5 Sign She Likes You That Make No Sense

[pavlove]

This is for the youngin's...most guys 18 and up have probably figured this out but maybe not...

1 ) She always "looks good"

This could mean make up if she likes to wear it, but even if she doesn't she'll just always look put together. It makes no sense because as a guy "trying" to look good for a girl is seen as total beta and the top guys can make it work in just a white undershirt and a hoodie. If a girl feels comfortable around you to "dress down" you've lost it.

2 ) You catch her in a "natural moment" and she's semi-embarrased

This is more true for girly girls, but let's say you're walking to class and you see her laughing super hard with her friends and she's wearing her reading glasses she may have a mortified look upon seeing you. In the moment, you might feel like...the hell? Why is she being so quiet? Is she embarrased of knowing me? Nah, she just likes to control the image.

3 ) She talks about another man rather specifically

This one is tricky because it reads like a friend zoning, yet if you're slow to reveal if you like a girl or not and she likes you, she may throw another guy out there to see your reaction. The irony is that if you play it to cool and blow up in jealousy only after you've left her then both of you think this guy is more than you are.

4 ) She laughs at honestly horrible jokes.

This makes no sense because if a guy laughed at her bad joke he'd look super try-hard. The thing to consider here is that the girl percieves humor based of the guy's value to her. If she is sees the guy as a loser and he says a super funny one liner she'll roll her eyes, but if he's high the guy of her dreams then everything he says is funny. He can literally say bloo bloo blahh blahh bleee and she'll laugh hysterically.

5) She asks you to fix her stuff.

This may make sense to some, but she literally uses you for something just to get a chance to spend some one on one time. Even if you aren't handy with tools you should go to this one, it's likely she's interested in something whether it's you asking her out, a nice Sunday conversation, or a nice Sunday ****. You are the man for her.

[justbanANNAz]

it's so nice not making sense to people. even though I'm "too old" for this, ill put my 2 cents in.

1. with this one, it's the opposite for me. if i get comfortable enough to dress down, you've actually got me. when i can not worry as much about how i look for him, or that ill fear he only loves me for my looks, then i show that by being able to dress down. not all the time of course.

2. lol ur totally right, this is a girly girl thing. I'm again the opposite. i play it super cool and pretend he just isn't there. that probably doesn't make sense either does it? whoops.

3. ehh, again some. I don't know y girls use this tactic. makes no sense to me either.

4. yes, just yes. or at least a smile.

5. lol yes. i asked a guy to open a bottle of water for me once 😂 #girlsgottado

[M_A_X]

Speaking as a guy on #2, we like women the best when they do look dorky or say something silly. Unless we're talking about fuckboys, guys like to see what a girl will really be like if a relationship happens. We plan for the future too, and it's really a pain to have women who try so hard to control their image, instead of just being themselves. We're really NOT that judgmental of humans being human

[Dipsy]

Lol at that tweet. It seems girls really want you to think the opposite lol..

[Dipsy]

@pavlove do you know any other signs that a girl likes you? Just normal ones? Have you made a mytake about them?

[pavlove]

I can make more.. similar to these ones?

[Dipsy]

I'd love those lol. I'm always curious whether a girl could like me lol.

Maybe you could also make a mytake on how to be charming, since that is one of the most attractive traits in a man. I mean charming in a gentleman way, like genuine charm. Like your personality is charming.
Do you know what i mean?

[pavlove]

yea I know what you mean. to start off I'd also suggest the art of seduction by Robert Greene

[redeyemindtricks]

To understand yr #4 you have to understand girl laughing in general tho. Girls do sometimes laugh at things, the way boys do, but more often that isn't what girl laughter is about. More often it's just... well, it's hard to describe, really, but it's lots and lots of things.

I mean, just listen to a conversation among girls sometime. There will be random laughter ALL THE TIME. It's almost a bonding thing, really.
It's kinda like when boys say "dude". You know? Boys say "dude" before statements, after statements, as a reaction, sometimes just to fill empty space. Girls do the same thing with laughter. Our laughing can be absolutely everything your "dude" can be -- it can be comfort, discomfort, agreement, disagreement, filler, shock, boredom, arousal, really ANYTHING. There's like 100,000,000 different kids of girl laughter.

So, yea, you're getting at something here, but there's laughing and there's laughing. LOL
I mean, there's one kind of laughter that means we're engaging with you and find yr company genuinely cool and stimulating, and that's what yr hinting at here. There's another kind of laughter that means we're dying for someone or something, any goddam thing, to rescue us from this horrible awkward situation omg. I think the difference is pretty obvious, but I'm also a girl. LOL

But like srsly, if yr hanging with a girl who's extroverted enough, she's probably gna express just about every emotion in the book with some form of laughing. And talking.

[TayTay21]

"The irony is that if you play it to cool and blow up in jealousy only after you've left her then both of you think this guy is more than you are."

I don't even understand this statement, especially, "... both of you think this guy is more than you are." More what? I don't think you understand the point of that game, the point is to test the waters of his interest. It's usually played by desperate and passive-aggressive girls, and it often backfires because guys know we do this. But the other guy has nothing to do with it. In some cases he may not even exist.

"She laughs at honestly horrible jokes."

No, hell no. I don't laugh unless he's funny. Some really hot guys are douchebags who think their lame humor is funny, but it actually just makes them super unattractive.

[DarkHumorRUs]

I guess no girls have ever liked me then, except for number 4.

[TatyanaTheEmpress]

Well, it depends/varies on a girl, but you're mostly right about some of the signs :)

[RachelBrigs]

Not accurate.

[pavlove]

lol. well then...

[M_A_X]

I disagree, but I'm just going to be really vague and dismissive about it

[RachelBrigs]

@M_A_X I honestly don't care enough to elaborate.

[pavlove]

@RachelBrigs screw off

[RachelBrigs]

He made a comment and I responded to it. That's unfortunately how this site works

[Anonymous]

Well, 5 is kinda problem for me, I can't fix stuff :P

[pavlove]

hahah just play pretend

[veraaa]

This is accurate. Especially #4!