That kind of feels like a contradiction. Just hear me out. I feel like I'm harassing a girl if I repeatedly ask her out and she says no. I don't want to be a stalker. How would I know if she's shy but interested vs she's just not interested?
This is true. However, girls shouldn’t use shyness as a reason to not put themselves out there like he is for her, unless she doesn’t want to be around him. I believe things should go both ways.
very nice article, I liked it a lot, but I would have to say that would apply to most girls yes? not just shy ones, since I believe all girls would like to be in their "comfort zone" when they are with a guy of interest
I'm a shy girl, and I've gotta say.. This would totally work on me.
lol
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I don't know. I get upset before I got a chance. Shy girls get so shy so I don't have a chance because I get pissed. Why a shy girl asks shy around me it automatically makes me feel she doesn't like me and wants me to stop talking to her
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The same way as asking any other girl:
1) Be very attractive
2) Ask
Ignore #2 if #1 is so extreme she asks you...
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You don't bother with shy girls. They either learn to stop being shy to become valuable or they keep wallowing in self pity. They're not entitled to special treatment of any kind
I think such a girl needs to greet her in a way that fits her personality. She needs to be polite and respectful, and she needs to be amiable. But she doesn't feel stressed.
How can a shy guy ask a girl on a date (the right way), whether she's shy nor not?
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I always thought a shy girl meant she won't make the first move. To refuse repeatedly... that is just weird. I would move on after the first no. If that is not the outcome she wants, she better change her act.
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This is great. Thanks for the article! The comments are great, too.
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Hi lovestruck, I wouldlove to help you out. Could you please specify what your question is?
Work on your confidence and believe in yourself. A girl loves a confident guy!
That kind of feels like a contradiction. Just hear me out. I feel like I'm harassing a girl if I repeatedly ask her out and she says no. I don't want to be a stalker. How would I know if she's shy but interested vs she's just not interested?
And risk possible rejection?
Fuck that... Rejection rates from girls are quite high too... I will never go near a girl in real life, rejection hurts
lol, There is no "right way". And if there is, it will change completely for the next girl. ;)
This is true. However, girls shouldn’t use shyness as a reason to not put themselves out there like he is for her, unless she doesn’t want to be around him. I believe things should go both ways.
very nice article, I liked it a lot, but I would have to say that would apply to most girls yes? not just shy ones, since I believe all girls would like to be in their "comfort zone" when they are with a guy of interest
I'm a shy girl, and I've gotta say.. This would totally work on me.
lol
I don't know. I get upset before I got a chance. Shy girls get so shy so I don't have a chance because I get pissed. Why a shy girl asks shy around me it automatically makes me feel she doesn't like me and wants me to stop talking to her
The same way as asking any other girl:
1) Be very attractive
2) Ask
Ignore #2 if #1 is so extreme she asks you...
You don't bother with shy girls. They either learn to stop being shy to become valuable or they keep wallowing in self pity. They're not entitled to special treatment of any kind
😂
No joke, shy girls are hard work.
But worth sometimes.
Helpful stuff. She will feel safer on her "home turf".
Most of the time they will assume you are not interested, and lose their interest themselves.
I think such a girl needs to greet her in a way that fits her personality. She needs to be polite and respectful, and she needs to be amiable. But she doesn't feel stressed.
How can a shy guy ask a girl on a date (the right way), whether she's shy nor not?
I always thought a shy girl meant she won't make the first move. To refuse repeatedly... that is just weird. I would move on after the first no. If that is not the outcome she wants, she better change her act.
I liked the article.. maybe i should try that soon although im not sure of the current situation with her