different things, just like men. Also, these aren’t tips for a good relationship. A lot of it is trying to reinforce that guys should pretend that they’re someone who they are not.
wow... that explains a lot on why im having a hard time staying single. i always thought of myself as a nice guy but i dont let women walk all over me. or anyone for that matter. i hate it even more when others who are super nice are taken advantage of and i will call out the scumbag who uses peoples kindness. i defend those who can't speak up for themselves.
So many single women these days I think, think like the looser prisoner that just got out of prison for killing someone, was a thief, druggie, uneducated loser that can't get a job as "cool". Then so many women diss the college educated, Mr. has his sh*t together, Mr. has a life (that's called REALITY). So many single women have this serious case of delusion and think they are the "hottest" sh*t on earth and think if she holds out constantly, says no to every single guy, sleeps with 100 guys...
I'm glad you noticed. :) You can now read it in my comments above.
Contd... The "Bad Boy"/total jerk, D-Bag example would be Jay Cutler, he's a complete f*ck, a whiny mopey, "Mr. Grumpypants" if I don't get my way, he will be the a**hole of a**holes. It's no wonder most of his teammates most NFL teams hate him as well as the media... But also the D-bags, A**holes, jerks for the most part for most ladies are just a "phase"and those D-Bags, A**holes, Jerks get's dumped real fast unless she has daddy issues, has no dad in her life and filling the daddy void!
Contd... Single ladies it's not just a black and white picture (no pun intended) that "Being Nice" equates to this "doormat" "always nice" "no confidence". Single women are so WRONG about the "nice guys". A lot, a ton of so called "Nice Guys" have the "bad boy" side to them and can bring it out when needed.
Ok I like Tabsy's answer and I think her answer trips up so many single women. I think a lot of women think bad as "bad" and good as just "good" and I think a lot of women think there is no leeway in the "good" guys such as (no pun intended) as it's all black or white with no middle ground. It doesn't work that way women. Good men usually are good but also have their "bad" boy tendencies as well usually without the a**hole part. Good men like to have both sides, in that they can be nice... Cont
If she went off like that in #8 I wouldn't give a sh*t if it was her birthday, she better grow the eff up, act like a damn adult, and she would get the "couch". She goes off like that well she can effin celebrate her own self... Everyone makes mistakes and forgets sh*t! She isn't "Ms. Perfect". I don't put up with that BS!
" oh man, I promise I really WILL make it up to you.. oh man, I’m so stupid.” instead of, “Hey, the last thing that’s okay for you is to talk to me like that. When you calm down and can act like an adult" This is so true and totally me. I wouldn't put up with her sh*t like that. A chick that goes off like that to me she better apologize and she also damn well better know that she ISN'T "PERFECT" EITHER! This one #8 makes it sound like she is "Ms. Perfect", never screws up.. CONTD...
Good stuff, I wrote an article similar to this last week. It didn't get featured.
At least the admins here aren't ban-hammering guys that speak the truth, unlike a lot of other mixed-gender advise sites I know.
I agree with all of them except for Reason 4, Reason 7, and Reason 9.
Nobody, man or woman, wants to be treated like their "nothing special". We definitely like compliments. Forgetting shows how little you care.
Maybe half of this is right, the other half is one sided. And there's the actual nice guy, and then there is the pretend to be nice guy to get in the girls pants. I personally believe in being respectful to everyone you meet. Until they give you reason not to respect them.