A couple weeks ago I was in my first love triangle. One of the guys, We'll call him Dave, was very into me and did the cutest things to try and win me over, yet I wasn't totally feeling it. The second guy, Paul, was the one I was more interested in. They both new about each other, I was honest about that. They met twice. This triangle started without me even being aware of it. I was into Paul, but Dave started to have strong feelings for me.. so I guess that's how it started. I was confused because Dave seemed like the perfect guy, doing all those nice things for me, and he's basically like a boy version of myself. I wasn't that attracted to him though. But with Paul, oh man... I wanted to just devour him every time I saw him. Paul and I had lots of fun together but I felt I was more into it than he was.
Anyway to make a long story short, I got so frustrated with juggling the two and not knowing who to pick, I told both of them to go away. I had a long talk with Paul, I told him I didn't know if I could be with him because he didn't seem as into it as me. He's a very busy guy, works 3 jobs and goes to school. He told me we should be friends because he couldn't give me what I wanted until March. We ended on a good note, or so I thought. I come home and go on Facebook and he had deleted and blocked me. I was confused.
After all that I ended up giving Dave a chance. I know I care about him, but we were friends before we were romantically involved, so its a weird transition and I still don't know how I feel about him. Anyway, to conclude, I've been thinking about Paul a lot lately, and I know now that the Olympics are over he's not working as much.. he unblocked me on Facebook but didn't add me as a friend again. I haven't talked to him in a couple weeks. I was hoping he'd text me eventually, but so far he hasn't.
What do you think I should do in this situation? I know its better to keep your distance when your into a guy and make them chase you, I've always gone by the saying "if they want you they will come get you" but I;m regretting leaving Paul. I miss him, and I feel we could have been great together.
Btw, I will NEVER let myself be in a triangle again. Learned my lesson!
Thanks in advance!
Anyway to make a long story short, I got so frustrated with juggling the two and not knowing who to pick, I told both of them to go away. I had a long talk with Paul, I told him I didn't know if I could be with him because he didn't seem as into it as me. He's a very busy guy, works 3 jobs and goes to school. He told me we should be friends because he couldn't give me what I wanted until March. We ended on a good note, or so I thought. I come home and go on Facebook and he had deleted and blocked me. I was confused.
After all that I ended up giving Dave a chance. I know I care about him, but we were friends before we were romantically involved, so its a weird transition and I still don't know how I feel about him. Anyway, to conclude, I've been thinking about Paul a lot lately, and I know now that the Olympics are over he's not working as much.. he unblocked me on Facebook but didn't add me as a friend again. I haven't talked to him in a couple weeks. I was hoping he'd text me eventually, but so far he hasn't.
What do you think I should do in this situation? I know its better to keep your distance when your into a guy and make them chase you, I've always gone by the saying "if they want you they will come get you" but I;m regretting leaving Paul. I miss him, and I feel we could have been great together.
Btw, I will NEVER let myself be in a triangle again. Learned my lesson!
Thanks in advance!
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Ugh ALSO, I just checked on facebook and he blocked me again out of no where?! I know he blocked me because I asked my friend to search him and he came up for her.
Whats up with that?!?!
Whats up with that?!?!
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