Most guys are usually so nervous, that they'll keep things simple. For this guy, his sarcasm is what got ur positive attention in the first place, right? So in his mind, he's just going with what "works." He doesn't percieve what he's saying as bad, because, according to him, at one point you expressed fondness for his funny condesending tone. He's just nervously stuck, and is unsure what other forms of communication also grab ur attention. You do get what I'm saying, right?
So, essentially, yes, he's flirting. In the best way he knows how with you, so far. Just talk to him. Tell him you want to take him more seriously, but his manner is kinda over done. Try telling him this without making him feel like he's "nothing but annoying" to you. Let him know that you want to see another side of him, if he can.
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Decide whether the sarcasm is tolerable for you. It seems that it is not.
Talk with him about your concerns and mixed signals that you get from him. This way you can find whether he has a deep side.
After that discussion the solution should be clear.
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sound like he is still nervous around you like he is still not sure how to act and he might think that texting will take the place of face to face conversations.
He's a jerk, but a jerk who likes you. If you're both going to carry on with this, it's acceptable to let him know when he's being an idiot.
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