There is this guy in our friends group who said that he went with this girl for two dates, but he mentioned that they don't text each other because they save all the talk when they meet every three weeks.
The reason why I am asking because I thought he should have been more interested to know her and texting regularly was the norm.
This guy was flying to work in another state for 6 months and the night before his flight he chose to spend it at my place for dinner with our friends. We all thought he should have spent it with her.
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His reason sounds smart on a logical level but it unintendedly tells the woman that he doesn't find her interesting enough to a level where they wouldn't have much left to talk about, presumably because she isn't all that interesting, if they were to conversate between seeing each other.
That's what we thought as well, thanks for the reply!
General dating advice tells men to not text too much and/or only text to make plans in the early stages of dating. Texting isn’t a great tool for getting to know someone unlike a phone call or even better, meeting up with them in person. Also men fear saying the wrong thing or something being misinterpreted in text.
Interesting perspective, never heard that before
A lot actually, but I wouldn't overdo it.