As most men already know, being a nice caring gentleman doesn't get you very far with women these days. Maybe fifty or sixty years ago, being a nice guy who could provide financial security and commitment was the best way to attract women. But times have changed. Personally, I hate the way things are now. I hate what feminism has done to women and I hate how the family unit has collapsed. But it is what it is. If you want to have success with women these days, you just have to go with the flow.
Basically, you have to be a confident, cocky asshole. One time I did an experiment on a dating site. I pretended to be a really attractive woman to see what kind of attention I would get. I must have received over 50 messages a day. All the messages were the same: "Hello gorgeous" "Wow, you're hot" "Hey beautiful, fancy going on a date?" The truth is, although women like attention, receiving hundreds of these kinds of messages doesn't get them excited. It bores them to death.
So I decided to do another experiment. Instead of complimenting them, I did the opposite. I would send them messages like "You look good, but you need to lose a few pounds" or "You look stupid in some of your photos." Surprisingly, this caused some women to have a conversation with me. It was as if being a cocky asshole intrigued them. I'm not saying being a cocky asshole will cause most women to fall at your feet, but it will certainly get some women's attention. I'll explain why this works:
The reason this often works is because it makes you stand out from all the other men who pander to women because of their beauty. She might think you're an asshole, but it still makes you stand out. Also, it makes you come across as someone who doesn't give a dam and isn't afraid to offend or disagree with her. That's why white knights usually never get laid because most women hate men who pander to them and kiss their ass just because they're beautiful. When a woman comes across a man who isn't afraid to disagree with her, or offend her, and has a cocky attitude, it makes him stand out from all the other desperate douche bags.
Another thing that has worked for me is by going on a dating site and putting on my profile that I'm only looking for friendship and that I've given up on women and relationships. Within the first week I had 2 attractive women messaging me, wanting to go on a date. Most women want what they can't have and love the challenge of changing a man. I'm not saying this will work on the majority of women, but from experience it has worked a hell of a lot better than chasing after women and being a good guy.
Sadly, when it comes to women, most men are thick dimwits. They still don't realize that messaging women with "Hello darling" or "Please can I take you out? You're so hot" isn't going to get them anywhere. Maybe it might work once in a blue moon, but there are hundreds of other douchebags sending her the same message. You have to make yourself stand out, and if that means being an asshole then so be it.
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