Prom Night Hookup?

[rockmysocks]

Ok, so after prom and partying, me and my date went back to his house and watched a movie. So we're watching, and we start kissing and it gets intense and almost got too far but I stopped him, and said that I didn't want him to get the wrong impression of me. And so we kept kissing and I kind of gave him a mini hand job but I stopped after a little while.

I kept telling him I have respect for me and him, and his parents, and like I was super turned on and super tempted, but It wasn't right, especially because it was like the first date kind of thing. And I know he was like mad/waywaybummed, because I left him hanging, and left him hard w/o fixing it for him. And I didn't let him touch me or anything like that.

So my question is, Is he gonna like hate me for last night? And like stop liking me, and will it be awkward? Guys- what would you think of the girl if that happened to you?

Please help - I need advice

Thnks

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+1 y

Me and my date have had a thing for each other for a while, and we've been friends for a while too. When I asked him, he said he wasn't mad, that it was just a "buzz kill". Did I like ruin things for us?

[ronniedobbs]

Heat of the moment. At your age, and for him especially, it is ridiculously hard to hold back from doing anything that feels good. Emotionally, no he doesn't hate you, he just wanted things to go a certain way once they started. Sexually, for a man, it's really difficult to stop things once they've gone past the point of no return. When you started to give him a handjob, his body got ready for a release, for orgasm. When you stopped it, it causes a sometimes painful condition known as blue balls, which is a mild case of epididymitis. When a man approached climax, long before he ejaculates a lot is happening, and the point of no return is when the sperm leaves the testicles but has still not yet entered the penis. It gets blocked up and causes a stinging pain (which he most likely relieved later on his own)

As it has been said before, don't let him pressure you into anything you don't want to do, and if he gets mad at you for not putting out, then he's a jerk. But, do expect him to be a little annoyed when he is built up that far, only to be let down. The old saying, "Don't pull it out unless you're gonna use it" fits well here. Don't get into anything you don't want to do, and don't let him mistreat you.

As for what I would think, honestly at my age I'd be confused that a girl would not want to be touched, but give me half a handjob. Sex is a two way street, if you don't get anything out of it that's quite unfair. You're young though, it will be less scary and confusing when you meet the right guy and have a little better idea of who you are and what you want. Take it slow, at your own pace, and be strong for yourself.

[tsondie21]

If he does not like you after that, its probably for the better. Don't let a guy pressure you into doing anything you don't want to. It is not your responsibility to throw yourself at him. You are yours, not his.

[Anonymous]

He properly disappointed take things slower you both like each other good luck.