I would never just show up on a guy's doorstep, nor would I invite myself. If I didn't get and invite and wanted tobhang out with him, I would either invite himbover or invite him out.
Or you can call that like, "8 signs to know she definitely friendzoned you."
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If you believe in the friendzone then guess what... you belong there. If you like a girl then show her, the only reason they see you as a friend is because that's all you offer them. People don't "get" friendzoned they friendzone themselves.
You didn't have to impress me but you should write more! You obviously have a good grasp on women that other male users could definitely find handy. I like watching human behaviour too, clearly it's been beneficial to you. :)
I don't want to expand too much on personal experiences because that's when some people just come out to say not all "___" are like that. Which makes it harder to develop more takes lol I enjoyed reading your... why exes call take :)
Things would be a million times easier if people were more upfront about it all lol We'd be able to get rid of all the "He/She looked at me, does that mean he wants me?" haha
Damn I must be the biggest heartthrob Ever if thats the case! cause i get these reaction with almost every girl i meet. and i do mean every single reaction.
The thing is they do happen. But I'm guessing someone your age (I'm guessing high school) would be more limited towards certain points I made. Like driving or coming to your place.
As you get older a lot of things change and you'll notice it a lot more... given of course you find a girl who likes you.
If a girl states she's single, it's pretty obvious she's letting you know for a reason. She's not going to say "ask me out" because we fear rejection just as much as you and we wouldn't want to appear desperate.
This isn't always true Hannah and I can easily explain this in private through my own personal experience. Some girls just want attention/know that they can have you without any serious intent, by dropping aforementioned hints and so on. Every person is different, and while some may go about notifying their crush they're interested in the ways listed above, nothing beats straight up communication. If you want it to be a date, STATE that it's a date. Don't beat around the bush and say "hang out". It's a date. Full stop.
Likewise, if you're not interested, don't say we're just friends. Say look you're [put adjective here representing what you think of said person] but I am not interested in you romantically/sexually.
Not trying to nitpick on this, but as a guy, I've dealt with so many of these alleged signs, that I would hardly classify them as more than the flip of a coin without OTHER context involved.
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#3 would freak me out - she just shows up on my doorstep?
Lol not like that xD
More like she invites herself over by saying "Hey I should come over so we can watch that movie"
Not creeper level lol
That's less creepy... still a little bit unusual.
I would never just show up on a guy's doorstep, nor would I invite myself. If I didn't get and invite and wanted tobhang out with him, I would either invite himbover or invite him out.
Please excuse the typos. My touch screen keypad is having issues.
Well yeah accurate, nice take. I've never done any of it though (I guess I've never had a crush? O. o) except for the playing with hair part.
Not even number 2? I figure most girls would end up asking about his love life lol
Oh no no it's waaaaay to obvious lol
Based on how thirsty he acts around you xD
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Your funny :)
Haha I had to pull out my best material after you declared such a bold statement lol
Glad I could help. -knod-
Or you can call that like, "8 signs to know she definitely friendzoned you."
If you believe in the friendzone then guess what... you belong there.
If you like a girl then show her, the only reason they see you as a friend is because that's all you offer them. People don't "get" friendzoned they friendzone themselves.
How do you know women so well? Good take. :)
Before you started following me... you asked if I was interested in writing a take?
This is it... I had to impress you lol
But seriously I'm just really observant when it comes to human behavior
Thanks! :)
You didn't have to impress me but you should write more! You obviously have a good grasp on women that other male users could definitely find handy. I like watching human behaviour too, clearly it's been beneficial to you. :)
I don't want to expand too much on personal experiences because that's when some people just come out to say not all "___" are like that. Which makes it harder to develop more takes lol
I enjoyed reading your... why exes call take :)
You should write whatever and ignore those people. Thank-you :)
Followed crap like this for years and where did it get me?
lmao!
Single!!! You're free lol
Free and loving it.
Yay. From now on all the 'Does she like me?' Questions are getting linked to this take.
Have you caught yourself doing any of these?
It's even funnier seeing all the guys saying "I guess no one like me :(" Lol
I usually just tell a guy I like him if I do lol. But, I do tend to play with my hair when I'm nervous.
Things would be a million times easier if people were more upfront about it all lol
We'd be able to get rid of all the "He/She looked at me, does that mean he wants me?" haha
Damn I must be the biggest heartthrob Ever if thats the case! cause i get these reaction with almost every girl i meet. and i do mean every single reaction.
Ohhhh! We got a playa!
yea wonder why I'm still single.
Damn bro you get around lol maybe now you need to ask one of those girls out lol
lol nah i can still get ass, I'm just single
Then you're good lol
But then there are shy girls... We would blush, or stare, or smile.
too bad i never encountered these hints... i guess girls are not simply attracted to me
If she's openly discussing her love live, she probably sees you as a friend
The other points are true
The only thing she says about her love life is that she's single. If she brings it up then it's clearly not friendship.
Ha these things happen to other people. The notion is ridiculous.
I don't understand your point, mind elaborating?
Brah I'm just being stupid. It was ploy of sarcasm saying that this stuff doesn't happen too often.
The thing is they do happen. But I'm guessing someone your age (I'm guessing high school)
would be more limited towards certain points I made. Like driving or coming to your place.
As you get older a lot of things change and you'll notice it a lot more... given of course you find a girl who likes you.
I don't doubt it, you seem like you know what's up.
Whatever, i think i'll never know when someone likes me that way.
Can someone elaborate more on number 7?
I totally agree with 8,7, 5 and 2 :P
Stop sending signals and start using proper communication.
Grow up girls.
Shhh let's not start a fight lol just read the signs better lol
If a girl states she's single, it's pretty obvious she's letting you know for a reason. She's not going to say "ask me out" because we fear rejection just as much as you and we wouldn't want to appear desperate.
However, if she likes attention and tells everyone in a sad way, she's most likely just getting attention, not sending a signal.
This isn't always true Hannah and I can easily explain this in private through my own personal experience. Some girls just want attention/know that they can have you without any serious intent, by dropping aforementioned hints and so on. Every person is different, and while some may go about notifying their crush they're interested in the ways listed above, nothing beats straight up communication. If you want it to be a date, STATE that it's a date. Don't beat around the bush and say "hang out". It's a date. Full stop.
Likewise, if you're not interested, don't say we're just friends. Say look you're [put adjective here representing what you think of said person] but I am not interested in you romantically/sexually.
Not trying to nitpick on this, but as a guy, I've dealt with so many of these alleged signs, that I would hardly classify them as more than the flip of a coin without OTHER context involved.
Sorry meant to actually tag you @Hannah591
Never had any of this lol
Now you know lol
The play with your hair is a classic one.
I don't do any of that... but I would if I could.
You would if you could? What's stopping you lol
My lack of confidence, I suppose.
I guess girls don't like me :(((
Lol cheer up pal :D