If someone has a crush on you, turn off the snobbery and be humble (Page 2)

[HumbleTeddy]

I usually become really good friends with girls that crush on me. No akwardness included :)

[notverycreativeguy]

Uh, no.
It's usually me who gets treated like crap by his crush,
so if a girl I am not interested in had a crush on me, I'd treat her like crap just because I haven't had it easier than her.

[abundantlyrich]

having a crush? it's sooo high school. I don't do crushes. :P

[GoldCobra]

Okay. Just say u like them then. Same thing. "Crushing" on a guy

[R3d_Anonymous]

Actually, crushing is different than liking in my opinion. Crushing is fancying someone from afar without knowing much about them. Liking is more, when you have interacted and flirted some and now you actually "feel like your falling in love", in my opinion.

I use "crush" more as "interested+". Meaning there are girls I am interested in, but occasionally, there's that one girl that extra interests me and am attracted to the most. These are the girls that can linger around in my head months after getting rejected by them.

[abundantlyrich]

Whatever. Nothing political about crushes.

[Anonymous]

Allllright... I can admit my crush on Starfishlover and she'll at least e-smile at me :D :D :D

[Starfishlover]

Ok admit who you are and I will smile at you ;) xx

[Opinion Owner]

Mystery is the first step of my master plan ;D

[Pinkbeauty]

I have a few guys online say they had a crush but I never said anything when they told me because I didn't know how to respond or what to say

[R3d_Anonymous]

You should have simply told them, "Thank you. That's so flattering to hear! However, I am sorry - I just don't feel the same," or something like that.

[Pinkbeauty]

oh ok thanks I'll remmber that for next time

[Helpmeguys255]

This guy shows all signs of crushing.
He's shy...
He glances a lot and that pisses me odd but now I'm use to it.
He's gradually stating to give me eye contact and increasing convro length gradually.

What should I do? I'd only want to be mates

[tenofthepeaks]

Good points.

Some people are just dicks though...

if they scorn you, or anybody else, then imagine what they're like in an actual relationship...

[Anonymous]

No girl has ever crushed on me, so I've never had to deal with this ☺

[Krushhbrownies]

Hahaha oh yeah.. same here

[Anonymous]

I don't understand #2. Why would they feel like crap if they like you? Why Is it awkward? Are you saying that after they tell you, and you don't feel the same way they will feel like crap and awkward?

[Jaysunf]

Because they are not sure and taking a chance with their self esteem by admitting their crush leaving them vulnerable let down and nervous for things to follow through.

[COCOCHANEL]

i usually doubt my intuition and act cold to them. it's a defense mechanism.

[Frost_Byte]

"Snobby, self-entitled snob" lol

[Starfishlover]

Sorry, when I become passionate, I go hella stupid.

[Frost_Byte]

Hahaha i get the same way. Good take though by the way, i believe that if u have a crush on someone u aren't entitled to be with that person, but u at least deserve a little respect from the recieving end of those romantic feelings.

[2014raser]

You know what? I like this myTake. Good job.

[Mariahhh_xo]

Love this ! (:

[GoldCobra]

I'm usually the one who has the crush. It sucks

[XStarlightx]

So true *claps*