4-6days of the week is okay. But talking to her alll day long for 6 days a week. You will both run out of things to talk about and she'll get bored.
As for the second question, yes and it also drives us insane, personally I'm really stubborn so I'll think about him all day but will refuse to text him.
The Goodmorning and goodnight text are nice on occasion but don't do it everyday if you are thinking about it. Sometimes it comes off a little creepy. (: maybe 2-3 times a week.
I sound really strict and there are no lines and number of how many times to do something in a relationship ya know? But thats my opinion on it. (: good luck with her.
Okay, if you contact a girl everyday that fine, but don't blow up her phone ever 30 seconds, because she has a life, lol to you know? and to much is when she doesn't text you back t all that means she can't take the stress anymore mostly. But in general, most girls like it when there crush blows up their phone it makes them feel like someone cares for them. And yes if u contact that girl less there is a 50, 50 chance she will want you more.
i think if you like someone you should want to talk to them all the time, so as for contacting her/him all the time, go for it. especially if they like you back. it's nice to have something like that tbh, but if the guy cuts back on initiating i get the wrong idea and think that he lost interest or something, so no, it doesn't make me want him, it honestly is confusing and drives me crazy, not in a good way lmao
Every girl loves attention from a guy she likes.. if she responds to your texts pretty quickly and she leaves the conversation open, she likes you and wants you to respond... if her reply ends a conversation, then leave it a few days and text her again... if its another short conversation ending text, she isn't interested.
A guy should initiate as much as possible. Don't ever look back because it's always better to know than not at all rather than contemplate of what could have been or should have been. If you get rejected, simply move on and repeat the process over and over again. You'll get used to it
If she contacts u back and seems receptive to it... then in my opinion it's OK to contact her once everyday.
Make her earn the right to be contacted all the time. If she doesn't reply then it is OK to be more sparse with contact.
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It should be two- way communication. Initiate the talks the first couple of times, but after that she too needs to initiate sometimes. If it's always you who has to initiate, you can safely assume that she's not interested in you, and quit pursuing her.
I enjoy getting talked to by my crush everyday becuase we sit by each other in advanced math. He's always asking me to help him and that is a huge turn on. I get antsy when he doesn't talk me, and want to say something but don't. If they don't like you back, they may get annoyed and I'm sure you'd be able to tell. If she doesn't seem to like you back, maybe stay back a bit, but you can always bold and ask for a phone number. she may surprise you.
If a guy I like rarely contacts me , it doesn't make me want him more. I would back off thinking he feels indifferent towards me. The more contact I have with him... the stronger my feelings grow.
Less contact = distance between two people. Feelings fade over time
it depends, if you are always the one who initiates the contact then don't overdo it but if she also starts writing you sometimes then it is fine if you text a lot
if i like a boy and he texts me i am happy, if he would then contact me less i'd assume he now likes someone else
why not just make things simple and ask her for a date? if she says yes -> yay, if she says no -> you are not wasting time
Personally, if the guy keeps contact with me on a regular basis and I know he likes me, that will make me want to initiate the conversation with him as well if I like him back. And sometimes it's good to have a period that you go without talking, for me it makes me even more crazy about them, but don't overdo it nor let the girl think you are simply ignoring her.
If I like the guy back I want him to contact me every day and I'll lose patience if I have to wait. I don't think it's generally true that girls like less contact. Girls like attention from guys they like.
by contact? what do you mean?
like talking, texting, touching?
if it's for talking in person, do it everyday. if it's texting, do it during the weekends. if its touching, do it everyday! lol
if you contact her less, she'll go cold bro
It depends how well she responds. If she texts first sometimes, and she replies whenever you text her, then it's probably okay to contact her once a day.
if she always ignores you, then never text her.
Other than that you can never be sure.
I’m clingy so i’m looking for another clingy person. If he plays it cool i just think he lost interest and i start playing the field again. If we aren’t in a committed relationship. If i was a guy I would match her rate of texting but text little more than she does (not wildly more). Since women like to feel wanted.
You mean conversational contact?
I think it depends on how she responds, does she seem eager to maintain contact with you as well or not so much?
You can text or message her everyday but definitely not a hundred messages in one day. Giver her some space but let her know you're there
Trust me,. if the girl likes you back she willw want you to contact her everyday!!!
Enough contact to let her know you are interested. But not Enough to bother her!.
In my opinion, i would like a man who likes me to be in contact daily so i would get the hint that he actually likes me and he isn't there just to talk
once he's told her he likes her (which should be in the beginning) it should be 50/50 from there out.
I personally think you should text her whenever you want to. Personally my current question is opposite from yours. My guy has been distant the last few day. I want him to message me. So yah go for it.
If she isn't acting like she like you much I'd say less is better. Don't bombard her. On the other hand, if you both are feeling a connection, everyday can be good. Or if you feel like that's too much. What for her to contact you some times.
As often as you're comfortable with.
Her own comfort will show.
If it's below yours, let up. If it's clear she's not interested, give up.
As much as often but not too much because you don't want to suffocate her.
More contact will make her want you more. It's the proximity effect.
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