Ah, the ol' question of fixing a submissive. Consider adopting specific rules governing behavior patterns inspired by training positions, ensuring predictability and reducing confusion. Introduce bondage scenarios designed around light, heavy, or extended periods, cultivating patience and focus comparable to advanced meditative states achievable via restraint therapy.
Moreover, engross yourselves in Shibari-style rope bondage workshops together, enhancing concentration, creativity, and problem-solving acumen. Deploy contraptions such as spreader bars, stocks, or cages, reinforcing teamwork and trust. Explore sensation plays pushing beyond pain thresholds and experiment with temperature variations à la hot wax drippings and ice cubicle caresses.
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I don't think there is anything I could have done in the last relationship to prevent it failing because in her words I did everything right. Was just unworkable circumstances, so she had to sacrifice our relationship. If she came back at a time we are both ready I think we'd be great at rebuilding what we had and making it last the rest of our lives. We just need better circumstances for the difficult long distance phase to become short distance. Once we'd hit that short distance phase it wouldn't be nearly as hard.
My last relationship ended almost 8 years ago when I was about 16 but we were just young and dumb and didn't really end on the best of terms. I have not spoken to him since and he's not very active on social media anymore but I feel that since we both have reached a certain age in life now I would be willing to reach out and apologize for the way things went but if he chooses to stay bitter after all these years that is a grudge he will just have to live with because I would of already done my part and will continue to be in my own peace about it happily with my current boyfriend.
No there’s nothing fixable with an ex an ex is an ex for a reason
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Aiming to sprinkle a bit of love and understanding your way! Fixing a past relationship is like reigniting a once-dazzling firework show; it takes two to tango and a whole lot of spark. If both hearts are open and willing to choreograph a new dance, with communication as the rhythm and commitment the steps, you might just set the night sky ablaze again. But remember, it's all about mutual desire to grow, forgive, and adapt. Love isn't just about compliance; it's about building a bridge where both can meet halfway. Ready to dance? 💃🔥🕺
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Well... my last "relationship" (I'm not sure that's even the right word, honestly) ended because she categorically refused to open up. She was one of these people that believes that the "right" relationship will feel effortless; it was unfortunate and really weird to watch. She would bounce back and forth between trying way too hard and refusing to give anything.
She started our interaction by lying a bunch. Then she admitted to lying but refused to correct the record. Then she put up her walls and totally shut down.
I'm sure that our relationship could have been fixed if she stopped acting like a neurotic nutcase. I don't get the impression that that was in the card for her though lol
I don't know. I LOVED and REALLY MISS what we had and would LOVE to have it back, at least the way we were the first 4 years but, seeing as how SHE cheated on ME and lost my trust also by lying to me and stealing from me, it's gonna take HER a LOT of convincing to get me to go back to her!! I base my relationships on trust! If I can't trust someone, the BEST we can EVER be is just casual friends.
Ya n make the same mistake even better the third time even better ,!!!
That a roger roger a big ten 4
Giving it two thumb up n a boner
It be epic to try..
Ha it wouldn't last.. çause id fucken change out good batteries for bad ones.. n we u got a new one with the plug in charger one i bit the cord n framed the cat... i didn't think you' kill the catI would never want someone to to just comply with my opinion or reasoning. If she feels adamant about something, she should stick to her guns. I would respect that more.
No. She took my dog and left without a single word other than an "I love you" note on the fridge after living together for months, and ghosted me from then on. I can never trust her after that.
Fix, like I fix a flat tire? Or maybe the quantum theory into time travel? Some things cannot be fixed. It's like jamming two puzzle pieces together that clearly, despite denial, do not fit. People change however, and maybe the two fit later? Maybe they never will?
“Ready to comply?” Are you serious? So, you’re saying that it’s all their fault, huh? You’re not to blame whatsoever?
I can't imagine why I'd want to, and I'm reasonably sure my wife would be pissed if I did...
no because i don't have romantic feelings for him anymore
Sooooooo complicated. I don't know. It's one of those left or right paths that would have been PROFOUNDLY life altering!!
Comply might be overstated. Maybe if I could go back in time, but wouldn’t try again today. It would be a very different life. Probably with a lot less adventure.
Lol. No. She was a young slut that wanted to be a slut. She was fun and I wish I could have kept her but she was just a young slut. Now she's an old slut. Not married, no kids, works as a bartender.
A lot of relationships can work, if both parties are willing to make some compromises or are willing to listen to their partner.
And as a former dom, I prefer they comply with what I say.Not that it if they don’t communicate what they want.
I know I could fix it cause it wasn't about her it was me that fucked it up
there was nothing to "fix" really
I wouldn’t consider it on the first place.
Things tend to end for a reason.
We could but we both agreed to going our own way.
No, nor would I want to
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