Nice Guys vs Bad Boys – Top 9 Reasons “Being Nice” Won’t Get You the Girl (Page 6)

[Terpsichore]

I actually totally agreed with everything you wrote! Just remember that all girls like the nice guy to come out every so often!

[kdizzleforizzle91]

This is the dumbest article I've ever read. A few of the reasons are good, but most of this is bull. Not meant to offend, just my opinion.

[ComicStix]

I liked the article, but this seemed to be directed at push-over guys with rude girls (euphamism lol). If you have a normal cool girls and regular normal guy you shouldn't have any problems :)

[dabigchanges]

This says it all: "Women don’t want “bad boys” even when they’re attracted to them they want honest, sincere, fun guys who are nice BUT who also have backbones and who value themselves more then some random girl with nice t*ts."

I don't think the writer should have given this article the 'good vs bad' title.

Instead it's 'genuine vs fake', 'selfless vs selfish', 'validated vs validator', etc.

[manaja]

Lol...some women I've dated really do love a gent ans can't do with "arseholes"...other women (3 spring to mind here that I've known intimately love a bad boy... I was told also to act uninterested, that keeps that mystery thing going, that's crap also..! were all different .

[MaryV]

Guess who's company I enjoyed more? I don't like a guy to treat me like crap, but to respect me enough to tell me what he really thinks and feels, instead of being an idealistic version of himself. He respects me enough to know that I'm a big girl and can handle the truth. If that's the definition of a jerk, then I guess I like jerks.

[MaryV]

I completely agree with you bobair! I am sick of men who whine about being a nice guy and how they never get the girl (MANY misogynistic blogs are spun off of these guys constant rejection). These guys that mistake being "nice" with appearing to lack confidence, or not treating women like equals. I dated a "nice guy" and I found later that although he put me on a pedestal, he didn't respect my opinions as an equal. Later I dated a "jerk" who had a backbone but respected me as an equal.

[Paul09]

OK but do you realize there's the actual genuine nice guy, and then there is the pretend to be nice to get in your pants guy. A lot of you people one side of the coin.

[artzy67]

I attract women because I'm a nice guy, I'm not a jerk at all. The kind of girls who like bad boys may have been abused in the past by boyfriends, or even fathers. In my experience, healthy, intelligent, mature girls will just laugh at MCPs. I come across as a wholesome type with a bit of an edge.

Okay gals, take a number haha

[gen3d]

I really didn't understand what a bad boy was really, and that this is how she would like me to be. She is still with me, but I don't know if it's too late. Would she think I'm faking, if I starting acting the ways described here? My wife is a SUPER head strong redhead, and I've never seen anyone put her in her place. I never understood what she meant but not respecting me. Yes, I'm too nice, and a push over...she married me so I thought I found someone who liked that about me. I was wrong

[gen3d]

I wish I had read this a long time ago! I've been married for 6 years and my wife told me she always went for the bad boy type but thing's never worked. I'm so not that type, even though I wish I was. So six years later she tells me she married me because I was safe and helped her through a lot of problems she had to deal with. Now she's better, she want's to split up, because I'm no longer attractive to her, because the wants the bad boy type that is described exactly in this article.

[Anonymous]

I both agree and disagree with this, I completely agree guys just have to man up because they would then come off as creepy sometimes, but going all in is a bad idea, such as when you said to just go straight in and kiss her. Although it's weird I would rather ask and then do it if they say yes

[RedBubbleZzz]

This is prefect ! I think you should send this to all guys in our country , maybe after that I'll finally get into a serious relationship ! xD

[tex151]

Well ya any self respecting man would tell her to shut the hell up and not put up with her bullsh*t well that's what I do it works.

[iwbym]

Girls basically want a guy who can respect himself first...if he can't do that...how can he respect her....

[BlackSuperman]

You're dead-on... 'nice guys' finish last because they forget that they gotta be man enough to fight for what they want and win- in dating, in sports, life in general.

[Anonymous]

You are forgetting one thing , for behaving like that you must have a huge hole in your heart that no girl can fill, and you aren't afraid to lose anyone. Although I knew it all and I have psychological gift of reading people. I never thought of use it for becoming a bad boy. Then something happened. And I decided to change. A bad boy can a bad boy , a nice guy can be nice caring. Some women like bad boys some nice. I can change myself with the girl I am with so it gives more access

[Telemusik]

Complete BS I'm a total gent and always considerate and I manage to get girls, all depends on the girl

[ArtistBboy]

I WANT MORE! This was a really interesting read and I've learned quite a bit. Thanks for the good read man.

[Anonymous]

This is actually a GREAT observation! I feel like you can see into women's minds ... the "nice guy" is rarely as genuinely nice as he pretends, it's more of an shell around his ego. He doesn't let women be themselves or even human!

[dalila]

I think the last paragraph says it all. Well done, you should write one of these on the girl side you know, like what really works...