What stops white guys from dating black girls? (Page 2)

Question

I am a black female who is attracted to all races of men. I find it very interesting, though, that white men are most reluctant to date black girls. In fact, men in general are becoming more and more hesitant to court us. Why is that? Lack of attraction? Fear? Social stigmas?Please respond :]

ZenSpace · Answer

Lots of white guys just lack the confidence to approach.   That goes for girls of any color.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a black girl &&I really like white guys, it's not that I don't like my race at all... I've just been more attracted to another, that's all. But I've been told that I'm racist against my own kind, I think I'm too good for black boys, etc. No none of that's true, I just have white guys, been that way since I was a little girl. I don't know if it's because of my grandmother marrying a white man or what... I just prefer white. I've dated black guys before, &&that was a big socket my family. Heck when I say a black looks good I get a weird look &&hear "did she just say a black boy looks good?" I find it retarded &&childish. So half of the time I don't even respond... point to all of this is IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE'S WHITE YOU LIKE WHO YOU LIKE. DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY.! I LOVE WHITE MEN &&I'M PROUD TO SAY IT.!

shooter03 · Answer

I'm usually assuming she likes black guys, I have no problem with black women in fact I've always wanted to be with one to try it so any black females hit me up ;)

hellothere · Answer

I don't mind being friends with black girls but for me I just don't find them attractive for some reason

nextelement · Answer

I would not mind dating a black girl. There is more to the girl than just color. Society may play a big role in some white males opinions on them though.

Anonymous · Answer

This is sad but true. I come from a culture where men are generally brown (not very dark like South Indians, but brown). Even in our culture, the first criteria to consider a girl attractive is her being fair. So I think part of the answer is that somehow, color of skin is associated with being pretty.

But with respect to "black" females, there are probably some other factors that go against them.

Microbehunter · Answer

Easy peasy, it has to do with where a person was born and the culture influence. For example, if  persons were born in a black enviroment  like in Africa, they will like black. However, some exceptions happen and media play a major role.

confused4now · Answer

Mostly lack of attraction.  I'm attracted to fewer black girls than I am whites, hispanics, and asians.  The few black girls that I am attracted to never top the list.  I'm not racist or anything, I just don't find them as sexy.

jeffjeffj · Answer

Well I personally find that I have ebony fever so idk

niceguy333 · Answer

i dated ALOT of white girls, I am white. dated one black girl. and I thought I knew what crazy was until I dated the black girl. sorry. don't wanna stereotype, but this is my experience. white girl crazy = where were you last night!

black girl crazy = faking a pregnancy when you break up with them!

no thanks!

lockedsmiley · Answer

Well I'm a black girl and I've had white guys like me and hit on me. Or some just check me out and don't say nothing.  To answer your question, I think it's because they're afraid of rejection.

DanielSan · Answer

I am just not interested in black girls that much...i do not find them that attractive to me. Not that they are not pretty I am just not attracted.

Anonymous · Answer

In general from experience black girls, have a lot of attitude and white guys hate that, they come off too rude. Plus it does'nt help that they generally don't give white guys a second look so they become intimidating to approach if you get my drift? So stereotypically white guys kind of just back off, Please take no offence to what I'm saying just stateing my view. But physically black girls are attractive. Hope it helps answer your question

Anonymous · Answer

i don't think that's true,i have know problem asking a black girl out if I meet one that I find attractive, I only want to date black girls I'm just haven't been around many lately,i'm on 2 different interacial dateing sites,trust mei as least for me I don't have a problem with it,i've always found black girls to be cooler to hang out with and are better in bed,i will only date a black girl,i get turned on so much more,

Anonymous · Answer

For me, I just don't much like black American culture. The culture of victim hood, the shouting, rudeness, the glorification of crime and violence, the sense of entitlement. I would date a black woman who was not culturally American black.

BugabooKimberlyd · Answer

Well I'm mixed so I just called my friend John and he said that he is scared of african amercian ladies because they argue alot... But not all

TheBattMan · Answer

I forget which comedian said it, but they said "Black girls just don't think white guys are attractive." Maybe that's why? I don't know. I think there are some amazingly beautiful black girls! Just hasn't happened I suppose.

JayJay92 · Answer

To me, there are as many unattractive black girls as there is attractive ones. It's nothing to do with skin color or features. The problem with dating a black girl for me is what my friends/family would say.

PicklesMr · Answer

Maybe they just don't know how to approach them... African girls are different a little. I've read an interesting article about it from
website, and I want to date such a girl now. I am really excited :)

NoThanks2010 · Answer

LOL... Did any of you know that Ann Coulter was dating Jimmie "Jay Jay" Walker?

All sorts of people get together for all sorts of reasons, evidently...

I really wish that race was not an issue . As it stands, I am fed-up with the world's BS.

CakeGirl02 · Answer

My experience is they feel as though black females wouldn't give them the time of day so they don't bother.

Anonymous · Answer

They usually have weird shaped noses and unattractive hair, so typically not attractive. Well, at least this is my opinion. I don't know what other white dudes reasons are and why these facts don't seem to deter black men...

Josh112190 · Answer

I am married and my wife is black and we never had no problem we have triplets and never had not one single problem but black girls do not want u to like them bc of their butts or how sexy they are my wife always want Ed me to love her for who she was and that's exactly what I don't so for all u white guys out there who like black girls for their bodies just quit cause sooner or later that shit ain't gonna work

The-Pixel-Ninja · Answer

Generally it's a lack of attraction toward them. there are a few here and there, but generally speaking just doesn't do it for me. kind of difficult to explain.

Cmeloissick · Answer

Now let say that I'm crazy about black women as I wrote on some other posts but I want to answer the question from my observations.  I can imagine that besides social stigma, some are afraid of landing a volatile chick like Foxy Brown.  Foxy is of course the exception but people don't always make choices on facts rather sometimes it is what they have seen in the news etc.  And you don't learn about other people if you just stay around people just like you.

soldat · Answer

I just don't find black people or people from india attractive.

sweetnsassy23 · Answer

Thats funny because I'm from LA and see white guys dating black girls all the time!I guess its just where you live?

Xenophobia · Answer

Depending on where you live, the social stigmas may be too strong...which in itself discourages people from this.

kahlie · Answer

Does it honestly matter? I don't know if it is just me or if others could relate but I am a black female and despite all the social, cultural and political differences surrounding interracial relationships, I can honestly say that I could care less about that. In the end, it doesn't matter if a man regardless of his ethnicity isn't or is attracted to me because I'm comfortable in my skin and confident enough to flaunt it.

HierarchyTheory · Answer

I'd argue it's a result of social stigma, that being the primary reason.

coolbeens · Answer

My boyfriend is German and I'm Jamaican.. Nothing stopped him from chasin this tail hunnay ;)

BigB91 · Answer

well for me sumtimes yall are too dark. no offense. I like the way lighter or medium skinned black girls look. but my biggest reason for not dating black girls is because of all the weird stuff I see done to their hair.

Anonymous · Answer

Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, I don't know, but I know where it isn't, on a black girl. Maybe it is because I am a white guy, but black girls are the least attractive of all races to me. Sorry, but that is just my taste.

supiSH · Answer

nOOO girl the single reason is that he is afraid that you black male friends beat him up! no effence :D

ArchDruidMordred · Answer

Whenever a white man dates a black women the black men won't keep their mouths shut. I've experienced it myself dating my first and last black girl. It was annoying.

hihellohey · Answer

idk I just don't find black girls attractive and all people that I hang out with don't either  idk  I really can't seem to find out why

sm_vt · Answer

Im going to be blunt with you, lack of attraction, besides after talking to a lot of my friends about the topic, it is more of a racial thing, I mean you have to admit, most of the most beautiful woman in the world are white

Anonymous · Answer

I'm white, I wouldn't mind a little jungle fever if your attractive. Anyway to answer you're question... I think it has something to do with pink nipples.

Anonymous · Answer

Simple. They just don't find them attractive. What is the big deal about it? Do South Indian or Combodian or Somalian girls raise that issue? They all find people in their own race who find them attractive.

TJ-Laser · Answer

i would love to date a black woman. black girls are hot.

FrogGuy · Answer

I've nearly dated a few myself. But a lot where I'm at have the "elitist" attitude. That they're better than other girls

Charnelle · Answer

The same thing that stops any guy...fear of rejection.

Heart · Answer

i hate these questions, I really do. it doesn't always have to be about race.

Curlyfries316 · Answer

I like some black girls. But I prefer White or Hispanic.

amatuer_zombie · Answer

no offence but I m kinda honest person i guess for me its less attraction

DDenmont · Answer

I'd probably say it's either bigotry or lack of attraction.  I too am attracted to all skin colors.

SpeakTheTruth · Answer

First and foremost intimidation. Social stigmas, maybe, but the young people today are becoming more open-minded to dating other races.

tuzzz · Answer

black or white they are all women... Color is not a genetic factor in human but since someone asked :) I prefer black girls over the rest anyday and nothing can stop me.. I go by feelings and I feel more connection with them...

rocketship · Answer

Black women have on average larger vaginas than any other race of women. This is a turn-off for most non-black men. Studies have documented this. No other race can satisfy a black woman. Only a black man can.

dnowak · Answer

i love black girls! they are fine as hell and if you live in tampa fl hit me up at davidnowak88@excite.com

steeltown · Answer

White men do not want to have black kids. Its that simple.

matthew88 · Answer

for one thing there is a much higher chance of getting aids.

iNanoFirePANIC · Answer

I've never net a white dude that sisnt want a black chick..lol. My boyfriend is white and I've been with him for a year <33

gsfgh · Answer

The hair, they usually(not always, NOT STEREOTYPING) were there hair in a different way than other races.

cronotrigger30 · Answer

i just am not attracted to black girls I have no idea why

blaine1 · Answer

I never really cared what people thought regarding race. When 2 people find each other. .. who should care about the skin color? Ya know

Anonymous · Answer

I too find all races attractive, might be the negative stereotypes or even reluctant parents. I'd love to date a black woman.

man1234 · Answer

black woman are the best..

RollR · Answer

I have no idea, I LOVE black girls!

sheltielov3r · Answer

Probably lack of attraction... :/

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