My ex didn't compliment me once. When I started to think twice about our relationship, that definitely came into play. Especially since we were in a serious relationship and I was the one who would get him things, put him first in some situations, compliment him, etc. The relationship is supposed to be a platform of give and take not just take :( That's why he's my ex
I think it's really sweet when a guy compliments me but my ex did it wayy too often. However a guy that I'm linking/talking to he does it whenever I'm sending a picture on snapchat (NO Nudity)
I appreciate compliments. My boyfriend tells me all the time that I'm beautiful and he's always affectionate with me. It makes me feel good and it makes me happy. I treat him the same in return.
I compliment a woman every time I see her DANGLING HER SHOE off the end of her foot, while sitting. I even take the time to THANK HER for doing that... then, buy her a drink, as a sign of appreciation. But, that's just ME.
No but it would be nice. That said in my opinion i think it makes girls more stuck up if you do it too often.
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Fewer compliments make them seem more meaningful. For example a guy used to compliment me (the same thing) multiple times every. single. day it was sweet but it lost its meaning completely. I started to question his motives and whether he was being honest.
So compliments are great- even plenty are great- providing there're not overused. I suppose the "right" amount of compliments varies from person to person too.
If I'm going to compliment a girl, it's not going to be for her looks. Beautiful girls get told that all the time. I'll compliment them on something they did or our how they act.
@Afrochick Honestly, some people get complimented too much and get coccky or think too highly of themselves. Its best to compliment once in a while because there's nothing worse than a person with a superiority complex. π²π²π²π²π²π²π²
@Nik1hil I only compliment when I'm in a relationship buddy. Where compliments are necessary and needed where it matters and where my compliments don't fall to the ground.
well thats a pitty for you then. because most people know the gods envy mortals more than same old fart bags they see every day since whenever they were created :P
if the day comes and your glory reaches the depths of hell and echos across the silent sands that will be the day the gods will fall :P and the echos of your glory will pass as though it were just a plastic bag in the wind :D
to whom do you think is lacking respect :P by the way i do get your point on the relationship side of things. its only natural for a man to want to give his girl everything even if they dont have much to give :D i think its more instinctual than anything haha
@ClassicGinge I don't want him to give me "everything" nor do I need him to do so. In fact, that would be one massive turn off. I don't want a doormat either, just someone who worships me like a goddess and whom I see as worthy to worship.
@ClassicGinge How did me saying " I don't want him to give me "everything" nor do I need him to do so. In fact, that would be one massive turn off. I don't want a doormat either, just someone who worships me like a goddess and whom I see as worthy to worship." not clear things up already though?
*facepalm, this is why i said you were too god damned high maintenance for any sane man out there haha. by the way your not going to be young and beautiful forever so maybe you should give your attitude a rain check before you end up depressed because you dont understand why guys dont want to date you. the whole worship shit is childish. and a massive turn off for guys haha
And here I was wondering how did I get so many notification!.. Wow Jupiter... This guy's are really ganging up!.. π I am like WTF what's the point of all this
Has anyone told you before if, you start from your nose piercing towards your forehead!.. And curve along both the eyebrows!.. And slide down your cheeks (facial) and reach your chin!.. It makes a perfect Heart shape β€.. It's kind of rare!.. ( No flirting, or compliment.. I am serious it's a rare perfect facial structure)
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My ex didn't compliment me once. When I started to think twice about our relationship, that definitely came into play. Especially since we were in a serious relationship and I was the one who would get him things, put him first in some situations, compliment him, etc. The relationship is supposed to be a platform of give and take not just take :( That's why he's my ex
Same here! Even though I knew my ex had an ego already (and called him on it), I wanted to compliment him too. He failed to reciprocate.
I think it's really sweet when a guy compliments me but my ex did it wayy too often. However a guy that I'm linking/talking to he does it whenever I'm sending a picture on snapchat (NO Nudity)
I love get compliments. I mean who doesn't? I just don't like when it's over done or insincere.
I appreciate compliments. My boyfriend tells me all the time that I'm beautiful and he's always affectionate with me. It makes me feel good and it makes me happy. I treat him the same in return.
I compliment a woman every time I see her DANGLING HER SHOE off the end of her foot, while sitting. I even take the time to THANK HER for doing that... then, buy her a drink, as a sign of appreciation. But, that's just ME.
Yep, I overly complimented my last girlfriends and fair to say I think they started believing it.. so they moved on. 😒
lol (sorry for laughing* You gassed her up WAY too much
@Afrochick Yeah it's all good haha especially the last one..
Well, it's not necessary to compliment anyone as such, not only girls. If you don't want to compliment then you shouldn't do it.
No but it would be nice. That said in my opinion i think it makes girls more stuck up if you do it too often.
Fewer compliments make them seem more meaningful. For example a guy used to compliment me (the same thing) multiple times every. single. day it was sweet but it lost its meaning completely. I started to question his motives and whether he was being honest.
So compliments are great- even plenty are great- providing there're not overused. I suppose the "right" amount of compliments varies from person to person too.
It's easy to compliment if she look good or I know her really! Well, then I can even compliment her sweaty!.. And stinky self.
Ya cuz it's the way you say things that matters most
You just don't know how to give compliments, you are not attractive, or not confident enough for them to believe you.
Or, if you read what I wrote you'd realise that what I'm saying is I don't have to give compliments...
Good luck with that bro. They'll end up sleeping with someone that will.
You just gave me an idea for another take. Cheers
Compliments are good but not necessary. Too many compliments can be creepy sometimes.
I rarely compliment anyone and I will only compliment a woman when I feel she warrants it. I don't compliment for compliment's sake.
If I'm going to compliment a girl, it's not going to be for her looks. Beautiful girls get told that all the time. I'll compliment them on something they did or our how they act.
No it is not necessary, but it is the gentleman thing to do.
Depends on the girl really. Some days I get called pretty and other days ugly. But my ego still be on Kanye level
Women get enough of it already, they don't deserve anymore.
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@Afrochick you must be one of the few butt hurt women who never gets compliments. Believe me, all your other hot friends get compliments non-stop.
LMAO you are one of the few misogynist on gag
@Afrochick the "few"? You must be new or high.
@Afrochick
Honestly, some people get complimented too much and get coccky or think too highly of themselves. Its best to compliment once in a while because there's nothing worse than a person with a superiority complex. π²π²π²π²π²π²π²
Nope, but when we're in a relationship you either treat me like a goddess or gtfo 💁🏻
Well it's easy to treat a girl like goddess is she looks like you looks like a goddess
@Nik1hil lame!! ^^
@TruExo well you got better one up your sleeve's.
@Nik1hil I only compliment when I'm in a relationship buddy. Where compliments are necessary and needed where it matters and where my compliments don't fall to the ground.
you mean treat you more like a goth?
that sounds like too god damned high maintenance for any one
@ClassicGinge lmao you stay in your lane, I'll stick with my gods ;)
well thats a pitty for you then. because most people know the gods envy mortals more than same old fart bags they see every day since whenever they were created :P
@ClassicGinge lol we'll see who envies who when you'll drown in our glory π
if the day comes and your glory reaches the depths of hell and echos across the silent sands that will be the day the gods will fall :P and the echos of your glory will pass as though it were just a plastic bag in the wind :D
Lmao the guys on this one are going berserk.
@takumii The creativity is impressive though
@takumii lmao not my problem they are lacking the necessary respect πͺ
to whom do you think is lacking respect :P by the way i do get your point on the relationship side of things. its only natural for a man to want to give his girl everything even if they dont have much to give :D i think its more instinctual than anything haha
@ClassicGinge I don't want him to give me "everything" nor do I need him to do so.
In fact, that would be one massive turn off.
I don't want a doormat either, just someone who worships me like a goddess and whom I see as worthy to worship.
"when we're in a relationship you either treat me like a goddess or gtfo"
VERY typical attitude of today. Always good to be the centre of the universe and expect others to worship at the altar of you.
@Lightspeed-Lemon of course, I always get what I deserve & it never happens to fail my expectations 👸🏻
sounds like slavery is a thing now haha
@ClassicGinge except they do it voluntarily ππ»
please tell me you feed them after you brainwash them with your false religion :P
@ClassicGinge I'm pretty sure they can feed themselves, if you're talking about my greatness though, of course I'll give them plenty of that ;)
so you do not care for the people who worship you?
@ClassicGinge of course I do, I worship them like they worship me, I though we'd already cleared that.
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well its all been cleared up now, cause you were sounding pretty selfish before :P
@ClassicGinge How did me saying " I don't want him to give me "everything" nor do I need him to do so.
In fact, that would be one massive turn off.
I don't want a doormat either, just someone who worships me like a goddess and whom I see as worthy to worship." not clear things up already though?
*facepalm, this is why i said you were too god damned high maintenance for any sane man out there haha. by the way your not going to be young and beautiful forever so maybe you should give your attitude a rain check before you end up depressed because you dont understand why guys dont want to date you. the whole worship shit is childish. and a massive turn off for guys haha
@ClassicGinge lol not a turn off for most guys I've met recently. And if you seriously think beauty links to age you are to be pitied.
*facepalm, you are completely missing the point haha. give it time and you will understand ;) maybe 10-15 years for a case like yours haha
@ClassicGinge lol maybe a lifetime for a case like yours?
@ClassicGinge congratulations on getting your ugly & ignorant ass blocked 😘
And here I was wondering how did I get so many notification!..
Wow Jupiter... This guy's are really ganging up!.. π I am like WTF what's the point of all this
@Nik1hil people who are either too stuck up or dense (or both?) to grasp the concept of humour smh, ignore them pal πͺπ
Has anyone told you before if, you start from your nose piercing towards your forehead!.. And curve along both the eyebrows!.. And slide down your cheeks (facial) and reach your chin!.. It makes a perfect Heart shape β€.. It's kind of rare!.. ( No flirting, or compliment.. I am serious it's a rare perfect facial structure)
@Nik1hil lol no I haven't heard that before actually π³ I actually haven't even noticed that before so I'm kinda surprised to hear this haha
Look closely!.. When your eyes are closed!.. It's like a smiling heart (your red glossy lips.. makes it more πadorable)
@Nik1hil Lol ok
Unless u try a loose a girl l, yes it is necessary.
Haha, I'm reading your response and thinking... really? Not my experience at all.
Instead of using words to compliment someone, I'd rather let my actions speak for themselves.
@HotDogg
But once in a while wouldn't i wanna hear "youre so handsome!" Or "I like ur shoes"