Signs your friends wife wants to have a affair with YOU

[Summeroflove]

You’re loyal to your best bro but you need to know if his wife is completely innocent or if you need to respectfully create some distance. Remember, none of these signs is definite indicator of attraction it’s very possible that there is another exclamation. Don’t accuse someone of wrong doing unless you have proof.

1: She keeps in touch with you frequently

Maybe she wanted your number as well as follows you on everything. Maybe she just said she wants to keep in touch in case something happens. But you notice that she’s hitting you up for non important issues or even just to talk. She frequently likes your posts even if she doesn’t do that to other friends.

2. She wants to talk to you alone

At functions or even at his house she tends to come around when he’s not there. Maybe to talk or whatever but you’ll notice she lingers around a lot more then what’s normal. When you’re there to see your friend but she’s always right there. Maybe she's simply your friend too but observe if her behavior chances too when her husband isn’t around.

3: Talks to you about relationships problems

When there is problems in the relationship you know about it. She tells you… You know about every fight that they have and her side of things. Asking you what she should do etc.

4: Flirty

You notice she’s flirty. Maybe she makes little flirty comments or jokes that she plays off. Maybe she touches you a lot or whatever.

5: She has cheated before

If she’s cheated before she will cheat again. Whether it was on him or someone else. Respectfully, regardless of what signs you see. Be cautious around her.

[lorenzomichael]

7 years ago I was with this chic my friend hooked me up with. I was supposed to be with with her because he wanted to be with her friend and her friend didn’t want to to go alone on a date with my friend so she wanted her friend to with her that’s when I came in. Anyway it didn’t work out for my friend but me and the girl well we connected and were with each other on and off for about a yr&1/2 during this time I found out that she liked doing coke and having sex and that she had a 4yr one son which turned me off because I don’t drugs and when we were doing our thing she was high and the fact she had a kid. and after I had met him I really felt guilty so I killed the relationship in a nice way. Because that was the right thing to do. Then 3 years gos by and I met my friend Oscar we hit it off and we became real good friends even to this day. So about the first 4to6 months he talk a lot about his girl. Like how much he liked her, how she could be the one, she has a son, and how that would be great because he also had a son which son and she already met his family and all this shit. I was very happy for him. I even told him that’s good. Maybe you should ask her to marry you now then I asked him “What’s your girls name again? Hem said Maritza. I said “oh”, and I told myself “That can’t be the same one could it be?” The next day I was at his house talking to him, his brother and his dad. Then his girl pulls up he greets you at the car and says come I want you to meet somebody and when we seen each other we acted like we just met and in the kitchen when we were alone, after about two hours, I told her I’m not telling oscar anything that’s all I said I didn’t give her a chance to say a word. I did not want my friend to be with her because I knew how she was unless she changed, but I didn’t know. So I kind of distance myself for a while from Oscar I didn’t want to come between him and her. I still talk to him once in a while, but I’m not as close to him as I once was because of her however, I don’t know if he’s still with her or what. He talked about her, like she was the best girl he’s ever had in his life.

[2_beHappy]

Well, most of those signs could occur in absolutely any case, so I wouldn t base mg presumptions solely on them. They are telling , yes , but you still need proof , literal one, in the end. It also depends in whether it bothers her husband or not, those behaviours

[oswaldcobblepot]

I agree. These signs alone are definitely proof.

[Summeroflove]

That’s why I said that. There are things that are innocent enough. Don’t accuse unless you have proof. However you can notice things.

Some people are also better at hiding it

[Finchie40]

I came into this situation a few times in my lifetime , so it can happen. and does happen When it happened to me , I immediately distanced myself from them and stayed away from her as much as possible , out of respect for my friend. Only one time I ended up not distancing myself because he wasn’t really a close friend and I was very attracted to and I to his wife that was very attracted to me and her and I had so much in common

[cora1]

I used to know this girl who would only like to hang around men. She used to be my sister in law and we would bring her to my family gathering while her husband worked and instead of spending time with the girls at family reunions, getting food ready with all of us, she would get in the guy circle. Some women, you can just see it, they just love the attention from men. She was particularly attracted to my friends’ husband and would always try to talk too him and follow him around.

[Summeroflove]

Yes some men also simply aren’t aware that a woman’s hitting on him. Not excusing the man either both people have self control issues.

But sometimes that opportunity arises. Someone who cheats or attempts to cheat with someone’s own family is a shitbag person

[Summeroflove]

But believe me…. It can seem VERY innocent. You assume because she’s married she would never try anything.

[cora1]

Yes she did try to make it seem super innocent. Obviously I don’t think she tried anything risky, but I think it was her cautious way of showing she’s interested and she didn’t realize that it was very evident.

[Summeroflove]

Most people are cautious. They don’t know how someone is going to react to it and they know they have to be careful. But as time goes on they may test the waters more.

If alcohol is involved though it can be another story

[Summeroflove]

Some people may take more risk then others. But for the most part it will seem innocent enough but there may be little hints with plausible deniability if someone said something

[Pumpkinpie222]

I have to agree with you here. If she's making an effort to contact you and keep you “close”, it’s a little sketchy. Anyway, I read the title as “signs your wife wants to have an affair with YOU” and I was thinking awww that’s romantic 😂.

[Summeroflove]

That’s true. Especially if it’s behind her husbands back

[BadApple69]

You just need to be strong. If that’s her goal to have an affair when she strikes out with you she’ll move on to someone else. Worst thing you can do is call her out for it or tell your friend. Either way you’ll be made to look like the ass and you will lose your friend.

[TrimmedTip]

Could be nothing, could be something — but if she’s extra chatty, flirty, or private with you, and shares too much about her marriage, best to keep some distance just in case.

[Summeroflove]

Could be. But if you notice too many signs it’s best to keep respectful distance

[WhiteThought]

My friend's wife has wanted me for over a decade. She wanted me before she even began her relationship with him. I don't entertain it, but I'm aware of it.

[Summeroflove]

And it’s hard to talk to people who don’t want to see it

[WhiteThought]

I have no reason to talk to anyone about it. We know the subject is off limits, but they aren't stupid. They see it too.

[Summeroflove]

The issue is that they keep denying it even if they see it. They come up with excuses until eventually the person leaves or they can’t take anymore and leave

[Dongie]

Either she's ready to scratch the 7 year itch or your friend really thinks the world of you and talks about you very highly and all the time so she wants to be a part of that world.

[Summeroflove]

Wanting to also be your friend Is different

[Summeroflove]

But she won’t be wanting to sneak away to see you behind his back either

[Dongie]

Nope!

[Summeroflove]

It is different. Wanting to be someone’s friend without romantic and/or sexual feelings is a lot different.

But there wouldn’t be sneakiness. She wouldn’t want to hide it from her man and she wouldn’t only come around when he’s not

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Bro forget our fights let's just put it in the past.

Just remember never ever in you're life you must never date much less get married to a gold digger!

You are not obligated to buy woman expensive shit!

Shit will the woman be willing to clean the house? Or cook you dinner? So why even bother buying shit for them. Sometimes you are better off being single then being tide to a gold digger once they get divorced they will take all the shit you work for.

[janemarie15]

hmm, private communication to you? or physical closeness, like invades your personal space more than most people do. Find excuses to touch you haha.

[Summeroflove]

That says run!!!

[genericname85]

i don't care what the signs are. she's not getting an affair with me either way.

[Summeroflove]

That’s good

[Purpleronnie]

But why would i care? It’s my friends wife , not even if they split and I was “very” single woudl I go there.. that’s just vile

[Alex-Snow]

Wow sounds like she wants sex with you. Stay away!

[HeartShapedHaze]

I'm telling my bro if she tries to cheat on him with me lol

[DCVsMarvel2]

She's being flirty with you, and is talking about problems she's having with him, with you

[tulgablake]

Frequent calls especially at late night

[Summeroflove]

Unless there is a emergency or you’re working in a career field where calls are necessary. There is no good reasons why someone’s calling in late at night or early in the morning.

Most normal people at least aren’t just having conversations about the weather between 10 pm and 3am. Maybe there are people who do it but not most people.

[Summeroflove]

No matter how innocent someone tries to claim it is…. There is mostly one reason outside of a emergency why someone’s calling at Thst tjem

[dustybiker2]

It shouldn't matter.

[Summeroflove]

It shouldn’t be it’s good to be aware of this. Now obviously there are people who will have a affair witn their friends spouse.

But. It does matter to the man being cheated o.

[dustybiker2]

You jumped and missed my point.
It shouldn't matter if you are a good friend. It wouldn't happen.

[Summeroflove]

I AGREE! But I also understand keeping some distance. But I do feel bad for a lot of people being cheated on.

I think people should be aware though when it’s happening.

[dustybiker2]

Sure
It shows the person is a cheater

[Summeroflove]

It does. Opportunity shows peoples true colors better then anything. A lot of people want to seem like one type of person despite doing other things when they don’t think anyones lookint and don’t think they’ll be caught

[scott04sa22]

Emotional Affair

[Summeroflove]

It can be. And a emotional affair can be one sided weirdly. A sexual affair obviously both people have to choose to do jt.

Someone could think something is totally innocent while the other person doesn’t