Why do our plans always fall through?

[Anonymous]

So me and a friend of mine that I like a lot make plans but they never seem to happen.

He'll say something like "We should totally go see ____" or "I'll teach you how to play ___." But it never happens, I'm wondering if he's waiting for me to make my move or what.

Last time I took him out to lunch and he said "We should do this again sometime."

Does that mean I wait for him to make the move or not?

(He's not really a leader when it comes to making decisions though)

[Anonymous]

I don't know if he really wants to hang out with you enough to follow through with his plans. Don't push it. There has been more than enough opportunities to hang out (you even took him out to lunch) so I wouldn't sweat it.