Why do you need to flirt with women. Why not just treat them like normal people, start a normal conversation and see where it goes. It doesn't have to be so serious.
Because as much as you want life to be like that, it's not. It never will be, it never has been, and it can't be.
People like to have sex, and when your biology is fundamentally different and what we're genetically programmed to go after to produce offspring with in hopes of furthering our genetic makeup, you'll never have what you think you should. The sooner you realize this, the sooner we can get back to the nuclear family structure of one husband, one wife, and 2.5 kids in a 3br 2ba with a white picket fence and bring the middle class back.
People like to treat women like we're some mythical creature that needs to be approached, flirted with, treated differently. It's nice for someone to treat you like they would another human being and actually get to know you instead of putting on a show.
In reality they are, just as men are to women. However the feminist movement as conditioned you to feel like that's a disgusting way to believe and behave. It's the most natural thing in the world.
I'm becoming more and more convinced that there isn't a male on this site who doesn't have the word feminist in his top three choice of words at all times lol
I'm not exactly sure how you've convinced yourself, that making me look like an ass is really what happened here. But if you making up false scenarios that involve you being the internet bad-ass that you were truly meant to be, helped you in any way then good for you, I guess...
Then you should take your own advice because at this point you're nothing more than a hypocrite. Take your issues elsewhere, they didn't start with me, they won't end with me and you're not taking them out on me.
Every single argument that has came from the men has always went like this. "Something, something feminist, something something feminist, you're wrong, you're defeated". Then y'all pretend to dismiss me and congratulate yourself on some type of "defeat" you've caused from a battle that I wasn't even aware we were in. I mean maybe if you took a break from this site or the internet and went outside your basement for a nice walk, then maybe you could come back to reality like the rest of us and realize that every word that someone speaks to you over the internet is not World War fucking 3.
I mean if you want to continue to be a clone and be an angry sheep like all of them then please do it to someone else. I've only been on here for a few days and i'm already sick of seeing it.
Trust me, no man is pretending to have won; you've lost in every argument. You see, men designed the rules of debate, men follow the rules of debate, and men understand the value of losing a debate. Women, on the other hand have this massive inferiority complex where they belive a debate is a competition to be won or lost instead of an opportunity to spread your knowledge and learn from your opponent. You gain more from losing a debate than you do from winning one.
Well congratulations to you and every other guy who acts just like you for having won every non existent argument that you've had with me up until this point.
Also- "Women, on the other hand have this massive inferiority complex where they belive a debate is a competition to be won or lost instead of an opportunity to spread your knowledge and learn from your opponent."
While having previously said- "Just because you don't like the answer, doesn't mean it's not right." "You're arguing as though I'm wrong though. I don't appreciate that." "I'm dealing with it by making you look like an ass; looks like it's working." "Having to resort to logical fallacy is admission of failure, defeat, or not bring prepared enough for the encounter or debate."
It's like you do exactly what you complain about me doing, yet I do none of what you accuse me of doing. I feel like you just walked up to me, spit on me and then told me that I shouldn't spit on people around me lol where the fk am I?
If you want to learn a term that you can use to offbalance your opponent next time, it's "Projection". You'll use it incorrectly but people will believe you to be intelligent
I know what the term is but it makes you look insane. I've actually never encountered someone who did it who I didn't think was legitimately mentally ill.
I don't know, I just feel like so many guys think they have to talk to women a certain way and when guys do that shit to me, it's actually a huge turn off, it makes me think "how does this guy like me so much already just based on my appearance". It actually makes me think he's just really superficial or a pig kind of.
I'm not arguing that it doesn't work on some women but it would be a freaking relief to be talked to like a normal person sometimes, until someone got to know you enough to then want to flirt with you. I'm just saying that there are women out there who probably think like I do as well, so if flirting isn't working for you then why not give just treating a girl like you would any other person at the beginning until you actually get to know her, a try.
@soosooboo2 Oh trust me I know, i've learned my lesson lol just not worth arguing with people who have personal agendas to begin with, they're not capable of thinking outside of it.
@soosooboo2 There was actually nothing pointless on her end. She was trying to educate a witless fuck who thought he was the educator. Sad thing is, this fucker doesn't get it and still pats himself on the back.
Trust me. The dude is mentally ill. Slightly, if at all.
@kelvinmed well you know the religious ones in here, they often speak of their 'god' as punishing and cruel , since it has unthinkable powers than weak earthlings do not posess and should be feared because of they were taught by the churches or their mosque and family.
Well see your mum as that if she was the one to give birth to you and kept you alive who was fully responsible for putting ideas and beliefs in your mind and shaped you as the current person of today.
@abundantlyrich Oh I get it. I always saw people like that as they themselves weaklings. I respect the fact people may have religion to get them through tough times and have the belief that life may be not be so bad after all. But my mom was never really religious. Her mother is.
In my early childhood, I was raised catholic but even as a child I still doubted the religion and once I came to the US and stopped going to church because I was busy or lazy. I started reading and gained emotional strength. Overall, I noticed that it wasn't really my mom who really put ideas or beliefs in my head. I've been taking beliefs from people around me. Just a question what's your opinion on God fearing people? by the way message me if it seems we are distracting away from this mytake
@kelvinmed i used the term here and directed to his mother since he has a fear of connecting with women so i figured it must probably stem from his upbringing with a dominant mother who had a significant impact on the way he will later relate to females. I admit i could be wrong here but there can be other suggested reasons of why this may have contributed to his flirting phobia with women.
@abundantlyrich nice guess. Hum I think I'm the opposite actually I don't flirt with girls and actually when I feel I have to flirt to get someones attention then I don't do it. I can talk to girls but on friendly terms. As the way I was raised and molded myself, I am interested in getting to know someone's story. I noticed that when I get on a personal level with people then I fall for them. But it's through talking normally. And I then noticed that I unknowingly started flirting. I haven't had a lot of relationships but I think it's because of that. I want to build friendships not a relationship. 🤔
I actually wondered how will I turn out due to that I live with dominant women yet I don't seem dominated with them but with friends or other people I seem to lead the group or influence the conversation or flow of ideas. I get along with girls and guys and relationships are hard to handle
So you badgering a man whose has more than enough reason other than his own experience and that of others showing a group with known members to over react is valid. You are a hippocrite. You're proving his point
No I mean u need to find a source in real life to actually talk to these woman and it can't be sexual because that makes to anxious for me it's the thought of bashing their head in. Some guys use romance, gotto find your own style and source. Kinda like different types of fuel for different types of cars
@Wolfstarking naa the juice is just not worth the squeeze. I dunno why you people worship women like their important to a man's life. Women have nothing to offer a man but sex and you can always get a high end whore for that.
Feminism isn't misandry, and it's sad that you feel that way.
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yup, exactly. Some of the reasons why i would never want to flirt with women. Women are not worth the effort anymore and they have nothing else to offer besides sex
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Don't be terrified. These are not good reasons to be afraid to flirt.
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You know im a woman and i fell exactly the same Way im scared to talk to my crush cause i dont want him to reject me or make fun of me
just make a conversation and talk it's that simple!
Why do you need to flirt with women. Why not just treat them like normal people, start a normal conversation and see where it goes. It doesn't have to be so serious.
Because as much as you want life to be like that, it's not. It never will be, it never has been, and it can't be.
People like to have sex, and when your biology is fundamentally different and what we're genetically programmed to go after to produce offspring with in hopes of furthering our genetic makeup, you'll never have what you think you should. The sooner you realize this, the sooner we can get back to the nuclear family structure of one husband, one wife, and 2.5 kids in a 3br 2ba with a white picket fence and bring the middle class back.
That sounds awful actually.
People like to treat women like we're some mythical creature that needs to be approached, flirted with, treated differently. It's nice for someone to treat you like they would another human being and actually get to know you instead of putting on a show.
In reality they are, just as men are to women. However the feminist movement as conditioned you to feel like that's a disgusting way to believe and behave. It's the most natural thing in the world.
I'm becoming more and more convinced that there isn't a male on this site who doesn't have the word feminist in his top three choice of words at all times lol
You may want to actually start listening to people when they speak then instead of believing you already know the answer.
Just because you don't like the answer, doesn't mean it's not right.
Never said anything about you being right or wrong though.
You're arguing as though I'm wrong though. I don't appreciate that.
Well that's an issue that you have and that you have to deal with then.
I'm dealing with it by making you look like an ass; looks like it's working.
I'm not exactly sure how you've convinced yourself, that making me look like an ass is really what happened here. But if you making up false scenarios that involve you being the internet bad-ass that you were truly meant to be, helped you in any way then good for you, I guess...
Again, for the 100th time on this site, stating your opinion to be fact, does not make it so.
Then you should take your own advice because at this point you're nothing more than a hypocrite. Take your issues elsewhere, they didn't start with me, they won't end with me and you're not taking them out on me.
Having to resort to logical fallacy is admission of failure, defeat, or not bring prepared enough for the encounter or debate.
You've lost, move on with your day.
And from your own words "Just because you don't like the answer, doesn't mean it's not right."
So many people are so good at giving advice that they themselves just can't practice.
Every single argument that has came from the men has always went like this. "Something, something feminist, something something feminist, you're wrong, you're defeated". Then y'all pretend to dismiss me and congratulate yourself on some type of "defeat" you've caused from a battle that I wasn't even aware we were in. I mean maybe if you took a break from this site or the internet and went outside your basement for a nice walk, then maybe you could come back to reality like the rest of us and realize that every word that someone speaks to you over the internet is not World War fucking 3.
I mean if you want to continue to be a clone and be an angry sheep like all of them then please do it to someone else. I've only been on here for a few days and i'm already sick of seeing it.
Trust me, no man is pretending to have won; you've lost in every argument. You see, men designed the rules of debate, men follow the rules of debate, and men understand the value of losing a debate. Women, on the other hand have this massive inferiority complex where they belive a debate is a competition to be won or lost instead of an opportunity to spread your knowledge and learn from your opponent. You gain more from losing a debate than you do from winning one.
loool
Well congratulations to you and every other guy who acts just like you for having won every non existent argument that you've had with me up until this point.
Also-
"Women, on the other hand have this massive inferiority complex where they belive a debate is a competition to be won or lost instead of an opportunity to spread your knowledge and learn from your opponent."
While having previously said-
"Just because you don't like the answer, doesn't mean it's not right."
"You're arguing as though I'm wrong though. I don't appreciate that."
"I'm dealing with it by making you look like an ass; looks like it's working."
"Having to resort to logical fallacy is admission of failure, defeat, or not bring prepared enough for the encounter or debate."
It's like you do exactly what you complain about me doing, yet I do none of what you accuse me of doing. I feel like you just walked up to me, spit on me and then told me that I shouldn't spit on people around me lol where the fk am I?
If you want to learn a term that you can use to offbalance your opponent next time, it's "Projection". You'll use it incorrectly but people will believe you to be intelligent
I know what the term is but it makes you look insane. I've actually never encountered someone who did it who I didn't think was legitimately mentally ill.
I can't even comprehend what that clusterfuck of words was supposed to mean,
It's probably because I didn't say "yes master, I agree with you".
Now you're learning.
You have to flirt otherwise it leads to friend zone and wouldn't that be frustrating to make another friend when you already got many as it is lol
@anotherdumbblonde I agree with you but this whole argument was quite pointless
I don't know, I just feel like so many guys think they have to talk to women a certain way and when guys do that shit to me, it's actually a huge turn off, it makes me think "how does this guy like me so much already just based on my appearance". It actually makes me think he's just really superficial or a pig kind of.
I'm not arguing that it doesn't work on some women but it would be a freaking relief to be talked to like a normal person sometimes, until someone got to know you enough to then want to flirt with you. I'm just saying that there are women out there who probably think like I do as well, so if flirting isn't working for you then why not give just treating a girl like you would any other person at the beginning until you actually get to know her, a try.
@soosooboo2 Oh trust me I know, i've learned my lesson lol just not worth arguing with people who have personal agendas to begin with, they're not capable of thinking outside of it.
There's no agenda here unless you consider education of facts to be an agenda.
@Gommers You seriously don't represent any good side to what a man is. I know this because I'm not a dense asshole, like you.
@soosooboo2 There was actually nothing pointless on her end. She was trying to educate a witless fuck who thought he was the educator. Sad thing is, this fucker doesn't get it and still pats himself on the back.
Trust me. The dude is mentally ill. Slightly, if at all.
Do you have a god fearing mother in your life
Yes I have "God fearing" mother. She is very religious.
I don't understand the term "god fearing"
@kelvinmed well you know the religious ones in here, they often speak of their 'god' as punishing and cruel , since it has unthinkable powers than weak earthlings do not posess and should be feared because of they were taught by the churches or their mosque and family.
Well see your mum as that if she was the one to give birth to you and kept you alive who was fully responsible for putting ideas and beliefs in your mind and shaped you as the current person of today.
@kelvinmed she also has the power to make you feel good or bad about yourself.
@abundantlyrich Oh I get it. I always saw people like that as they themselves weaklings. I respect the fact people may have religion to get them through tough times and have the belief that life may be not be so bad after all. But my mom was never really religious. Her mother is.
In my early childhood, I was raised catholic but even as a child I still doubted the religion and once I came to the US and stopped going to church because I was busy or lazy. I started reading and gained emotional strength. Overall, I noticed that it wasn't really my mom who really put ideas or beliefs in my head. I've been taking beliefs from people around me. Just a question what's your opinion on God fearing people? by the way message me if it seems we are distracting away from this mytake
@kelvinmed i used the term here and directed to his mother since he has a fear of connecting with women so i figured it must probably stem from his upbringing with a dominant mother who had a significant impact on the way he will later relate to females. I admit i could be wrong here but there can be other suggested reasons of why this may have contributed to his flirting phobia with women.
@kelvinmed takeowner just revealed he has a god fearing mother! Lol guessed that right!
My mom is God fearing but not as God fearing as my aunts.
@abundantlyrich nice guess. Hum I think I'm the opposite actually I don't flirt with girls and actually when I feel I have to flirt to get someones attention then I don't do it. I can talk to girls but on friendly terms. As the way I was raised and molded myself, I am interested in getting to know someone's story. I noticed that when I get on a personal level with people then I fall for them. But it's through talking normally. And I then noticed that I unknowingly started flirting. I haven't had a lot of relationships but I think it's because of that. I want to build friendships not a relationship. 🤔
I actually wondered how will I turn out due to that I live with dominant women yet I don't seem dominated with them but with friends or other people I seem to lead the group or influence the conversation or flow of ideas. I get along with girls and guys and relationships are hard to handle
Damn. @abundantlyrich. That was so profound and correct.
I just wrote a take on this topic.
im absolutley terrified by rejection
and my spelling tonight, jesus...
God forbid you flirt with a feminist, she might get to the first date and you open your mouth and she realizes she just wasted 2 hours of her life.
Actually it would be me that wasted to hours of my life.
*two
So you badgering a man whose has more than enough reason other than his own experience and that of others showing a group with known members to over react is valid. You are a hippocrite. You're proving his point
@marcussg1 lol, but I'm a cute 'hippocrite'
i.ytimg.com/vi/96xC5JIkIpQ/maxresdefault.jpg
Also, I'm not badgering. When did 1 run on sentence become badgering?
Omg so cute!!! I want one!!! Baby hippos 😍😍😍
You are putting the pussy on a pedestal! :o
;) I like this dude. lmao
@Smmyskittles I couldn't resist using that line :P
I try not to do that.
I always imagine how painlful/awkward it is to put pussy on a pedestal.
I mean, just for the pussy to be on a pedestal her whole body would have to be placed at some weird angle
@PT1911 media.fakeposters.com/.../twfz602uaw.jpg
How're you supposed to get in nice and deep if it's not propped up on a pedestal? ;)
@Smmyskittles Legs over shoulders babe.
@Supersonic_Sex_Ninja Yeah, that's pretty much what I was saying myself.
lmfao, a good read. Tho I'm totally useless with women so that crosses over a flirting as well, oh well, whatever.
I didn't understand that music video.
The song is called cry me a river
@LifeChoices I thought she was more respectful.
@LifeChoices I don't flirt here because a lot of women here stay anonymous.
No I mean u need to find a source in real life to actually talk to these woman and it can't be sexual because that makes to anxious for me it's the thought of bashing their head in. Some guys use romance, gotto find your own style and source. Kinda like different types of fuel for different types of cars
Makes you*
@LifeChoices men are not capable of psychological warfare.
You must a misandrist woman. You can't deny the double standards from feminism against men.
@Wolfstarking bless
You should feel the the same way around all women not just attractive women.
Don't flirt with women, just fucking give up on them, not worth it in my opinion
Then you must be gay.
@Wolfstarking naa the juice is just not worth the squeeze. I dunno why you people worship women like their important to a man's life. Women have nothing to offer a man but sex and you can always get a high end whore for that.
Feminism isn't misandry, and it's sad that you feel that way.
yup, exactly. Some of the reasons why i would never want to flirt with women. Women are not worth the effort anymore and they have nothing else to offer besides sex
Don't be terrified. These are not good reasons to be afraid to flirt.
I know how you feel :(
Then don't flirt with women.
I am attracted to women, however I like to wait for women to flirt with me.