Sexually attracted to my best friend who is a girl?

[Anonymous]

i think I'm sorta sexually attracted to my best friend whose a girl? like we always joke with each other and call each other sexy and talk about "sexy time" with each other. most of it is jokes but then she always smacks my butt and I do it to her. and we take showers together because I mean were both girls. sometimes it looks like she's checking me out. every night I spend the night we cuddle and sleep holding each other. all this is just normal friends stuff but on my birthday she kissed me, like full out french kiss and told me that was my birthday present. I spent the night at her house that night and we were just laying on her bed looking at each other. also when I spend the night she kisses me goodnight, just a little kiss on the lips. I'm pretty sure this is all normal friends stuff but I kinda like it. should I try anything? I don't want to screw up our friendship but I think she wants it to. if I should try anything how do I do it? I've never done anything with a girl before.

[Marfan]

It's not normal friendship. But clearly she likes it - and you do too. Next time you sleep together and start cuddling, kiss her back - or don't let her stop - and see where it leads. Trust me, being with a girl is amazing - that's why guys like it. Just do to her body what you would like her to do to yours.

[Anonymous]

french kissing isn't something bff do no matter how close...thats hot though lol. but I think she like you

[Asker]

Well yeah but that's the only thing that's past friendship so I'm not sure.

[TaurusFemmeFatale]

I think she's interested. The french kiss on the birthday? Come on. But before making a move, I would just come out and tell her...What gives?

[Anonymous]

I do not know of friends that kiss and cuddle when spending the night so I am not so sure it is normal friend activity. That being said it sounds like you 2 are close and like to play so it seems you have 3 choices. Do nothing and let her make the first real move to advance things. You make the first real move and see her reaction. Or the last thing is just asking her if she wants to do anything more. It seems as though your half way there and if your both enjoying it take it up a notch.

[debsman]

Next time you shower together, offer to wash her back, then see if she wants you to wash anything else. That should pretty much let you know how far she is willing to go.

[Anonymous]

Meh experiment if you want... or if you want to keep the friendship and don't want things to get weird, awkward find someone else to experiment with do whatever feels right think things through...