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Maybe half of this is right, the other half is one sided. And there's the actual nice guy, and then there is the pretend to be nice guy to get in the girls pants. I personally believe in being respectful to everyone you meet. Until they give you reason not to respect them.
Contd... Daddy finds out she's with this deadbeat, loser, Mr. can't get a job, then dad shows up at the front door with a shotgun telling him to get the eff out and better never show his face around again or she has "daddy" issues cause her mommy is divorced and can't successfully hold a marriage together. I can totally see especially these days why dads have shotguns to scare these effin losers away. Anyways, the so called "Nice Guys" can totally have the "bad boy" side to them as well...
Those Science "tools" "geeks" are the so called "door mats" that are too nice. At the same time women get totally confused with the jacka**es and abusers and think they are the "bad boys" the guys that would literally let a door hit you in the face, won't open a door for you or an elderly lady, would kick a puppy, kill a cat, have been in prison for 30 years, never finished high school, dropped out of 6th grade... But ohhhhhh he's a "great guy" to the "hot chicks"... Yeah until her dad...
These articles and a lot of single women paint "Nice Guys VS Bad Boys" in this Black and White picture (No pun intended). Article like this and a lot of single women so badly want to think that "Nice Guys are just "Nice" and have NOOOOO BAD to THEM. Articles like this and a lot of single women have this BS image that "nice" equates to like the "leonards" in the Big Bang Theory and that's so far from the truth. Those are the Science "tools" "Geeks", the socially awkward dorks...
Too many women think if they hold out guy after guy, literally tell most guys no that somehow, someway there is going to magically appear this "god" of a guy. Um yeah hows that workin out for ya? Huh? Tabsy said it right ""bad boy" is meant like a guy who isn't too nice, can take charge, will stand up for himself, and refuses to be treated with disrespect" For a lot of women this is MOST GUYS! Most guys aren't the effin so called "doormats" "wussies". The "doormat" Wussie" guys...cont
But at the same time they also have the bad boy side to them. The "good" guy that I think trips so many women up is a lot of single women I think view the so called "good" guys like Leonard or the other guys from the TV show The Big Bang Theory where they are to nice and the "doormat" guys the Science geeks/nerds is what so many women think of and that not AT ALL what nice guys are... Contd
Ok so some sarcasm... So I guess women these days want men that will let doors hit women in the asses? Men shouldn't then open doors for women as a nice fuc*ing gesture? Men I guess should what like trip women literally, let them fall on their faces. Seems like that's what single women want anymore is the complete LOSERS that disrespect women, kick them around like the loser guys that are puppy haters and would kick a poor puppy.
Ok... continued
Re: homunculust "Maybe it's just me, but the idea of 'getting the girl' is so misconstreued. Bad boys don't often 'get the girl'... They get the sex, but not the girl. Big Diff between the two. Also, Bad boys have moments where they appear nicer that most 'nice guys', and it's usually after they're done pounding on them that they turn into romantic, sweet men."
Your statement is totally true. The so called "a**holes" for most women are short term, VERY SHORT TERM as in like you said... CONTD
"“This is complete bullsh*t! You knew how important this was for me, it’s my god damn birthday! Why didn’t you make the reservations, you f***ing idiot!? Are you just f***ing lazy, or are you really that f***ing stupid!?” you’ll say, “Oh baby, I’m sorry! I really do care, it just slipped my mind.." CONTD
Way too many women have this grandiose, I'm the total "sh*t" attitude and if anyone talks to us all he** will break loose or if you do anything "nice" we'll turn into total winches. Single women have got to reverse their attitudes and become more feminine!
Most guys aren't the effin so called "doormats" "wussies". The "doormat" Wussie" guys are far far and few between but so many single women think just "nice" automatically equates to that and they are so far off so many single women are so off track. Most "good guys" take charge, stand up for themselves, stand up for himself, stand up for his girlfriend blah blah blah. GAWD SINGLE WOMEN GET OVER YOURSELVES! SERIOUSLY! Your not "ALL THAT"! Contd
I agree... and can't account from personal experience that every line of this is just about right on... granted you can by several books on relationsh*ts that say the exact same thing haha... but yeah.. good work...
I'm laughing after reading this ...
I am obviously the nice guy when I am with a girl I like...
but when it comes to a girl I want to abuse I'm the bad guy no wonder girls that I abuse are much more useful ...
This article is an example of a push-over with a complete bitch as his Gf. Some stuff is true, but most of it is just plain stupid. Not to be rude or anything, I just disagree. You can be nice to a girl every once in awhile jesus.
Let me tell you this straight, you can be a nice guy and still in corporate, this little habits of setting your boundaries, and other stuffs, don't think for one bit, that nice guys finish last. I am very nice to women period. I don't let them walk all over me or have them talk to me like sh*t, I treat them with respect and when they wrong I call them out on it. I don't need to be tough or macho or bad boy to get my point across to them.
The problem is some women's controlling,manipulative,abusive,dysfunctional spirit is not noticeable
until you are in a LTR or in my case married and pregnant,before all that all I noticed were nice t*ts and legs.Men are only human it is so hard to get laid period w/o having to be so discerning all the time but man did I learn my lesson getting married is the biggest mistake because it cuts off your options but she still has divorcing you and taking your crap but that is for another blog
well I don't know what the hell a girl/woman wants to be quite honest.So tempermental, It seems you can't win no matter what you say or do, your supposed to know everything, well whatever my days of caring are over, I give up with wasting my time with marriage, showing a girl love its just a waste of time, all I do is look at what's in it for me & how can I benefit out of this with a woman, too bad as women shouldn't be so selfish themselves!
I think a lot of the comments have the idea of bad boy her confused. Its not like you have 2 choices of men 1. Little b!+?^ who acts like the girl is the almighty or 2. a psychopath who abuses. I think in this article "bad boy" is meant like a guy who isn't too nice, can take charge, will stand up for himself, and refuses to be treated with disrespect. Not really a bad boy more like a good guy, but not too nice who will challenge his lady. Same applies to the ladies. 1/2 angel 1/2 devil :)
Yes, as a girl, I agree this is an article for "getting" the girl rather than keeping. If you do as the article says, you might get some flings/hookups but most definitely not a girlfriend. But then, why would a really nice guy even bother trying to get flings?
Why is this article good for flings and not for romance?
Nice Guys believe in Santa.
They believe that if they are a good boy, Old Nick will come down the chimney on Christmas Eve, bearing a sack full of hot bitches.
When Santa fails to materialize, they conclude that they weren't good enough and redouble their efforts.
Santa isn't real. If you want a sack full of hot bitches (or anything else in life), don't wait for someone to read your mind and bring it to you.
You are responsible for getting it.