How do you deal with a pain in the ass sister in law?

[WiccanHighPriest]

My girlfriends sister is p*ssing me off trying to get me arrested for some bogus sh*t and she won't back off I have been nice and I have been down right hateful but she won't back off what should I do?

[greeneyedgal]

Your girlfriend will probably have more influence than you in this. Ask your girlfriend to talk to her on yourself to see if some compromise can be reached, for the sake of the family, to ensure peace etc. If this does not work then I think you alone need to avoid her. She obviously isn't going to listen to anyone so don't waste your energy on her. You know what the truth is so that's all that matters. Don't stoop to her level and give her any more ammunition for anything.

In addition, don't ask your girlfriend to ignore her sister because this will be putting her in a precarious position. I am sure she has loyalty to both of you and it would be unfair for her to take one side over another.

I hope this helps you because you helped me!

[kcm_05]

you need to tell your girlfriend to have boundaries wiht her sister and maintain them. and if she can't you need her to cut off ties with her sister if that doesn't work then leave. don't continue to see her.

[ixi10]

1. Try sitting down with her and talking through this

2. Completely ignore her. She might be doing all this to see how far she can push you

3. Talk to your girlfriend about this

[Camilus]

Use your high priest powers to shrink her head