OVERSIMPLIFIED CONSENT : a short story

[fonduegirl]

MAKE CONSENT MAKE SENSE

a one act dialogue story which will make you understand that girls getting all the attention isn't the best girl privilege you imagine for it to be. being randomly hit on will never be a PRIVILEGE.

characters
Jared (23)
Kason (38)

K : hi thanks for liking my pictures
follow me for more
wink wink

J : sure np

K : so wanna follow me back?

J : sure ig

K : ur so cute

J : it's just a follow
there. done. good day!

K : i feel lonely
can u stay? ur cute

J : what does cute have to do with company

K : can we talk
ur kinda playing hard to get, sweetie

J : im sorry you feel that way

K : that's all right
ur kinda fun to play with
ngl kisses

J : ur weird

K : do you like it

J : um, it makes me uncomfortable

K : u were asking for it
i saw u in ur swimming trunks
u looked so hot
ughhh

J : thanks?

K : u look great in blue

J : haha, noted

K : what did u do on the beach?

J : had fun with friends
I love sundays on the beach

K : can i join u sometime

J : i will have to ask my friends first

K : mmk
if u say so
i wanna have fun wi u
make memories

Jared is typing. . .

K : just me n' u
winky parade

J : idek how to feel about that

K : i bet u have never been w a man before
i can tell
ur so innocent
it makes me hard

Jared is typing. . .

K : cmon don't be shy

J : uh

K : i bet a lot of people wanna go out wi u
because ur hot too
hahaha

J : i have some work

K : it's ok baby doll
we can chat later
when u come back for more

J : for more creeps? no thanks

K : oh lighten up
don't be like that

J : like what

K : that
u post a cute pic of urs on insta and u think people won't give u attention??
haha sure believable

J : i did that because i was feeling good

K : i can make u feel so much better
let's get together

J : im sure

K : great
gimme ur number

J : im busy rn

K : ok i will wait for you
kiss kiss

J : bye

K : don't say bye, hot stuff

J : can u stop w the nicknames

K : so getting half nude isn't a problem
but a term of endearment is??
that's so bi pola'

J : i was at the beach!
do you think i should go there clad in a tuxedo!

K : ur cuter when ur angry
rawr

J : i will block u!

K : i have other ways

J : UGHH

K : ik u secretly like me too

J : UR AN INTERNET STRANGER OH MY GOD

K : but i have my pic posted
here

Kason sends you a picture

K : do i look good

J : yeah sure

K : rate me
on a scale of f* me to date me, what number

J : i have work

K : then u better hurry

J : uh 4

K : so im good for f but no dates i got? so typical
ur narcc

J : WHAT.

K : like all others
u think posting suggestively and stuff will get u an army of simp
ur so evil
u want people to notice u
and then u tell them they're unattractive

J : u were the one who suggested we rate u

K : there's no us
ain't no way imma date a b* like u
good luck finding a guy
because u let a good guy get away
because ur too s* and attention w*

J : i have a boyf

K : why didn't u say so? UGHHH

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[mandyfire98]

Oh yeah. Been through this a few times. It's basically, you're showing cleavage and being nice, you want sex. Let's see how much of the comments under this are people raging against it. Those will let you know who the people are who are the perpetrators as well. Great my-take

[crmoore]

I know it's a short story but this seems very unrealistic. I'm not defending the guys actions, he's clearly pushy and clueless. But if she was uncomfortable from the very beginning, why does she continue to entertain the discussion? She could easily end the entire conversation.

And no, this is not a "she deserves it because was asking for it" argument, it's a "why is knowingly keeping herself in a negative, unpleasant experience?" If it's out of kindness, I get that. But the world can be a tough place and she needs to know how to end these sort of situations. She has no obligation to talk to this person.

[fonduegirl]

This is a compilation of all the negative attention women get. It's exaggerated for effects.

[fonduegirl]

What Jared said are all the responses women have tried, before learning that random guys approaching you is usually negative thing.

[crmoore]

Okay I gotcha, that makes sense.

[zeitgeist057]

I didn't see it as that unrealistic, maybe not perfect script writing, but decent examples of a typical "nice guy" behavior pattern. They act nice until they don't get what they want, multiple attempts at manipulation, then they are abusive.

[fonduegirl]

@zeitgeist057 not to mention the ending

[exitseven]

This crap did not exist when I was a kid. I did not miss anything. No wonder everyone complains about what a nightmare dating is today. People have no sense of decency.

[fonduegirl]

Consent is crap?

[Cuminginside]

"Honey, hush!". Bogs on "Shawshank redemption film"

[Cuminginside]

Someone told me that he needed bipolar medication after reading this I thought they were joking well I'll have to break out the prescription pad.

[realeyeofthetiger]

This example is pretty straight forward.

I would like to see an example of a more savvy perpetrator.

[fonduegirl]

Make a girl account on Instagram and find out yourself

[realeyeofthetiger]

Um, no need to be hostile.

The example you mentioned is at the maturity level of a horny immature teenager. The ill-intent is apparent and their advances can be thwarted early on. I understand you just wanted to show an exaggerated example for your article here.

Savvier guys in 20s or 30s would be more charming, deceitful, and manipulative. I am not sure why I need to make an account... I am sure you guys get plenty of that as well. Also, I am already familiar with them cause I have a few female friends. But it will be good to show other guys how some situations are not as clear cut and therefore be even more exhausting to deal with. As you can see another guy also commented the example seems too simple.

[fonduegirl]

Usually some older guy is creeping up on me.

[fonduegirl]

Becos "I'm lonely' according to them.

[fonduegirl]

I wasn't being hostile in the replies. You can really see for yourself, conduct a little experiment if you will.

[Extraterrestrial1999]

I guess at this point, women should just ask men out all the time, lol

[fonduegirl]

Challenge accepted

[Averageguy69420]

Yea the guy was to pushy, and a jerk. But honestly I wish women were more direct and had to start the conversation. Instead of mostly bring on us guys

[fonduegirl]

@Averageguy69420 yes

[SnowedIn]

Lmao this was awesome. You nailed it.