My boyfriends roommate is ruining our relationship. Help?

[Anonymous]

We share a house so I can escape him. But his roommate is always with us. Even comes out to dinner with us now. He works with his roommate so he spends all day with him. But now at home they play video games together from the time my boyfriend gets off work until bed time. I never get to hangout with him anymore and I barely get to be alone with him anymore. It's irritating.

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+1 y

I've told him about this. He suggested we move the Xbox back up to our room but his roommate enjoys playing the game my bad does on it. And if I suddenly switch it up there he's going to know it's cause of me and I feel like that'll make things awkward with living with him

[Anonymous]

Just tell him how you feel. I'm sure he will understand what you're going through.

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[OlderAndWiser]

The problem is your boyfriend and you. He doesn't respect you and you tolerate his lack of respect.

[Asker]

How does he lack respect for me

[OlderAndWiser]

You said your boyfriend spends more time with his guy friend than with you. Isn't that disrespectful?

[princesswhitedove]

i would talk to boyfriend about it and say lets have these many days a week and no friend joins on date. date time is only couple time

[AngelOvGhodd]

set his friend up on a date so then he can back up from you guys and then you'll have your alone time

[slatyb]

Tell your boyfriend about it -- that you need to spend time with him without the roommate. If he cares for you he'll make it happen. If he doesn't then you get to decide if you want to continue the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Grown men know when to stop playing there video games. They'll set a time limit on them, if he can't do that, then it's time to look for someone new