Anyway, the difference here from most similar situations, is that we have been texting non-stop for over a week now, at least every 30 min if not constantly at night. We also both send huge long texts, like paragraphs long. So nothing had changed, we had both been texting long and quick as normal, but the last text I got was just 'lol'. Granted I did not really ask a question and could have just kept going with what we were saying, but I didn't want to force it or seem clingy- so I just let it go and now we are in an awkward silence...
A female friend said sometimes girls do something like that to see how interested the guy is (if he keeps trying)?
I have never enjoyed texting a girl so much and would really like to keep this going until we can meet up, at least to give it a chance in person. I will likely text her tomorrow anyway, but what do you all think?
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Don't fuckin text her. You're too emotionally involved. What I've found is that when I got a girls number for my friend and texted her for him... she was proper interested because I never acted needy since it wasn't me who liked the girl but my friend.
In other words you want to bond with her which is good but she'll notice you're thirsty. I'm not suggesting games but u need to know when to take a break.
The more you talk to her in a short amount of time the less value u have. U made a mistake you created a lull in the convo and it ended. You of left when the Convo was exciting still. Never leave on a flat note
Well its been 24 hours by this point. i was going to just wait and text tomorrow or Sunday if she does no respond. If she never texts back, are you suggesting I just leave it?
If she doesn't text back in 3days then text her. But I suggest u know what you are dealing with. If she doesn't text back in that time text her but if a situation occurs where you leave the last message and she doesn't respond and doesn't text back after several days you have a hard to get type of girl on your hands.
Just tell her you are busy that way when you talk to her she will value your time more and also know that when she doesn't text the world doesn't stop for you
Well technically she was the last to text, but I absolutely get what you are saying. I am thinking I might text Sunday night some because I'm free anyway and I do actually ha a a busy Saturday haha