@demonics I'm not dating anyone. I was just talking about an incident. That's not what black girls say. I don't know if you're upset or what but that's not me. I can't control who I like and who likes me. That's not what this is about anyway this. It's not about race.
Dude, no one fucking cares if you date Becky, Amber, and Blakely. The problem is when you bash your own women just to see if it'll help you ain't approval from Becky, Amber, and Blakely so you can get in their pants. THAT is the shit that pisses us off.
You're probably not attracting the guys you want based on your shitty, woe is me attitude and you're probably ugly af too, based on your rude responses to the other black women in this mytake.
No I'm attracting them they're just not talking to me. You're really sad. A 30 year old using a young person's slang and then trying to insulte me. You're really said and childish please grow up. It's my feelings and opinions if you don't like that leave. No one asked you to repsonse. It's so funny when people have to resort to people being ugly for that to be a reason. You're a sad hater and the type of black women I don't like. You're just like them you don't want to uplift but rather tear down and that's why black people don't have anything. You need to grow out of your attitude because it's very childish.
So, wait a sec here. If you believe that you are being turned down by guys because you are black, then why don't you date black guys? I don't get it. And as for your personality, trust me when I say that plenty of guys like the tomboy type.
I never said I was turned down for that. I said that was a factor. Majority of the article was about things that I can change. About how I constantly talk about my insecurities and are not the most approachable. In my area guys don't seem to like the 'tomboy' type. Also black guys aren't really interested in black girls they prefer latinas and white girls.
Dude, a lot of black guys give the same bullshit excuse for not liking black girls as guys who aren't black. Especially in the U. S. Many black girls have been turned down just for being black, and because of that I say she should just say fuck it and be her own unique happy self. The less she focuses on finding a dude, and loving herself more the better. If a guy happens to come along who likes her or if she likes him she should ask him out, but other than that she needs to love herself (blackness and all) more.
@xBreezy bro ur only 2 years older then me hell I'll be 18 in 3 months and how is a skin color masculine or feminine when both genders are capable of having said skin tone
Insecurity shines brightest when you see a grown man telling a girl in highschool they aren't pretty. This isn't a man or nay man opinion who you should consider. Or any woman reading this. How pathetic is it that we have a society that would allow grown men to belittle little girls and justify with a skin color. Its as if it encourages regressing to children and taking it out on others.
@juststrollin I don't know how he would know if I was pretty unless it's a just a skin color thing I don't have any pictures up. He's all over the place I don't take things really seriously that he or anyone that doesn't really get my points.
@Antvin95 This was't about looks really. It's about my insecurities and lack of confidence and such. I'm not looking for people to judge me I don't need approval from random strangers. Besides putting my picture online is something I wouldn't do. It's scary you never know what someone will do with it.
It is a factor but that wasn't the main point. I always love it when people don't get the main idea and want to act like the world is not the way that it is. If you want to live in a fantasy world fine, but it's not reality.
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Shouldn't you be dating your own race anyways? I mean... thats what the black girls always say to the black boys who like Becky and Amber...
Why are you concerned about who likes her? These are boys who like her not that she's asking. Your question would be directed to them.
Are'nt you 40 and should 'nt you have matured by now and not telling someone elses child what to do? There's a lot of questions that have no answers.
@demonics I'm not dating anyone. I was just talking about an incident. That's not what black girls say. I don't know if you're upset or what but that's not me. I can't control who I like and who likes me. That's not what this is about anyway this. It's not about race.
Dude, no one fucking cares if you date Becky, Amber, and Blakely. The problem is when you bash your own women just to see if it'll help you ain't approval from Becky, Amber, and Blakely so you can get in their pants. THAT is the shit that pisses us off.
You're probably not attracting the guys you want based on your shitty, woe is me attitude and you're probably ugly af too, based on your rude responses to the other black women in this mytake.
Get some self-esteem.
No I'm attracting them they're just not talking to me. You're really sad. A 30 year old using a young person's slang and then trying to insulte me. You're really said and childish please grow up. It's my feelings and opinions if you don't like that leave. No one asked you to repsonse. It's so funny when people have to resort to people being ugly for that to be a reason. You're a sad hater and the type of black women I don't like. You're just like them you don't want to uplift but rather tear down and that's why black people don't have anything. You need to grow out of your attitude because it's very childish.
yeah, same here, i HATE it when women tell me i am good looking for an indian but not their type.
It's a backhanded compliment, which is worse than an insult.
hun you are 15 do not worry trust me it will happen
I'm not worried I was just thinking and I wanted to write something.
shouldn't you be worrying about school not this?
boo ur still young :)
staphhh it
So, wait a sec here. If you believe that you are being turned down by guys because you are black, then why don't you date black guys? I don't get it.
And as for your personality, trust me when I say that plenty of guys like the tomboy type.
I never said I was turned down for that. I said that was a factor. Majority of the article was about things that I can change. About how I constantly talk about my insecurities and are not the most approachable. In my area guys don't seem to like the 'tomboy' type. Also black guys aren't really interested in black girls they prefer latinas and white girls.
Dude, a lot of black guys give the same bullshit excuse for not liking black girls as guys who aren't black. Especially in the U. S. Many black girls have been turned down just for being black, and because of that I say she should just say fuck it and be her own unique happy self. The less she focuses on finding a dude, and loving herself more the better. If a guy happens to come along who likes her or if she likes him she should ask him out, but other than that she needs to love herself (blackness and all) more.
@xXiTacoXx I 100% agree and that's the plan if not. I'll adopt kids and live happily alone
Honestly I have a sarcastic sense of humour and I find darker skin tones attractive
You're barely a man yourself, off course you like masculine skin tones on women.
@xBreezy bro ur only 2 years older then me hell I'll be 18 in 3 months and how is a skin color masculine or feminine when both genders are capable of having said skin tone
It was just a joke
no need to take it seriously.
@xBreezy sorry about that hard to tell tone of voice over the internet lol
You're fine, no need to apologize
I must say it was a pathetic joke. I don't blame you.
@xBreezy We don't need that kind of negativity and it's not a joke. It's sad that you think that. Please take your "jokes" elsewhere.
@xBreezy That is not a 'joke'.
@helloitsmethere actually it is
@sbbu11 It's not, it's incredibly disgusting
Your'e 15 for fuck sake, not a 30 years old virgin. Time will do it's work, don't worry about it.
I'm aware of my age I just wanted to express how I was feeling at the moment.
Let me tell you that for some, attraction is also about the character
The truth is always the truth.
Yeah sadly in some cases
Post a picture of yourself so we can judge if it's your looks. Sounds like you're coming up with excuses for not getting boyfriends.
Insecurity shines brightest when you see a grown man telling a girl in highschool they aren't pretty. This isn't a man or nay man opinion who you should consider. Or any woman reading this. How pathetic is it that we have a society that would allow grown men to belittle little girls and justify with a skin color. Its as if it encourages regressing to children and taking it out on others.
@juststrollin I don't know how he would know if I was pretty unless it's a just a skin color thing I don't have any pictures up. He's all over the place I don't take things really seriously that he or anyone that doesn't really get my points.
@Antvin95 This was't about looks really. It's about my insecurities and lack of confidence and such. I'm not looking for people to judge me I don't need approval from random strangers. Besides putting my picture online is something I wouldn't do. It's scary you never know what someone will do with it.
Good for you for accepting the truth
Well yeah there is no need to make excuses
But look at his username :/ These people are weird. I'm telling you.
@juststrollin Oh I know they are
Your 15 and your still talking about boy germs 😳
It was a joke. I guess I can't try to make anything light hearted.
Race is not important
It is a factor but that wasn't the main point. I always love it when people don't get the main idea and want to act like the world is not the way that it is. If you want to live in a fantasy world fine, but it's not reality.
Thank you
What?
Worried at 15 wow