I am a straight female and I am crushing on my female friend?

[Anonymous]

I think I am attracted to/crushing on my female friend (we are both female).

I am a straight cis gender woman. I have this one girlfriend, also cis gender and straight. I am really attracted to her, she is beautiful and I love her personality. Sometimes I think about kissing her and when she lightly touched me I felt a lot of sexual tension inside me. I never even kissed a woman before, and been in long term relationships with men only. I feel kinda weird feeling like this, but I don’t want to act on it and loose the friendship.

So i don’t really know what to do

[Sixgunsound]

It sounds like you have some feelings to work out regarding just how straight you actually are. I guess the better question is are the feelings recurring or was it a one off situation? If it occurred at all it’s still something you need to explore, whether it’s some thing you would ever act on or not, but if it keeps reoccurring then you need to consider a real honest chat with yourself. It may be upsetting or life disrupting to discover this about yourself, but dishonesty with yourself only ends up hurting you over time.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[Anonymous]

Opinion no.
I believe in openness. Among friends, marriages, families people need to feel free to express what they feel.
If your friend touches you and you feel a reaction, try telling her. If you think she is beautiful tell her. If you are attracted to her and don't know why tell her.
I don't necessarily agree with certain viewpoints, orientations or what have you, but it cannot be denied that openness and honesty without the fear of judgment is good and healthy. That should obviously exist with friends.

[SecretsofKB]

You may be bisexual. And really, ask you can do is just feel it out and see if maybe she has the same sort of feelings as you do.

Oh, and for others in this question, not all women are bisexual...

[SecretsofKB]

And good to know that certain someone is deleting me comments...

[D_Bone_Steak]

You're at least bi. Stright people simply don't have those kinds of thoughts. Try masturbating to some lesbian porn and see if you like it... my wife does that (lesbo porn and masturbates), which is awesome for me a straight cis gender dude or whatever effing terms you're using there. It equals threesomes and nothing is more awesome for me than banging more chicks. I digress... Yeah, try it out.

[Th3ft]

I mean it sounds like you are at least bi curious. I would suggest asking her if she has ever looks at girls or if she is at all attracted to girls. Just as a starting point. But I mean it sounds like you are at least really in to her. That being said have heard of girls being totally straight and yet having had a denial relationship that went great and that she was only ever willing to do things with that one girl but only wanted to date boys

[ChrisMaster69]

Really tempted to say troll, as it’s a common thing on GaG… however benefit of doubt.

Close friendships can kick up weird feelings.

It is a hard thing to face how you feel.

I wOuld look at how you feel with other girls, is there any attraction or interest you feel, or just with your friend

it’s is something you may have to feel your way around with your friend, there is no real easy way.

[slatyb]

Maybe you aren't so straight. Nothing wrong with that.

[Anonymous]

If I had a guy friend that came into me it would definitely compromise the friendship. Not purposely, but I would never be able to look at him the same way. Women seem to all be at least slightly bi-curious, so women could be different.

[007kingifrit]

these new sex labels are useless. normal straight girls generally enjoy other women sometimes, it doesn't mean you would want to date one or be in a relationship with them

[Anonymous]

Then you ain't straight you're bisexual or at the very least biromantic

[anylolone]

You either aren't straight, or you aren't actually crushing.

[Anonymous]

Lol, another "straight" woman who is sexually attracted to other women.

[LimitedBenefits101]

its normal, women are born bi

[Nads111]

True

[MountAverage]

And how is any of that straight?

[In_Trance]

yea... straight alright