Have you ever felt like the person you like is the one and only? But then you realize that the person you liked actually isn't the one for you after you looked at his attitude and behaviour?
Well, this is my experience! I am sure a lot of you experienced the same thing! In my life i had over 16 crushes on different guys and i handled my emotions differently with each one of them! Not gonna lie i fucked up with some guys because i am inexperienced with guys and literally am very shy and awkward with them! Most guys i liked weren't even my type it was just an infatuation and the fact that they looked at me and i was flattered!(stupid me) .The thing with crushes is that sometimes you get addicted to them or obsessed happened to me once and i regret that he didn't even treat me right didn't want to talk to me in real life only said hi and yeah that was mean! It was like he didn't respect me at all! It was my fault i should have left him since day one and the idea of dating him as well! He had a girlfriend after all!
The second experience with crushes is that some guys only stare but you don't know why they do so, they don't start up a conversation with me ever and i feel very inadequate! I won't bite anyone! I just really want to get to know a guy and see how it goes! I am not gonna go further with them i just really want to experience first love u know? The danger of that is that you will speculate the reasons behind his staring or smiling or touching or whatever!
I for real don't see any reason to like anyone anymore most guys don't seem serious anyway! I just wanted to share my experience with crushes.I don't know if you experienced something similar or i am the only "lucky" one😂 Thanks for reading!
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I experienced something way way worse. I don't know if it just a crush or fell in love with him..
Anyway, I had been chatting with a guy that I met on this site for 7 months. At the beginning he seemed really sweet and nice and felt like we had a connection. We've been talking for several hours a day, exchanged photos, personal information, phone numbers etc. He claimed he loved me that I was the most beautiful girl on the site and that we should meet in real life and move in together, be his girlfriend, even with the prospect of marriage (!)
After New Year's Day the guy started changing his behavior.. The replies started becoming shorter and less frequent.. Then the guy started pressuring me to send him pictures in underwear and have phone sex with him, although I told him I don't feel ready for something like this... Then I accidentally found out that the guy was at a dating site and had been talking to girls there. When I confronted him about this, the guy attacked me with horrible names and insults, said we're over and blocked me on all social media just yesterday
I feel brokenhearted, betrayed and like an idiot
I wish I could alert other girls too on the site, so that they don't fall victim of this terrible person and ruin their mental health (the guy has been going after girls on the site for quite a while. There have even been complaints about him...) Now I learned my lesson.. Always be very careful and never fall for easy love oaths by guys... Especially online. Never share your photos with anyone, some people know how to manipulate young and naive girls, they are experts in psychology
Anyway, sorry for the rant. I just saw this MyTakes and felt the need to share my thoughts with someone else
You know what? I really feel sorry for what happened no one deserves that! You are a sweet girl i am sure just get over him u will find someone better🥰
Thanks for sharing this. It's a good reminder of how unsafe online chatting can be.
@Laura456 true but i am curious to know who he is to avoid him!!
So am I @marianna34n
@Laura456 someone of us should ask her lol
She should have reported him
@Laura456 yeah sure
@marianna34n Thank you so much for the support and your kind words! You seem like a very nice person. I would say the name here, but now I'm a bit afraid.. Who down voted this?
Plus this is a rule against member posts
@laura456 I did report him
There have also been other reports on the site too, but the admins don't do anything
Anyway, I could pm you or Marianna with his name if you want
Apologies for the late reply
I haven't been on the site for days
okay pm me if you can!!! U are so sweet <33
don't need to apologize you have your priorities
I tried to pm you but it says you accept messages only from followings!
On a side note, why do all the comments on this post, although they seem reasonable? Really ood
Well who knows? Follow me for now and i will follow you back and u can send me then a message :)
@marianna34n ok, I sent you a follow request